When I was young, love was still passionate, and many people died for that illusory love. Marriage may be because of love, or because of unshirkable responsibilities, and there are other reasons, but not necessarily because of love. As the saying goes, "marriage is the grave of love", but we can't deny that marriage is the beginning of affection.
When two people gradually walked into the plain life of daily necessities and vinegar tea from the initial ignorant love, they gradually found that the person who desperately loved was not as gentle and humorous as they first saw. The tiring reality gradually encroaches on the romance and sweetness that originally belonged to love, and then returns to the true colors of life from the initial passion-bittersweet, bittersweet and bittersweet. If you can't turn love into affection well at this time, then there will be cracks in this relationship.
Although love is unremarkable in life, the trivial things in life have also weathered the passion, but the lover is still the lover, only with an additional identity, and has become our relatives. After the baptism of time, the existence of lovers or relatives has become a habit and an inseparable part of our lives. Isn't it the best state that love exists and family ties exist?
Lovers may turn their backs on you at any time, but relatives will not, and family ties will not be as illusory as love. This is probably the advantage of family. Everyone is eager to have passion, but we need to understand that passion cannot last forever; Everyone is also eager to have love, but if love is not taken seriously, it may be beyond redemption; Although family ties are common and difficult to capture, we know that family ties are the most reliable.