My friend asked me whether I was born after 80 or 90, and I replied far-fetched: I am on the edge of 90. It is said that I am standing at the age of 30 and officially entering this new stage. Although I am not reconciled, time and tide wait for no man. Generally speaking, let's face it. Why do I feel like an old man?
Where does a person stand when he is thirty?
When I was in college, I was thinking: at the age of 30, if I want to realize my dream of having a house, a car, a wife, a family and children, I have to have a small leader at work, so that my life is moist, my work is relaxed and carefree, and my future is bright.
Nowadays, many young people are full of ideals: they feel young, delicious and fun, full of hope in our life, and feel that the road ahead is unimpeded. I hope I win a lottery ticket that day. Great! Dream on!
After taking part in the work, I will be hit in the face by the realistic faction until I admit that I am such a useless person who refuses to work hard and complains about the cruelty of reality.
But the real version of the 30-year-old, most of them are ordinary office workers, an ordinary clerk, with a monthly salary of 3,000 to 4,000, and they have to pay back the mortgage, car loan, flowers and milk powder on time. Some have to pay rent.
Last week, the salary just arrived, and a phone call was finished. I found that the balance was insufficient, and I began to spend money again, and various loans were repeated.
People! Even if I live in an illusion, I still enjoy it. I naively thought that the beauty in front of me belonged to me. When I was hit in the face by reality, I can only admit that I asked for it. I can't blame anyone but myself for being blind!
Brother Song Song talked a little too much. If you are not such a person, please close this article immediately and don't look down, lest you defile your heart.
A person, in the dead of night, is lying in bed at that moment, and anxiety surges, and the lid can't be closed.
With more and more expenses, we should spend it carefully every time we get paid. No matter how it is calculated, it is not enough. Anxiety!
Affected by the epidemic, the industry is depressed. The industry is strictly controlled and the work is not good. Five plus two, white plus black, wages don't rise, and the competition is too fierce. Old age, slow brain, more and more physical problems, fear of being replaced by new people at any time, fear of being laid off at any time, anxiety!
Looking at the people around me getting more and more moist, today the family got together to have a big meal, KTV, travel to take photos and soak in hot springs. Tomorrow, they will buy a second suite, and the day after tomorrow, they will change cars. They are still stagnant, and their account balance has not risen. I'm anxious!
Today the child suddenly has a fever, and tomorrow the mother will cough twice. The day after tomorrow, grandpa's stomach is upset, and you start to be afraid, irritable and anxious!
I haven't met anyone yet. I hate that my parents are in a hurry, but I'm worried that my sweetheart hasn't appeared yet. I think I have left men and women, and I am very anxious!
After getting married and having children, all kinds of expenses at home are getting bigger and bigger. I am afraid that my child will get sick, and I am worried that my child will not get a good education.
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Why are you still playing mobile phones in the middle of the night, and the video has been brushed, because you can only be anxious to play without playing mobile phones!
Anxiety, is there a cure?
Of course there is. What is the cure? "money"
How did the money come from? That is to improve your earning skills and increase your monthly income!
Money is the best magic weapon to save anxiety, no one! Don't think what I said is vulgar and extreme. This is the reality!
Suppose one day, you are penniless, come to a strange city and walk on the street. What worries you most is to think about how to live first.
2020 is an extraordinary year. Today, for the elderly in Grade Three, I can't sit still, quietly code words and seriously sum up my current situation.
I come from an extremely remote, poor and backward peasant family in Shankaka, Guizhou. When I was a child, I climbed pigsty, dug dung, picked dung, plowed cattle, cultivated land, entered coal holes, mowed grass ... I had never done that kind of rural work. When teenagers go to junior high school, they take meals with backpacks and carry heavy backpacks. He crossed three mountain roads about 65,438+00 kilometers to reach the school. Although not bitter, his grades are not long.
The educational resources I received as a child were very poor. When I was in high school in the city, the gap between my grades and the students in the city was too big. The grade is at the bottom of the class, and I have a tutorial in senior three, and I barely got two books.
After graduating from college, with my own efforts, I can buy a car, buy a house, get married, have a stable job and live a normal life without contacts and resources. It's kind of burning high incense.
What's more interesting is that all my gains, except going to work, are related to sideline business!
How to earn more money?
Only by pursuing the strategy of "advancing to attack and retreating to defend" can we be in an invincible position, which is the best situation in life.
Everyone's life, there are many uncertain factors, Song suggested that everyone "main business+sideline business", both hands should be grasped, both hands should be hard!
The straightforward view is to divide the knowledge, skills, time and other resources that individuals are good at into two channels to realize.
It's like riding a motorcycle and driving a car. Two wheels are unstable and easy to fall, and four wheels are more stable, faster and easier to run!
But to pay attention to an order, we must first do a good job in the main business, at least have a stable salary every month, and some units will pay you social security, pension and provident fund.
The role of the main business is limited to this, don't expect too much.
It's best not to hold out too much hope: through down-to-earth work, you can achieve promotion and salary increase and go all the way to the peak of your life.
Let's not talk about your education, knowledge and skills, work ability and network resources for the time being. As long as you carefully observe the people around you, they all get rich by dying for wages.
First of all, we should recognize the cruel reality, make full use of our knowledge and skills and spare time on the basis of "main business", do a good job in sideline business, and add another insurance for our life and career.
With the continuous development of the times, all walks of life will gradually eliminate some employees, even the most trusted state-owned enterprises will lay off employees, and the career establishment will be completely cancelled in 2020. There is no real "iron rice bowl" now. Who can guarantee that his job will never be lost? I don't think that man can guarantee it!
Doing sideline business is to leave a way out for your own survival and increase your ability to resist risks for your own economy.
At least you can get more income to buy some delicious food and clothes for your wife and children, and they will love you more. The rest of the mortgage, car loan, flowers, how comfortable!
Brother Songsong has a fixed monthly salary of 5,000 yuan, excluding fixed mortgage of 2,000 yuan, car loan of 2,000 yuan, monthly expenses of children 1000, other uncertain living expenses+utilities+property management fees+parking fees+insurance fees+broadband fees+telephone fees ... Where these expenses come from depends entirely on sideline business.
When you have a sideline income, even if you suddenly lose your job one day in the future, we won't break the source of income!
How to earn more pocket money through sideline business? Brother Songsong is a person who has experienced it. Here are four personal suggestions!
First, we should distinguish between part-time jobs and sideline jobs, and don't waste time doing part-time jobs.
Sideline ≠ part-time, although they all use their spare time, energy and physical strength to make money!
Part-time jobs make money quickly. You can set up stalls, distribute leaflets and help an enterprise do a questionnaire survey. This is to make money, but there is no future.
Simply selling time or labor has no meaning, no future and no added value.
You handed out flyers for eight hours and earned eight hours. If you don't send it, you will have no money.
But think about it carefully, what else can you get besides handing out leaflets and earning dozens or hundreds of dollars?
You wander around the streets and communities, go door to door and stuff leaflets under the door, and hand them out to everyone on the way. In addition to experiencing the cold and warm life, being rejected and ignored by passers-by, you also suck up the exhaust gas emitted by cars.
You can't put the fact that you distributed leaflets and set up stalls in your resume!
This part-time money-making project is not recommended! Be sure to remember: don't waste time, energy and physical strength to do part-time jobs!
But the sideline is different.
Sideline needs a certain amount of time to accumulate, just like planting fruit trees. You didn't reap the fruit after sowing the seeds, but you need some time and energy to weed, water and prune, and it takes a certain growth cycle. On the fruit festival, the fruit will naturally mature and fall, and it will be eaten every year.
Secondly, in addition to making money, sideline has additional value, which can be reused and has compound interest effect. Under the compound interest effect, it is like snowballing.
For example, a long time ago, Brother Song Song wrote a 5000-word paid article on the Internet, detailing 32 profitable writing platforms, and sent it to major media platforms. The price 1 yuan, the sales volume has exceeded nearly a thousand, and there is a steady stream of funds coming in every day.
There used to be an article that shared five things about personal growth. It was posted in the world. This article alone brought me 5W+ fans, and 200+ fans are increasing every day. As can be seen from the comment area, this article has influenced many people, and some even affected the whole family. The effect of this article is worthy of recognition.
The article I wrote not only earned some money, improved my personal IP, but also helped me attract some publishing houses and invited me to publish books.
Second, don't look at making money quickly, look at the value.
We choose to do sideline business, not only to make money, but also to look at the value brought by sideline business.
How to treat the value of your chosen sideline?
See what gourd medicine you are selling. What did you get besides money after this thing was sold?
The same is writing. You write articles for others, each 50-200 yuan. You can write 2-3 articles every day, each earning 50 yuan. This is a part-time job!
Do you want to write articles on the media platform?
You need a number at first, and you can't make much money during this time. After accumulating for a period of time, you can earn 50-200 yuan every day, or even more. This is a sideline!
The same is earning 50-200 yuan, and the same is writing. The former is ghostwriting for others and writing articles for others. In order to complete the task, all you get is money, nothing but wasting time and energy!
The latter is that you are improving your account. You are writing an article for your account, facing the readers directly, providing benefits for readers and helping them solve problems. Every article of yours is bringing you value. With the accumulation of articles, the weight, value and influence of your account are also improving.
In addition to the benefits of writing, you also have a self-media account that can make money continuously. More importantly, your writing skills have been appreciated, and the number of account fans has continued to increase. This is an extra resource more important than money!
In the long run, these extra resources will get bigger and bigger, the account will give you more money, and you will live more easily and longer.
Third, if you do sideline business, you can't get quick success and instant benefit.
Doing sideline business to make money, you can't be eager for quick success and instant benefit, and you can't be opportunistic.
In this world, there is no money-making project of "doing less, making big money and operating at zero cost".
If you say you have to have this sideline, then you are waiting to be cheated!
What "learn to speak Japanese in three days", "learn to write in five days", "master English in seven days" and so on? Why are these kinds so popular?
These swindlers take advantage of the weakness of human nature: low investment, high return and eagerness for success.
Stop daydreaming!
Learning any skill, although there are skills, methods and shortcuts, can not be accelerated in a few days!
Destined to endure loneliness, boredom and long-term polishing.
Doing sideline business is like planting fruit trees, watering them a little every day and applying a little fertilizer to make them grow up slowly.
I wrote an article before: 600 words quickly. Continue to write 600 words every day, starting with small goals and finishing big goals after a long period of time.
Fourth, build a personal brand with your heart, which is a magic weapon for ordinary people to counterattack.
Everyone who uses mobile phones and computers knows IP, and the IP of each mobile phone and computer is different.
Determine a field first, and you can combine your knowledge and skills with your hobbies.
Then choose a point in this field for deep cultivation and continue to share valuable and nutritious content, and your online account will begin to have commercial value. The future will bring you a steady stream of income, and may even become your lifelong career.
At the beginning, I chose WebText and registered 3 1 self-media platform accounts. As long as I have time, I will sit in front of the computer and keep typing. Friends and even family around me are joking with me, which may be regarded as ridicule! He also gave me a strange name "squatting at home", and some even called me "otaku" and "sitting at home".
People want to laugh, so laugh! You can't shut them up, and it's not necessary. Just pretend you didn't hear me! Mouth grows on somebody else's face!
My articles are generally not published in the circle of friends of familiar people, and my articles like to be read only by strangers.
There is a saying: if you only sell your business to acquaintances, then any business will fail! There are more people in this world you don't know. So, please give up the acquaintance market!
Now, the only thing I can do is to go my own way and let others talk!
I don't go to work today. I'm hiding in the house to write this article, just to share my heart. Men have great responsibilities, and time waits for no one! Who let me be old in the third year!