Speaking of Xie Lingyun, everyone's first reaction must be his landscape poems: "Spring grass grows in the pond, willow becomes a songbird in the garden", "The moon shines on the snow, and the wind is fading", "White clouds embrace secluded stones, and green tiles are charming and clear" ... These poems can be described as fresh, natural and lovely. Later generations said that Xie Lingyun was able to write such landscape poems because his official career was not smooth and he was excluded by the court.
Xie Lingyun's family background is prominent, and he was born in the famous family of the Eastern Jin Dynasty. His father Xie Zhen is Lang's secretary. His mother is Liu, the daughter of Wang Xizhi and the only queen of Long.
What is even more rare is that Liu Wendi Yi Long loves writing and painting, and appreciates Xie Lingyun's talent very much. It can be said that Xie Lingyun is lucky. He grew up in a good family, was born in a good era, and met a good leader who appreciated and cultivated him. However, no matter how superior the innate conditions are, Xie Lingyun can't resist a desperate fight. In the end, Xie Lingyun paid the price of his life for his stupid "workplace behavior".
Xie Lingyun has a fatal weakness, that is, his eyes are high and his eyes are low. After being demoted as the magistrate of Yongjia, he took his slaves to travel and drink and write poems. As for government affairs, he put them aside directly.
Sounds romantic, doesn't it?
But in the workplace, this is a very immoral behavior. I'm not satisfied with the arrangement of the leader, so I don't raise any objection. I get paid, I don't go to work, and I am openly absent from work. I have no political achievements. Writing a bunch of poems is more irresponsible than true temperament.
Fortunately, Xie Lingyun met a good leader, Wendy loves talents, and did not pursue his lazy political behavior. Directly transferred from the local to the central government, and twice issued appointment documents, which were ignored by Xie Lingyun.
Emperor Wen really loved talents and asked Fan Tai, a great scholar and doctor of Guanglu, to write him a letter. After repeated invitations, Xie Lingyun "reluctantly agreed".
After Xie Lingyun joined the Central Committee, he got the position of secretary supervisor, equivalent to the director of the National Library. Xie Lingyun sneered at this title, and even felt that this position was insulting him. Whenever Wendi invited him to dinner, this feeling became more and more intense in Xie Lingyun's heart, especially when Wendi and other ministers had a good wine and asked Xie Lingyun to write poems on the spot. Xie Lingyun started blx while writing poetry: This is treating me like a singer and dancer.
In fact, these requirements of writing poems on the spot are an opportunity for a person in the workplace: first, to show their talents, and second, to narrow the distance with leading colleagues and let everyone know you in many ways.
Blx is the most taboo in the workplace. Sometimes opponents in the workplace are a misunderstanding from the beginning, but many people, especially newcomers, will hide these misunderstandings caused by blx in their hearts and show vigilance and even some confrontational emotions from time to time. It was nothing at first, but they created an enemy in their imagination for no reason.
If blx is OK, at least he will be restrained. Xie Lingyun directly expressed his dissatisfaction with the workplace in the form of ridicule.
There is an idiom called "a man of great talents", and the protagonist is Xie Lingyun, a little wonder in our workplace. He felt that his colleagues before him, such as Wang Tanshou and Yin, were not as good as him, so one day he drank too much and Xie Lingyun sent out a sentence:
What he wants to express is that the talent of everyone in the world is not in his eyes, and only Cao Wenzhi is outstanding, which makes him sincerely impressed.
As soon as this sentence came out, Xie Lingyun offended all his colleagues: Oh, we are not as good as you, just hello, are you good?
At the same time, it also indirectly offended the leadership. Wendi Deng must be thinking: Only you can? Is it equal to my promotion and appointment?
Fortunately, Emperor Wen cherishes talents and cultivates himself. He gave Xie Lingyun a project: writing the Book of Jin.
Wendi believes that the great cause of the country is immortal and saves trouble.
Wendi felt that he had found a suitable position for Xie Lingyun and gave him a suitable project, but Xie Lingyun was ungrateful. He believes that this project has no real power in politics and can't carry his great dream, but simply becomes a royal scholar.
As a result, under Wendy's repeated urging, Xie Lingyun only handed in a simple opening report, and Wendy was speechless and had to give up.
Everyone has an ideal when entering the workplace. Ideal becomes ideal because there is a certain distance between it and reality, which needs to be shortened step by step through efforts.
Many people are new to the workplace and feel that they are very talented and should find a good job. Even children born after 1995 feel that they shouldn't go downstairs to eat takeout, thinking that this is a "waste of talent", but often the experience in the workplace starts from these small things.
What's more, writing the Book of Jin is not a trivial matter.
You are eager to meet Bole, Bole shows you the way, but you just don't go. Who do you blame?
Everyone who complains about God's unfairness often has no one to complain about and no reason to complain. He can only complain about God and bully him without talking, but God will surely make you realize the reality clearly.
Not long after, Xie Lingyun's "old problem" was committed again: dissatisfaction with the official position, dissatisfaction with the leadership team, dissatisfaction with the party members, you continue, I call in sick!
Xie Lingyun often "disappears" for dozens of days, but in these "disappearing" days, the world often sees Xie Lingyun playing with his servants, and there is nothing morbid at all.
Wendi was devastated by him, so he called Xie Lingyun: "Why don't you go home?"
Hearing this, Xie Lingyun immediately handed in his resignation report and packed up his things and went back to his hometown.
In the workplace, be a low-key person and do things with high profile. If there is no performance to be high-profile, then you can only be a low-key person, at least get on well with colleagues and leaders. If it is not good, don't be annoying.
Xie Lingyun has no political achievements and is too proud. A few words offended everyone. He was extremely unprofessional. He was absent from work and cheated, and finally he had to be out.
When Xie Lingyun became an official, he was actually irresponsible. In a big way, he has no compassion for the people, especially after Xie Lingyun resigned and returned to his hometown, he completely let himself go.
It doesn't matter if the official is lost, and I don't care about the salary. Anyway, he is rich and willful. At this moment, Xie Lingyun still has hundreds of students and slaves. The first step for him to extricate himself is to find a new tourist route, not only to find the route, but also to open up scenic spots. What if this mountain wants to go, but there is no road? Clear the way This lake is so beautiful, what should I do if I can't cross it? Bridge!
Wang Xian, a magistrate in Linhai, Zhejiang Province, was so scared that he thought he had attracted a mountain thief that he was relieved when he knew it was Xie Lingyun.
Unexpectedly, after a few days, Xie Lingyun became more and more presumptuous. Knowing that Wendy was his fan after all, he wrote a letter to Wendy, demanding that Huizhi Lake be his own, and Wendy agreed, but it made the fishermen nearby lose their livelihood. As a result, he fell out with Meng Yi, a local official in Huiji County. Finally, Xie Lingyun had to give up, but he buried the unhappiness.
Maybe it's because I'm tired of traveling. Xie Lingyun drank some wine one day and his brain became hot. He plays streaking, not only streaking, but also screaming like Tarzan!
This move is no longer a kind of self-awareness. Meng Zhen was frightened by Xie Lingyun's move and sent someone to stop it. Who knows that Xie Lingyun replied: "I love to shout! What does it have to do with you! "
He can't wait to streak and sing: "Come on, show it, there's plenty of time anyway ..."
It is said that local officials are not easy to provoke, and Meng Yi's angry little universe has begun to erupt. He listed all kinds of evidence of Xie Lingyun seriously and directly labeled him: rebellion.
At this time, Xie Lingyun was frightened by Meng Yi. He hurried to Jiankang to explain to Wendi that Wendi was his fan after all. Fortunately, this fan still clung to his idol, knowing that going back to the place was also a disaster for him, so he stayed in the center.
In fact, without Wendy's kindness and love, Xie Lingyun would have died thousands of times.
In the workplace, sometimes we talk too much about skills. For example, our parents will teach us to serve tea to our leaders and help us sweep the broom at the door, but the theme of these skills is "how to be a man". At the end of the workplace war, it's all personality problem. Xie Lingyun is irresponsible in handling government affairs, has no sympathy for the people, and his work style is too selfish and willful. His frustration in the workplace is, in the final analysis, the failure of being a man.
However, after the disaster, Xie Lingyun still didn't learn the lesson.
In 43 1 year, Emperor Wendi sent him to Linchuan (now Fuzhou, Jiangxi) to be a satrap. Xie Lingyun is still lazy, not punching in, not working, not asking questions, continuing to play and letting himself go.
Perhaps it still angered the local officials and people as it used to open tourist routes in Huiji. A tip-off letter was sent to the Central Commission for Discipline Inspection. Situ Liu Yikang saw Xie Lingyun unhappy and sent someone to take him back to Jiankang.
Unexpectedly, Xie Lingyun's guilty attitude was extremely incorrect. He detained the person sent by Liu Yikang and ran away.
Even if I ran away, I wrote a poem and sent it to Weibo:
What's he trying to say? !
This means that he compares himself to Sean and Lv Zhonglian, implying that he wants to overthrow the current court and avenge the past rulers.
Wendi was deeply hurt. He felt that he had mistaken his idol. He has been caring for his accommodating idol in every way, and he turned out to be a traitor!
Xie Lingyun was quickly arrested on charges of rebellion, but Wendi still couldn't bear to kill this talented idol. For his idol, Wendi exempted Xie Lingyun from the death penalty and exiled him to Guangzhou. Unexpectedly, seven suspicious people were arrested in Guangzhou. They confessed to get in touch with Xie Lingyun and wanted to rescue him.
At this point, Wendi made up his mind to kill Xie Lingyun and end his life.
Sometimes in the workplace, it's not your luck, but your leader who lets you go and gives you a chance to change. Don't say gratitude, at least learn to know what is good and what is bad. Everyone's patience is limited. Don't try to challenge the bottom line of leadership again and again.
Xie Lingyun was killed not only because of his misconduct, but also because of his character. He treats you with appreciation and promotes your leader instead of repaying his kindness. But the opposite, in an attempt to rebellion, the final outcome can only be so miserable.
Xie Lingyun is actually a typical China scholar. His lofty pride, contempt for anyone, low eyebrows, dissatisfaction with reality and so on. , is the common fault of China literati, but his personality is too make public, magnified the hidden psychology. He wrote in "Upstairs":
I want to be a big official, but I don't like officialdom; I want to go home for my old age, but I'm not willing.
Perhaps this is not only the trouble of ancient literati, but now we often fall into this dilemma: we have no courage and even feel disgusted; To say the least, I feel really unwilling.
Probably, the most painful thing in the workplace is choice, otherwise how can life stand on two extreme choices at the same time?
However, no matter what you choose in the end, you must choose one thing in the end. If you want to occupy both sides, you will often get nothing.