Poems about quarreling and persuasion

1. Advise those who quarrel with famous aphorisms to be lenient and fierce, lenient and fierce, and take peace as their politics. The will is as strong as iron and the measure is as big as the sea. Only by respecting others can people be respected. People who can't tolerate others are not worthy of being tolerated by others. -(Russia) Turgenev A great man has two hearts: one is bleeding and the other is tolerant. People who respect others will always respect others. -Mencius Long Fang, a famous writer in Li Lou, once quoted the definition of tolerance in the Encyclopedia Britannica in his masterpiece Tolerance: Tolerance refers to allowing others to act or judge freely; Patiently and without prejudice tolerate opinions that are inconsistent with one's own or accepted views. The definition of tolerance in Modern Chinese Dictionary of our country is: magnanimous, not caring, not pursuing. 1. Forgiving others is actually forgiving yourself. A little more tolerance for others will actually give us more space in our lives. With friends, you will have care and support, and you will not be lonely. Life with friends will be less stormy and more warm and sunny. In fact, tolerance is always sunny. 2. Tolerance means forgetting. Everyone has pain and scars. When exposed, new things will be added, and old scars and new wounds will be difficult to heal. Forget yesterday's right and wrong, forget other people's previous accusations and abuse, time is a good painkiller. Learn to forget and life will be sunny and happy. Let bygones be bygones. Everyone makes mistakes. If you cling to their past mistakes, it will form an ideological burden and limit your own thinking and the development of each other. Even betrayal is not intolerable. The person who can bear betrayal is the strongest person, who will take the initiative in the atmosphere with his strong mind and give people confidence and motivation with his majesty. Therefore, it is better to prevent or reduce betrayal. 4. Tolerance is chic. "There are horses everywhere, and every family has a way to Chang 'an. "Being generous to others and tolerant of criticism is the way to success in your career and happiness in your family. Everything is haggle over every ounce, and it is also tiring to live. It is rare to experience the world once, and chic is the most important. Tolerance is a kind of strength, not weakness. Tolerance should retreat for progress. The initiative is in your own hands. Helplessness and inevitability cannot be regarded as tolerance. The highest state of tolerance is compassion for all beings. 6. Tolerance means not being forced when others don't agree with you. From a psychological point of view, any idea has its reason. Any motive has certain incentives. Only by knowing the root of the other person's thoughts and finding the basis of their views can we put ourselves in the other person's shoes. The proposed scheme can also be accepted more in line with each other's psychology. Eliminating obstacles and confrontation is the only way to improve efficiency. Everyone has their own views and experiences on life. We should respect their knowledge and experience, actively absorb the essence between them and do a good job of sublation. 7. Tolerance means patience. Criticism from peers, misunderstanding from friends, too many arguments and "counterattacks" are really not enough. Only calmness, patience and understanding are the most important. I believe in this famous saying: "Tolerance is a grain growing among thorns. "If you can take a step back, the world will naturally be broader. 8. Tolerance also requires skill. Giving opportunities is not connivance, nor is it exempting the other party from responsibilities. Everyone needs to be responsible for their actions; Everyone has to bear all kinds of consequences. Otherwise, the other party will repeatedly violate the prohibition (mistake) and show weakness. 9. motto about tolerance: violets leave fragrance on the ankles. This is forgiveness. " -Mark Twain's way of being a gentleman is loyalty and forgiveness. Do as you would be done by. I don't want others to do anything to me. Rivers and seas do not choose small streams, so they can become deep. (Reese) "Tolerance is like a drizzle in the sky, nourishing the earth. It blesses those who are tolerant Bless those who are included. -A line from Shakespeare's famous play The Merchant of Venice ● Tolerance is the only test of civilization (Help) ● The art of wisdom is the art of knowing what to tolerate (william james) ● The spirit of generosity is the greatest of all things (Owen) ● There are many such occasions in life: the goal you intend to achieve with resentment is the goal you can achieve through forgiveness. It can be achieved through forgiveness (Sidney Smith) ● Forgive sincerely, and then forget (Britain) ● Forgiveness is human nature, and forgetting is god's nature (James Glenn) ● Tolerant people have the least patience, and tolerant people are the least tolerant (bernays) ● The noblest revenge is tolerance (Hugo) ● People who live without tolerance. (Turgenev) ● God of justice, tolerance is our most perfect behavior (Wordsworth) ● Only brave people know tolerance; Cowards will never be tolerant, which is not his nature (Stern) ● Tolerance is either beneficial or harmful to people (Burke) ● Those who hurt other people's teeth but oppose revenge and advocate tolerance should never approach him-(Lu Xun) ● They want to be warm and smooth, but they don't want to be thorough. ● Let a hundred flowers blossom and a hundred schools of thought contend ● Strictness is love. It is harmful to spoil you ● Love you deeply, and blame you strictly (law) ● Family is not strict to recruit thieves, people are not strict to take risks ● Teaching is not strict, and teachers are not strict with you ● If you want to be a square, the rules must be strict ● Gentlemen love virtue, villains love tolerance ● Responsibility should be broad ● Responsibility should be strict ● Be strict with yourself, be lenient with others ● Forgive others with love, and be diligent and kind with reason. Heavy responsibilities, but thin responsibilities ● Blame others, forgive others ● Try to forgive others, but never forgive yourself (Silas) ●