He never eats his own bread with tears in his eyes.
Never sit in your own bed and cry,
Spend this sad night,
He doesn't know the power of your heaven.
The so-called life, nothing more. This is also the source of "people who haven't cried for too long are not enough to talk about life". Whether you are happy or sad, God's arrangement cannot be changed. The only thing you can do is to learn to make peace with it. A person must learn to mature first, then learn to grow, and finally succeed.
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Learning to accept is a sign of maturity.
Some people say that all great men grow up from tears and generate from misery and poverty. Shi Tiesheng is such a person. Fate took his legs and he was lying in a dangerous hospital bed. It's hard to have an atheist. In the hospital bed, he prayed again and again: God, if you don't take me back, leave me that walking leg!
But in the end, he must understand: you can't be God.
Perhaps accepting the established facts is a sign of maturity. He said many times: "You see through that death is something that you don't have to do in a hurry, something that you can't miss no matter how much you delay, so you decide to live and try." The sign of a person's maturity is probably "acceptance". He met too many things against his will and learned to accept the impermanence of life.
Zhou said: "life should have indisputable wisdom, not with yourself, not with others, not with God." Since ancient times, there has been a saying that "life also has life". Ann can sigh and rest easy. "
Growth always seems to be accompanied by pain, and only when you have been injured will you be scarred; Where there are scars, you will become stronger. Learn to accept life, maybe what you eat today will become the light of the future.
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Heaven does not cross people, but people need to cross themselves.
Life is like seeing for the first time: the beginning of tragedy is often without warning. Fate reached out, planted seeds, smiled secretly, and waited for the day when it blossomed and bore fruit.
God gave us a lower starting point than others, just to let us fight back. For Shi Tiesheng, who walks in a wheelchair all day, the work is so hard. My mother begged for a job for him. The recruiter said, "Everything is still perfect." Under the heavy blow, I began to write and contribute, because life goes on.
But in Shi Tiesheng's words, there will be no additional losses if you try, and maybe there will be additional gains. His Jedi counterattack was nothing more than a stroke of the pen. He has been telling us all his life that the road can no longer be crossed with his feet, but he can find it with a pen.
Similarly, she was born in Yu Xiuhua, a rural area in Hubei Province. She suffered from cerebral palsy due to lack of oxygen at birth, but she wrote one poem after another. She said, "Poetry is a crutch for her to walk on the crumbling land".
But when the "crutch" suddenly emits dazzling light, it becomes a "magic wand" that hits people's hearts, and her soul also appears vigorous, simple and full of vitality.
Not all life is so inspirational and successful; But when life is hard, you should have enough courage to support it.
Life has its ups and downs. There is a saying in the moral classics: "The curse lies in the' blessing'. When people reach middle age, after a few years, you will find that only you are the ferryman of life. When we are in trouble, everyone is looking forward to the savior. In fact, everyone has this savior in their hearts.
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See through life and love it.
The so-called "good observation is not clear, but it is clear if you can observe." Many things, rather than to understand, it is better to look down; Knowing what light is, you are no longer afraid of darkness; Understand what is honor and disgrace, but you can still bear the burden of humiliation; Know what is awesome, and stick to a gentle article.
When people reach middle age, they look down on many things and understand many things. Brave people understand that not every effort will be rewarded, and not every sowing will be rewarded. But we still have to love life.
Zhou said: Whether your life is meaningful is not measured by your external success, but by your unique understanding and persistence in a positive life. Only by adhering to this standard can your self shine with personality.
In this era, everyone bears a heavy burden, and the current "double reduction" has brought great pressure to the education industry. I remember someone interviewing me: "Do you think an enterprise will survive forever?" Answer: "Death is inevitable" Try to do the right thing and leave the rest to God.
As Master Hongyi said: Nothing in life can't be let go.
Life is a poem. When we have it, we don't know how to cherish it. By the time we understand, it's long gone. Live every day now, and you will have a wonderful life. As the saying goes, "flowers bloom with wealth, grass frost with wealth", fame and fortune can not be passed on, and wealth has an end. A hundred years later, the so-called prosperity is just a pile of weeds and a sunset.
All right, it's over!