Postmodern psychology, headed by Mr. Li Zixun, directly attacked the essence of human nature, with simple and profound words, themes from life, and ideas above life.
Worry, depression and sadness are psychological dilemmas that everyone has to face every day. How to treat these difficulties directly determines whether a person can live happily.
In order to help more people learn to heal themselves, Li Zixun created this book "Who do you live for: Think clearly and win a happy life" with a professional perspective and pen and ink full of humanistic care, integrating psychology, sociology, philosophy and Zen. Teach people how to treat psychological difficulties correctly and how to adjust their thinking.
This book uses letters to answer the concepts of psychology and the analysis of human nature and love. It is eloquent, easy to understand, and proverbs every word. It is an introductory textbook of psychology, and it is also a winning book when emotional contradictions and self-conflicts occur.
The full text interprets the conflict between man and himself and between man and reality by writing back, traces back to the source from the psychological point of view, answers questions, and reveals the changes of human nature thinking in several times, from collective to individual, from * * * to personality, self-prominence is increasingly prominent, value is increasingly diversified, life is increasingly rich, experience is increasingly profound, and thinking is increasingly profound. From a certain point of view, history is continuous and human nature is changeable.
Explaining things in this way can always make people see the problem more thoroughly from a new angle. Whether consulting or learning to interpret life, if you can get inspiration from it, it is worth reading.
The analysis of some problems is so detailed that it is creepy. When reading psychological books, I often feel peeked, shattered and on the verge of collapse. As I read more and more books, I understand that this is a process of improving self-awareness, remolding myself, clearing old ideas and establishing new ones, and it is also a growth process of self-renewal and change. There is pain and joy, there is pain and joy, and joy is in it.
Teacher Li's book, like his talk show, is always so comfortable, light and elegant, sincere and properly explained. This paper analyzes various problems between man and himself and between man and reality from the perspective of psychology, and its essence lies in man's own feelings about the objective world.
Emotions and troubles are mostly caused by their own cognitive choices, not necessarily by others. Existence is reasonable. If we can blur right and wrong and get rid of the inertia thinking of either/or, we will be more tolerant of people and things. On second thought, it's another scenery. After all, people live for themselves, and who is it? Find yourself through life experiences again and again.
Life is always full of unknowns and doubts, but the interesting thing about life should be that you have the opportunity to find the answer. If you find a like-minded person, a little guidance is like an orange light in the dark world, which is very happy and warm. Sometimes I feel that life is particularly wonderful. We don't only have a lifetime, and we don't just live in a space.
Accepting yourself, being yourself, loving yourself and making yourself relaxed and happy are the prerequisites for loving others. Nobody owes you anything in this world. Confusion is sometimes the driving force for success, and what you have experienced will make your life more real and rich.
Who do you live for? Are you yourself or someone who cares about you? Let's think clearly together and win our own happy life.
People's emotional growth sometimes needs some setbacks. Pain is sometimes a resource to promote emotional maturity. How to use this resource depends on your mind. If pain is inevitable, then having a strong heart is sometimes not to thank those who gave us pain, but to thank ourselves who died in pain!
Be your best self, not your best self! Living in the eyes of others, we are doomed to be unhappy. Take care of yourself, from the heart!