For liking someone, the pursuit of exchanging sincerity for sincerity is undoubtedly the most reliable way. Because you don't have to worry about your routine being exposed, and you don't have to care about how much you have paid. When you love someone like this, you will have a clear conscience no matter what you do.
It's just that for love, you are sincere, but it doesn't mean that others can give you the same feedback.
Just like the famous Irish poet Ye Zhi, after he met maud gonne at the age of 24, for the rest of his life, his eyes were full of each other, and he wrote the famous "When You Are Old", which reads-
How many people love your youthful exuberance, the beauty, hypocrisy and sincerity of adore you, and only one person loves your pilgrim soul and the painful wrinkles on your aging face.
Even when I was lying in a hospital bed, I still wanted to chat with maud gonne, but all of them were rejected.
Ye Zhi's life is enough to prove his sincerity, but in the end, he didn't get the sincerity of the other party. Because for feelings, sincerity can be exchanged for sincerity, but there must be a premise.
There is often no reason to like someone. Even the person who falls in love won't know what he likes about the other person, and the same is true for those who don't.
After Ye Zhi and maud gonne met, Ye Zhi recalled the scene at that time and wrote: "She stood by the window, surrounded by a mass of apple blossoms; She is dazzling, as if she were a petal full of sunshine. "
It can be said that for Ye Zhi, maud gonne itself is perfect enough, and maud gonne's refusal can be said to directly sublimate this perfection. After all, it is always in turmoil.
But for maud gonne, Ye Zhi is nothing special.
Even with Ye Zhi's merits and poems written for her, she just said indifferently that the world should thank her for her rejection.
Indeed, without maud gonne's refusal, Ye Zhi would not have written one touching poem after another. In his poems, there is a deep love, a little childish temper and stubbornness.
just, for Ye Zhi, is she wrong?
she's right, because she just turned down someone she doesn't love.