Love, not vigorous, earth-shattering but unforgettable.
Love in real life is a trickle. There may have been a waterfall of passion, but in the end they all crashed into a slow trickle, tending to a gentle and stable emotional world.
Love is understanding and tolerance; Love is careful care for every detail; Love is the pouring of a little truth.
I will not regret choosing you.
Your calm and broad arms are a hotbed for my rest. Your tolerance and forbearance once made my temper longer.
We never had a vow of eternal love, but each other can read every subtle look.
The emotional world has always been so dull and calm, without gorgeous movements or even quarrels, but it will only bring us closer.
I am a kite, no matter how high and far I fly, I am not afraid of getting lost, because you are holding the line tightly at the other end and pointing out the direction for me.
We wrote a beautiful song with plain, no gorgeous bedding, no flashing background, only bits and pieces of true feelings.
The unit of love is the sky. Only by measuring day by day can we go through the years.
When we write down 3,000 days and nights with love, love will be by going up one flight of stairs-it will turn into a butterfly and emerge from its cocoon!
I will not regret choosing you.
When we get to the intersection, we will go our separate ways. When you say goodbye, try harder and have a look.
When we get to the intersection, we will go our separate ways. When you say goodbye, try harder and have a look. I don't look back after saying goodbye, not to say how determined I am, but to know that I will be reluctant to look back at those familiar faces. But we can't stay in the same place. The earth is round, but the road is straight. If we can meet again, it will make us all better. May we shine in the years when we can't see each other
What is profound is friendship.
That year, I met for the first time.
You too, a faint smile.
Not many languages.
I don't know if I'm shy or not sensible!
Later, for a long time.
We changed from strangers to good friends.
Walk around the corner with a smile.
Eat in your mouth and play without image!
Holding each other's hands,
Go to school together and go home together.
Even,
At school, shopping together, eating together,
No matter where you go when you go to the bathroom, you are together!
It's easy for us to tell each other what they like.
Wearing the same clothes and swimming in the street.
When you are sad, everyone can know an expression!
I often think,
Isn't it? We all live in each other's world!
Cry together,
Laugh together,
Make trouble together ...
We had a little conflict.
To this end, quarrel and then ignore each other.
Later,
Still can't stand those days without each other.
Smile and apologize to each other.
We can walk arm in arm again.
In front of each other, we never have to worry about so-called image and face.
You can swear without image,
You can do anything ugly without a face,
We can be together. No image and no face!
When we were shopping for clothes together.
Always like to ask each other's opinions,
They often say: you wear it yourself, not her.
But they don't understand,
I don't understand that age-old habit and concern!
Sometimes, we sit quietly on the playground.
Talked about a boy, and then smiled heartlessly.
Talk about each other's fantasies and longings.
Talk about what kind of husband to find and what kind of wedding dress to wear in the future.
Talking about being godmothers to each other's children in the future. ...
They always say that we are wearing a pair of pants,
We smiled at each other and never defended ourselves.
Some feelings, we know each other is enough.
When I am sad, the first thing I think of is the other person.
A phone call, no matter how busy, she can appear by my side!
Say to me:
Honey, you still have me.
We can cry loudly in front of each other.
When I was sick, there was someone who always cared about myself!
When bullied, there is always a person who is desperate to help himself!
Once upon a time, we talked about our future boyfriends together.
Later, we finally found the right person.
However, I also learned what pain is.
At that time, we didn't have a simple smile.
However, we know that we still have each other, the so-called sisters!
It's been a long time, the boys we love.
Gradually, we left it in our memories, unwilling to mention it or think of it.
"A sister, a lifetime of love" has always been in our hearts!
Slowly, we separated.
Although I can't see each other, I always care about each other!
At school, I was wronged and always called the other party to tell the Committee.
Bend down and listen to the other person swear!
Even though we haven't seen each other for a long time, our feelings are still the same!
Time has passed,
I still remember, as a little girl, you always carefully protected me younger than you!
I still remember reading magazines head to head and talking about us in class!
I still remember your hand holding me through countless spring, summer, autumn and winter.
I still remember what you did for me, those exciting things!
For me now,
I really miss the past.
At that time, we were small.
There is a shy stranger.
Then, to the later carelessness and ruthlessness!
primary school
primary school
senior high school
We care about each other in the same way.
We have doubts and quarrels.
weep
But we still haven't lost our friendship!
Thank you, thank you for walking with me!
Thank you, thank you for appearing in my world and living in my world!
Goodbye, my friend.
Gently open the message you sent,
Sima Guang's Xijiang Moon,
Last message for me.
I slowly covered it,
Throw it into an empty world,
Leave a real memory.
Sorry, my friend,
I can't give you what you want,
I don't want to get in your way,
I want to tell you the truth,
I'd rather you left me alone.
You're like a breeze,
Come and go gently.
Maybe one day,
When the wind chime in front of the window rings again,
I will think of you,
Think of those years when you accompanied me.
Goodbye, my friend,
Thank you for being with me,
When there are pains, joys and sorrows,
Although you will never know.
Maybe one day,
There is a petal floating in front of your door.
There is a breeze blowing in my ear,
That's my blessing and greeting to you.
Friend, everything is fine!
Supplementary explanation of Hangzhou go on road trip
Things go up and down, and the years go by. Those years and Huang Chong's days in Hang Cheng have become one of the few happy times for me in recent years. Every time when the world is in trouble, I will think of the past. At that time, I also had no money and no food, but I lived comfortably and proudly.
Because of Huang Chong and others, I have great feelings for men in Hanzhong, Sichuan. I have always felt that the people there are very atmospheric and generous. Compared with people in Jiangsu and Zhejiang, we are too stingy. When I go out occasionally, I always try to tell myself not to be too cautious, not to be stingy and meticulous, to take the initiative to pay more and think more about others. This has always been one of my main shortcomings. If it weren't for them, I'm afraid I wouldn't be clearly aware of this.
On that day, after separating from Hang Cheng, Huang Chong later went to Guangzhou, then made a detour to Chongqing, and then went back to Leshan and Chengdu, and I never saw him again.
Sometimes, when I hear someone say something about Chengdu, I always feel a sense of closeness from my heart. I think it's the closeness of family. They are all brothers, friends and people who can be trusted to get along with each other. It's really beautiful. When I heard some people in Jiangsu and Zhejiang talking about Sichuan, I felt a sense of disgust from their contemptuous expressions and language. Here is the indifference of human feelings, and the world is changeable. Even parents often kill their children in the name of love and force them to do something really self-defeating. This is by no means love, it is an invasion and strangulation of human nature, so this.
Thousands of years ago, the so-called Jiangnan scholars were all graceful and restrained by beautiful women. I have lived here for more than 20 years. After all, talented people are hard to meet, and beautiful women are just beautiful faces and breasts. There are very few people with real talent and feelings, and there are very few really beautiful women like dinosaurs. This is one of the reasons why I have been single for many years.
If you can give me a marriage when I am down and out, I long for a man with Yang Liuan and Xiaofeng, and I also want to be a girl who shows peony in The West Chamber, otherwise I will die in the dust like a grass dog, and I am also very happy and proud.
There have been many setbacks recently, and everything has been realized. In fact, I know that many, many years ago, I have seen the fate of my life, just as I know that the flowers in autumn will fall and the flowers in spring will bloom again. I also know my own fate, and now my fate is getting more and more fierce. I'm thinking that my life won't be long, so I'm too lazy to force anything. When everything is seen through, what can I do except silence? Of course, some people criticize me for being too weak. If I am still alive, I should be tough. However, I am indecisive after all. I really can't bear to hurt the hearts of people who raised me around me. Since I can't bear to hurt others, all the bitter fruits of nature can only be tasted by myself. What else can I do?
I am not a greedy person. I never thought I would hurt others for myself, but what they imposed on me was to put me in a dead position. I have nothing to say. When everything comes out, no one wants to investigate who is right and who is wrong.
The ultimate infatuation should be indifference;
At the end of intelligence, it should be dull;
And at the end of the world, it should be a quiet drift.
Finally, the dead don't ask, the truth doesn't matter, and there is silence.
Looking back on the past, the most emotional thing about drinking in recent years is that after the Hang Cheng storm, two hungry people left in a hurry, tired like two dogs, then bought wine and peanuts, lit a warm little lamp in the shack at the bottom of the book tower, and drank with a smile, which was like a dream.
I often vaguely feel that I am back to the point where I am half asleep. I love poor things, even a lonely life, but who can I really accompany, regardless of wealth and splendor, just say that we passed by and enjoyed the warm feeling of touching each other. That could be home!
So, I have been wandering in the future, wandering in the world, love and hate, gain and loss, laughter and silence, hope and despair, the light of the stars and the deep cold, and gradually understand that life between heaven and earth is suddenly like a passer-by, and that vague and unspeakable situation has been put down. Let them arrange it, and my life and death are doomed.
If I go to Chengdu in the future, I hope I have no tears, just like a monk wandering there, eating a light meal, meeting the mountains and stars there and smiling; It doesn't matter if old friends don't meet. I have always had that dream in my heart, even if the years are brilliant and ruthless, I can't lose it after all.
As time goes by, people are lazy, and they are more and more lazy to say anything to others. Anyway, they didn't understand what I said, and what I said was really boring. I advance and retreat with the birds, and I can wash and sleep with the turbid water.
I learned to drink and smoke, but I can't quit. It is a profound portrayal of delusion and regret in my bones.
I wish those I love, those I gradually forget, stability in reality and happiness in people's hearts.
I am gradually forgetting this world, and I hope they will gradually forget me, just as I have never been to this world.
My love is simple.
The best love I can think of is warm as spring, not hot, but it must be flowing. Two people who love each other appreciate each other first, but there are always differences between people that we need to run in, and whether this difference can be changed depends entirely on whether the two sides are really willing to run in and change for each other. The best state of two people together is to tolerate each other's small shortcomings, integrate into each other's circle of friends, and strive to like each other's hobbies.
My view of love can be summarized as follows.
1, a thing of the past is broken. When you meet someone who is kind to you and someone you like, you must be brave and never give up.
Everyone has a bad past. If you can't get through it all the time, but live with someone who is not good to you at will, you will get hurt in the end. In this world, nothing is static, either getting better or getting worse. After the dream I believed in was shattered, I stopped believing in the so-called true love in men's mouth until I met my husband, who made me believe and expect again, so I bravely took the first step and accepted his kindness and dedication to me, and my courage is also the most solid foundation for my good life now.
I met my husband, and now I feel that it is really fate. His kindness to me made me forget the past harm to me, let go of the past harm, and even appreciate the past harm, so that I met my husband who knew how to cherish me the most in those years. Fate is really beautiful, and it is this beauty that makes us love each other, and also makes us serious and brave.
2. Choosing another partner mainly depends on personality and character.
I used to think that finding a person with complementary personalities would make the marriage happier. But their personalities are different, so they don't talk on weekdays and can't find a common topic. Even if the whole world thinks that they are made for each other, such a marriage may not last long, but it is just similar in character. A similar outlook on life and money is the best guarantee for married life.
My husband and I are very similar in character. We all like to surprise each other. After I met my husband, my personality became more and more like him. My friends also said that I am cheerful and confident now, which all comes down to my husband's infection. After being with him, what appears most in my life is a smile, that kind of heartfelt happy smile. Since then, my outlook on life and money has been affected. I know that in this life, I can meet my husband and become Mrs. Su. This kind of life is already very satisfying. I only hope that we can be together in this life and live a healthy and ordinary life in the future. Because I am honored, I must be satisfied!
3, money view
Some people say that whether a man is good to you depends on whether he gives you all his salary cards after marriage, because money is the best thing to see the essence and feelings of a man. I don't object to or approve of this view, but first I want to praise my husband. He gave me this card before we got married, and it left a deep impression on me. In my eyes, my husband is perfect, because we are relatively transparent whether the salary card is given to me or not. He will inform me of any expenditure information in advance or afterwards, and will consult me before buying, but most of them will. The only thing I know is that I want to take care of my husband's hard-earned money, and I want him to work hard and have security outside, so I bought him a savings insurance, hoping that he will have more peace of mind and security when he shares joys and sorrows outside.
Although we are short of money at present, my husband has never been short of money on me, no matter what he wears or eats. He often goes off work or on business trips, and always brings some delicious snacks or fruits when he comes back. Because his job is day shift and night shift, he secretly bought many toys I like online to accompany me. When I didn't find a satisfactory job for a while, my husband also said that I could still have a good rest at home to fatten me up. My husband's warmth always makes me happy. He is my big white, warm and lovely. I know my husband is not easy. I want to share everything with him because he is my husband. I don't want him to work hard alone. I will not only be his wife at home, but also bear the wind and rain outside together.
Step 4 make it clear
We have something to say between us. We will say what we think, or what we are unhappy about. We will never leave our unhappiness from one day to the next. We will say what we have, and we won't let the other party guess what we think. There is nothing in love that we think the other person should be like, and we can't see what the other person wants at a glance, because we are all ordinary people, and only by speaking our inner thoughts can we let the other person know more. In the world of love, you can't guess, because some of them are buried too deep, and it's hard for you to guess. Therefore, communication is needed. Only by communicating with each other can life be happier.
My husband and I have been in love since we realized it, and there have been some unpleasantness and contradictions in the middle. At first, I was silent and sad. I always thought that he would understand my thoughts and what actions he would take to surprise or comfort me, but there was no such thing. He was almost at a loss by my silence. It was not until we communicated with each other and expressed our feelings that we found that we had wasted so much time. After opening my heart, I will calm myself down for a period of time every time I encounter disagreement, dispute or unhappiness, even if I am not happy again, it will not last more than two hours, because my husband will always accompany me, and I will not be silent when he is around. And I am also afraid that the silence he broke first will not get a response, and I don't want to let him down. As soon as I replied to him, we made up again as if nothing had happened. Even if my tears didn't disappear one second ago, I was amused the next. Life is like this. Being able to communicate with each other gives you an extra guarantee for your happy life.
Good love is based on equality and mutual respect.
We can feel what we give each other, and we will give each other something in return, even if we just give each other a massage, a hug and a deep kiss, we can make each other feel satisfied. We often say "I love you" and other sweet words, because love is to say it out loud, that is, to let the other person know your love, and we will often say "thank you" and "sorry" to the other person. Even if we are husband and wife, I will still say to my husband, thank you for coming into my life, thank you for marrying me, thank you for accompanying me, thank you for cooking a meal for me, thank you for washing my clothes, thank you for heating my milk, thank you for holding my slippers, thank you for putting on my socks, and thank you for handing me a towel to wipe my hair ... in short, thank you! And you will say when you accidentally touch my arm, I'm sorry, did I hurt you? Sorry, my nails seem to have scratched you; Sorry, I hit your hair; Sorry, I comb my hair a little hard; I'm sorry to have kept you waiting ... this is us. His contribution, my gratitude, is also the best way for us to get along.
6. Cherish the man who really loves you and treats you well.
A good man will treat you well in a way that is really beneficial to you, and will not indulge you or bind you in the name of loving you. Such a man is rare. If you meet them, you must cherish them.
I have read a sentence, in a real marriage, the man who can cover you with the quilt that has been kicked at night is the man who deserves to be entrusted for a lifetime. I want to say that my husband is like this. Not only does he give me his arm as a pillow, but every time I toss and turn, he hugs me tightly, then kisses me and pats my body ... If it's hot, he says you should fall asleep first, and I'll cover you with a quilt at night, never in a hurry. Another time, because the pillow was uncomfortable, I really pressed his arm and slept all night. I only remember that he woke me up by pulling his arm in the middle of the night, and then switched to my other side, and switched to the other arm to continue to let me sleep with a pillow. If I can't sleep, he will sing and pat my body to let me sleep. At that time, I will be very sweet, and my happy mouth will rise unconsciously. Even my dreams are beautiful.
7. Loving you is an instinct.
After being with my husband for so long, many things have become so natural, just as we are already a part of each other's lives, and everything is closely linked and indispensable. Everything seems to be out of instinct, and this instinct is love!
We often encourage and praise each other, give each other a hug and kiss as soon as we get home, give each other nicknames before eating, such as "Honey, it's so hard to eat", and give each other a kiss before going to bed ... These are not done step by step every day, but all the details seem to have become a part of life. At a certain time, it has become an instinct, so it won't.
Love is simple, and simple love sometimes just needs to be satisfied. Just like every time I am sad and tired, only he holds me, and he is always by my side when I need him. The most gratifying thing is that every time I am awakened or scared by a nightmare, he will hold me in one hand and pat me on the back, and the other hand will bury my head on his shoulder and gently say, "Don't be afraid, I have a husband." I know I can't live without him. The miniature details of life are not out of the need to express emotions, but have become an instinct, an instinct that we can't live without each other as long as he is around.
In the world of love, any small detail can reveal great love, because only when the whole life is saturated with feelings will there be peace of mind at all times. Our love is not vigorous, but it has experienced ups and downs and tests, because we know that we are the ones who have to wait for each other, and even if we try harder, we will still be together. Now this love has finally been recognized and guaranteed. And we all know that we have been through so much together, because we are very similar, and many times we all know each other's intentions, needless to say. It is precisely because of the tacit comfort between us that this love is the lubricant.
My love is simple. In this love, I just need my husband to accompany me to protect this simplicity. As long as my life is safe and healthy, even if it is simply spent, it is also a great satisfaction. As long as there is my husband, as long as there is him!
Love under the moon
moon
Hao Liang
Hanging in the sky
stars twinkle
Pigeons are busy shuttling
Look up with four eyes.
Hugging each other adds warmth.
Warm moments often occupy dreams.
Although we met for a short time, I never regretted it.
Happiness and fatigue only want to understand each other.
Look at the future in laughter and put aside all sadness.
Strive for each other and achieve their respective ideals.