Care for empty nesters, and don't let the 82-year-old grandfather have a cerebral infarction at noon on June 6th 1 20XX 1 1 7.
That afternoon, I was in a literature class in Class Two, Grade Two, a school. When it happened, my parents didn't tell me the first time because I made an appointment with the school for many days and suddenly changed. It was not until early the next morning that my mother called me. Grandpa was going to make lunch yesterday, and suddenly he had a cerebral infarction and fell in the hospital alone. Fortunately, the neighbor next door heard grandpa crying when he was still conscious, so he asked someone to take him home and contacted his father and aunt who worked in the hospital. Aunt used an ambulance to take grandpa to the hospital for emergency treatment.
For me, the news is really unexpected and sudden. Go back for dinner together the other day. Grandpa was in a good mood. How could this happen suddenly?
At that moment, like a bolt from the blue, electricity hit my head, and I was dizzy, flustered and sobbing. Hearing my urgent crying, my mother said I was emotional. Let's take a taxi to the hospital instead of driving. I leaned against the wall and took the phone to tell my mother that it was okay, and then I drove to the hospital with tears and runny nose.
My home is not far from grandpa's hospital, but I am in such a hurry that I hate flying at every traffic light.
Along the way, my grandmother was seriously ill before she left, and the day when my grandfather got sick happened to be half a year after my grandmother left, not a day. I can't imagine grandpa falling down alone, let alone what is going on now.
When I arrived at the hospital, my father, uncle, aunt and all my family were there, but my grandfather was in the intensive care unit, so I couldn't see him.
I stood outside the door of the intensive care unit and looked up at the word NICU in the dim light. I can't compare with that moment at any time in my life, and I want to see grandpa's urgency.
I touched the glass door of the ICU ward with my hand, and I held the wall, which was unbearable. Poor grandpa, grandma has been brave and strong since she left someone. I can't cook all my life, but I stay alone in that big yard every day and eat clumsily for that bite. Now, there is a man lying in the yard. It was the desire to survive that made him yell at his next-door neighbor when he fell and his limbs didn't work.
Fortunately, I fell in the yard and the door was open; Fortunately, the neighbor next door happened to be in the yard and heard the cry in time; Fortunately, the weather was not particularly cold in those days, otherwise?
If you fall into the yard, there is no one at home next door, or someone happens to be in the house; I fell home, didn't scream every day, the ground was ineffective, and no one went back for a few days; If the weather is very cold, as it has been a few degrees below zero recently, the hospital did not rescue it in time. ...
Although I am lucky, what hurts me more is those unimaginable things.
Until today, grandpa, who has been hospitalized for nearly a month, has hardly seen any obvious improvement. Think about grandpa's energetic and well-dressed appearance before, but now he is hard to get up in bed and has a stomachache. In fact, liquid food is good. How many days did the liquid last? In recent days, I barely drank a little rice soup and a little milk.
The onset doesn't start with people. Maybe no matter who you are with or where you are, the onset time is unstoppable. However, my heart is always full of nameless regrets, but I can't say what I regret. I just feel like a thorn in my heart, and I can't say the pain.
Everyone has a family and every family is old. How to take care of the elderly properly is the unshirkable responsibility of every child in every family. When people reach middle age, they are old in the world, young in the world, and have jobs to make a living in the middle. It is really impossible to be in two places at once. Some old people are willing to listen to their children's arrangements, no matter whether you dislike them or not, they are with their children anyway. And old people like grandparents, with their grandmothers around, are even more reluctant to be with their children. Now that grandma is gone and grandpa is alone, he still doesn't want to live with the children.
Even if the disease is not caused by people, at least you can have a convenient meal with your child. You don't have to cook all your life. You are over 80 years old, and you have to worry about food. After all, no matter how children and grandchildren find time to go back to visit and cook, that is, one meal and two meals, it is inevitable that they will be puzzled.
In the past few days in the hospital, grandpa always said that he wanted to have a good meal and drink a bowl of porridge. My heart hurts like a knife. For a long time, delicious food has not been unaffordable, but what's the use of home-cooked food when no one cooks it?
Poor grandpa, you must get better. Give everyone another chance, just make sure to have three meals a day.
At the same time, I sincerely appeal to the friends who read this article. If there are old people in your family, no matter how busy, please take good care of them.
Especially the empty nesters, although the road ahead is still long, it is only for you. Just because there is a long time, I can arrange whatever I want to do in the future, and the old man only has now. For the elderly, everything can wait, but filial piety can't wait. Don't let the old man who has worked hard all his life be lonely and miserable in his later years.
Care for empty nesters and don't let them live alone.
Give yourself a little care. 2 Life is alive. We play different roles at different times. We are children, wives, husbands, parents and ancestors. In the workplace, being a subordinate, being a leader, being a colleague ... In every period, with the change of roles, we shuttle back and forth from being taken care of to taking care of others, sometimes even in a chaotic concept, thus ignoring the simple truth of which is more important. ...
Perhaps, in caring for the younger generation and supporting the older generation, perhaps, we are too dedicated in the workplace, perhaps, we have been immersed in the business world for too long ... This has caused us to have little time to care about ourselves and even forget our existence, so many unsatisfactory things will happen around us from time to time. People! Learn to care about yourself. Only when we take care of ourselves can we have more energy to take care of others and do what we should do.
Give yourself a little care, leave a space for yourself appropriately, don't turn yourself into a gyro, and don't turn yourself into nothing. Get up early in the morning and watch the rosy clouds; Take a walk in the evening to watch the sunset; In leisure time, go for an outing in groups of three or five; Climbing mountains and wading to see mountains and rivers ... this is a kind of care for yourself!
Give yourself a little care, learn to care about yourself, and don't embarrass yourself for what you can't do; Don't be too persistent in an irreversible situation; As long as you do everything with your heart, learn to "play with yourself" to discover the beautiful things in life, pat the grass and flowers with your mobile phone, and have a karaoke and simple teahouse party with your friends on weekends, all these are enough to make you happy!
Give yourself a little care. You can live your life without climbing. You should know: if people kill people, the goods will be thrown away. You know, simple tea is no less than delicious food; Small dwelling houses are not inferior to luxury villas; Koji in the forest is as refreshing as it is; Deep mountains and valleys are also refreshing. There are many hardships in life. Relaxation is the best policy!
To learn to care for yourself, you must let yourself be grounded, savor the original flavor of life with your heart, let the symphonies of pots and pans play in dull days, let your heart no longer entangle, let your feelings no longer bind you, and wait for that faint time with a simple heart!
Waiting, really don't need fantasy and waiting. In the long river of time, watch the changes of time, taste a beauty, chew a bitterness, give yourself a little warmth and comfort your soul ... Perhaps, after many years, these' pasts' will become beautiful fragments for you to look back on the past!
Learn to care about yourself and understand that there are many disappointments in life. The key is to find ways to make yourself forget your troubles and find happiness from them. Man is actually a "storage tank". Space is very limited. More troubles, less happiness. The only thing you can control is yourself. You can't control your troubles, but you can escape them with happiness. Happiness is also gathered bit by bit. Over time, the share of happiness is greater and the troubles are less and less. Only in this way can you enjoy the happiness brought by happiness.
Learning to care for yourself can make life more colorful, and learning to care for yourself can make life more radiant and fulfilling.
Caring for the elderly 3 CCTV's "My Mom and Dad" program and "Remembering Alzheimer's Disease" activities have both broken people's hearts, made people feel heartbroken and deeply grieved.
Is it a mountain out of a molehill to "clear the name" for a disease? Thought-provoking.
The occurrence of diseases is a normal phenomenon of human physiology, a natural law, and even an irresistible natural law. No matter what you call it, sickness or illness, the symptoms are hard to alleviate or eliminate. Perhaps, different names give patients different psychological hints and feelings, and have different effects on the disease, but I'm afraid there is still little about "Alzheimer's disease".
The author totally agrees to rename this disease, and also agrees with the opinions of most netizens, calling it "brain degeneration". Reason: It is not only easy to understand, easy to understand, but also suitable for symptoms, respecting patients and their families, reflecting humanistic care, which is in line with China's national conditions.
In view of the fact that the activity of "correcting the name" is not over yet, the author still calls it "Alzheimer's disease" for the time being.
Although the author lacks a real understanding of this disease, he has witnessed the symptoms of patients and even contacted patients. His unfortunate experience is sympathetic, pitying and sad. Fear is indescribable.
However, the author believes that it is not important to "correct the name" of the disease, but to arouse the attention of the whole society to the elderly, especially to many patients such as Alzheimer's disease, and to arouse the attention and prevention of Chinese people to the "third killer" of health. CCTV's "Rectifying Name" campaign has achieved the expected purpose.
Everyone has to go through the natural stage of "old age", and everyone will get old, especially in China, where the wave of aging has hit. The problem of "aging" is becoming more and more serious, so it is particularly important to plan ahead, care for the elderly and pay attention to "Alzheimer's disease".
"There are unexpected events in the sky, and people are doomed." Combination of prevention and control, focusing on prevention.
Let's keep a good attitude, be positive and optimistic, work hard, be diligent in activities, think hard, study hard, think hard, and enjoy health, life, happiness and family happiness.
Let each of us young people be patient and meticulous, take good care of the elderly and take good care of the "two ends" of life-childhood and old age.
Let every healthy person give more dedication and care, think of the elderly everywhere, think of patients with dementia everywhere, think of vulnerable groups everywhere and provide them with more convenience. For the elderly to enjoy their old age, spare no effort and make our contribution!
May our society and government provide better living conditions, medical conditions, cultural and recreational conditions for the elderly, and lay a solid foundation for building a harmonious society.
Facing the reality, caring for students 4 What is a school? Education is the cause of perfecting people. With such a goal orientation, education will have ideals and beliefs; Then the school should be a place to awaken human nature, be close to good, stay away from ignorance and reject evil.
Everyone says teaching is hard. In ancient times, there was a saying that "there are five buckets of rice in the family, and you can't be the king." It is true that being a teacher is hard and tiring, and being a good teacher is even harder and more tiring, but this is our chosen profession, so all we have to do is work silently.
On September 2008 1, I was transferred to Luohe primary school, where my classes will be merged. I remember the expression of relief on the students' faces when they first walked into the second grade classroom. It may be that the teacher has seen too many serious expressions, and the new teacher feels relaxed. However, as soon as they entered the school, they heard many horror stories, such as classroom chaos, students being disobedient, and even deliberately opposing the teacher. They meditated. As a result, anger became the most common year in my life. Some people don't concentrate in class and don't finish their homework, which will cause my anger. So I will yell at the students who make mistakes in class, just because I think it will have a deterrent effect on the whole class, but I won't think about how this classmate will feel. I also ignored other students who were sitting in the classroom full of expectations, waiting for the teacher to teach the next lesson. They were curious about the content.
In fact, every child is lovely. Although some of them may have unsatisfactory academic performance, he is the champion of the sports meeting and an expert in labor. He offered to send his sick classmates home. Who can say that he is not a good boy and who is perfect?
I happened to read a story. The story tells that one night, an old Zen master saw a chair near the corner. Which monk violated the temple rules and went out for a walk? The old Zen master didn't say a word, went to the wall, moved the chair and squatted down on the spot. After a while, a young monk climbed over the wall and jumped into the yard on the back of the old Zen master in the dark. When he realized that he had just stepped on the teacher instead of the chair, he panicked and was tongue-tied. But the master didn't scold sharply, but said in a calm tone, "It's cold at night, so you should put on more clothes."
The story touched me deeply. The children are tolerant of their teachers. As long as you love them, they can forgive you for being unkind and angry with them. They worship you and love you. I often think that teachers should be more tolerant of students. Everyone has his own advantages and disadvantages. Maybe they often can't control their words and deeds, can't complete their learning tasks well, and may not have a brilliant future. But who says that an ordinary person is inferior to others? Just like the old monk in the story, it is obvious that tolerance is a silent education. Although it is important to instill book knowledge, creating a tolerant learning environment for students is more conducive to encouraging their personality strength and personality development. The overall trend of society, the educational atmosphere and the pressure of work and life sometimes make our teachers deviate from the direction.
Someone once said, "a teacher's casual words may create miracles;" A teacher's casual look may kill a talent. "Teachers' habitual behavior may have an immeasurable impact on students' lifelong development. As a teacher, we should always look back on our past education and reflect on how many regrets we have created, how many childlike innocence we have stabbed, and how many corners we should not forget! Being a teacher has no ability to light the fire, but it must not be put out! Facing the same curious and naive children, we should cherish and strive to make every child's heart full of sunshine and let every child grow up happily under the comfort of love. Every teacher giving up a student may reduce your work pressure, improve your education quality and win you honor, but what you give up is the bright future of a child and the hope of a family, which will be a regret for yourself forever!
The child's mind is pure and beautiful, such as crystal; The child's mind is fragile and fragile, such as glass. As teachers, we appreciate their crystal hearts; But also to protect their fragile self-esteem.
Whenever I want to get angry, I can't help thinking of my first time as a teacher. Sometimes I feel guilty and regret scaring those children; Sometimes I feel ridiculous and wonder why I was so angry at that time. Looking back now, I really feel that I did something wrong. At that time, maybe I was trying to maintain a little dignity, maybe I was trying to save a little face. In short, I just want to prove that I am a teacher and I am inviolable. In the process of running in with children again and again, I slowly learned tolerance and understanding. Students have low expectations of our teacher. As long as we are sincere, equal and appreciative, they will be satisfied and "do as they say". In the future, I will try to squat down and talk to the students and try to influence them with my own actions.
Happiness can make people live longer, and happiness can make people stay young forever. In our work and life, there will be many unsatisfactory places, but as long as we try to pick up happiness inadvertently, our life will be full of sunshine and our youth will not pass too fast. Therefore, don't throw away the happiness of others casually, and don't get rid of your own happiness easily. We should smile at everyone and our leaders every day.