I think it would be nice if you remember your secret love for many years. Because you are married now, you can't express this feeling. You need to be responsible for your other half. Because two people get married, you two have it, that is, live your own lives. Your life is yours, just keep it in your heart. There's no need to take it out or. Think about marriage directly with each other.
Because you have a crush on others, you may not know or communicate with others. He may not want to marry you. He may say that he likes you and doesn't necessarily want to marry you. He may just want to get some benefits from you. This is all possible.
Although I think that since I am married, I should take good care of my marriage, treat my other half well and treat it well. This is the first thing to do. If you divorce, this uncertainty may increase, so your beautiful family may collapse.
No matter what thoughts or feelings we had before, since we are married, we should be responsible for the person in charge of the other half or the feelings of the other half, treat each other well instead of thinking about divorce with new feelings just because some people appear. I don't think we should have this idea.
Two people divorced. In this case, unless there is a big contradiction, such as two people don't want to live together, there is no way to adjust. I think in this case, they can divorce or have no feelings, and then family conflicts are particularly serious, and then they can divorce. But then you must be unwilling because of some other feelings.
Therefore, we must manage our marriage well, and don't ruin our good marriage because of other influences.