1September 1987 18 in the morning, I helped my husband's family plant trees on the ground for five hours. I went home to make breakfast for the whole family, cleaned up all the pots and pans, burned seven issues of paper in front of my mother's grave at noon, and went back to my parents' house directly from the fork in the road to visit my father.
Dad looked up with difficulty and said, "The girl is back!" " I nodded and felt sad to see my father suddenly haggard.
I went to the backyard, and my brother said, "You went, why have you been here for so many days?" Dad talks about you every day! Dad will live for two or three days at most! Dad's abdominal cavity is full of ascites and may die at any time! Let's prepare for the funeral! " As soon as I heard this, I was disappointed and sad. I immediately turned and walked into my father's room. How I want to hear my father's last words and let him have a miracle of life resurrection!
Dad asked, "What time is it?" I said, "Three o'clock in the afternoon!" Ten minutes later, my father asked, "What time is it?" I said, "Thirty minutes." I sat with my father for a while, and just walked out of the door, my father shouted in a hoarse voice and asked, "Girl! What time is it? " I answered, "Four o'clock! Dad always asks the time? " Dad said weakly, "I think it's time to give me an injection!" " "
At five o'clock in the afternoon, my brother and brother-in-law were busy putting up the ceiling in the backyard. I asked, "Why does Dad often ask the time today?" My brother interrupted me and said, "After you left, my father often lost his temper. Yesterday, he kept saying that he had raised an unfilial girl. Why didn't he come? " I asked, "How can my brother comfort me?" My brother said, "I said you sent your mother-in-law away and didn't come for something!" " Dad said it's been three days and a week. To tell the truth, my dad wants to live a few more years! I can't help it. That's the medical condition now. As a doctor, I feel sorry for my father because I can't cure his illness. I want my father to be my son, and my mother will not be lonely! Sister, don't do anything today, just wait and see what dad has to say. "
Dad said weakly, "Why hasn't the injection person come yet!" I said, "It's not time for an injection. I will find it. " I usually give my father an injection from my neighbor's elder sister. I looked for her that day and she was not at home. I am anxious to see my father's voice hoarse and painful!
I decided flatly: "Dad! I haven't found the injection person yet. It is time. Can I give you this injection? " Dad said, "All right!" Looking at my father's buttocks covered with stiff scars, I know that my father endured the erosion of the disease, made great efforts to revive his life in pain, and stubbornly lived to the end of his life. I hope I am willing to be reasonable and reasonable. Dad expects someone to give him an injection before his life ends, which tells me to cherish life! Even if people are dying to the last moment, don't give up the breath of loving life easily.
I learned the nurse's injection posture and stuck the needle in my father's hip. I really think there is no resurrection in my father's body! I asked softly, "Dad! Does it hurt? " Dad shook his head gently and said, "It doesn't hurt!" I rushed to the milk powder juice and fed my father a few spoonfuls. After a while, I cooked the rice noodle paste soup made by my mother and fed it to my father.
As soon as the neighbor elder sister entered the door, she smiled and said, "Uncle! It's time for an injection, I'll give you an injection! " I said, "Dad asked you to have an injection in advance. I went to see you, and I gave him an injection when you were away! " "Guo elder sister smiled and said," just a shot! I just came home from a cotton field, and it came quickly! "Just like the task given to me by God, how ingenious! I can analyze physical science by borrowing my father's last needle before he died!
At 9 o'clock in the evening, my mother, my brother and my brother-in-law discussed how to arrange my father's funeral in the room opposite my father's house. I put half a basin of hot water on my father's head and said, "Dad! I'll wash your hair and face! " Dad smiled with satisfaction and asked me to scrub his face and head.
Dad tilted his head and straightened his head, gesturing for me to scrub his neck clean; Tie your arms and signal me to wipe his ass! Scrub your shoulders and behind your ears again. I scrubbed my father's arm, and he reached over and looked strong. I didn't expect my father to leave me an unforgettable image of his vitality.
I went to the opposite room and said excitedly, "Brother! No matter how strong my dad is, he will be fine! After I washed my face, my arms were tied! " The elder brother said, "Then observe some time!"
At twelve o'clock in the evening, I brought half a bowl of watermelon water and fed it to my father with a small spoon. My father drank half a bowl of watermelon water I fed him. Dad drank melon seed water, and mom and brother came into the house. Dad pointed at the wall on the kang with his right hand in annoyance, and his expression seemed disgusting. My brother immediately picked up my father and let him fall asleep with his head flat on the wall.
The elder brother said, "Sister, go and have a rest! What's wrong with dad? My mother and I are watching! "
I feel sick at the thought of my father's idlers making noise. Thinking about the process of dad eating and washing his face, my arm is very strong, thinking that dad will not be in danger, I fell asleep with confidence!
At dawn, my brother shouted, "Sister, get up! Dad is dying!" " "I quickly put on my clothes and walked to the door where my father slept. I saw DaJieFu and my brother dressed dad in old clothes. Dad's neck is not straight, his head leans on his shoulder to the right, and his eyes are bulging and white. My brother urged, "Sister! Don't come in, please invite my second dad! "
I am very nervous, and my heart is full of scenes of my father's death. I turned and was about to leave, and my legs could not move. I seem to be stiff all over. I think it may be that it is cold in autumn, and my body is hot, and my blood is solidified when I am attacked by the chill of going out. In an instant, by constantly changing my mind, I strode out of the street gate with difficulty and my body returned to normal.
My second dad and I walked into the house, and my dad was dead! Dad died at 7: 00 am on1September, 987 19! It's in publication!
I cried sadly when I saw the coffin. The second dad said, "Girl! Don't be sad! Your father is old! You have served for a long time. When he leaves, leave! And your mother! Girl, don't cry, it's ruining your health! " The comfort of the second father still belongs to the care of the loving father.
How supreme it is for a father to care for his children wholeheartedly! Unexpectedly, my father's life came to a dangerous moment, and he remained calm, thinking of letting me rest at ease, without worrying that he would die. My brother is a doctor, so he knows when my father died.
My brother stood in front of the coffin and cried sadly: "My father! Life is not easy! We have raised so many children and have not had a comfortable life for a few years! "
The second dad persuaded: "You are a doctor. If you know how he left, you shouldn't be sad! "
My brother wiped his tears and said, "Sister, I can't do it alone. You tell my sister I know. I will invite people who help me, and then invite my relatives and my father's friends before I die. " I said, "It takes too much time. I asked my sister to invite relatives nearby. I will invite my father's close friends and some relatives. Please help the heavy people and take care of the family! "
My father and brother both agree with me and do their own things. I learned how men invite people, meet familiar friends and relatives, kowtow to them and invite some relatives. Imagine that a girl who gave birth to a girl kowtows and can invite people who have already gone back to the funeral.
My hometown pays attention to it. When the old man died, my son had to kowtow to help him. If he doesn't kowtow, no one will help him with his funeral. Filial piety is the last filial piety of children, and it is also a noble etiquette for children to ask their parents to help others in the form of kowtow.
My father gave birth to eight girls and three sons during menstruation, all of whom are my father's immediate relatives. I kowtowed to my uncle and aunt, and my uncle and aunt quickly helped me up and said sincerely, "They are all our own, and the girls are not invited. We all went as soon as we heard it! "
Some people saw me kneel down and helped me up. He said, "Just say it! If you don't invite me, I'll send it all as soon as I hear that your father died! Your father is worth sending! "
Please send someone here on the first day and hold a memorial service for dad on the second day. Everyone in the unit is my father's former friend, and the leader presided over my father's memorial service. At the memorial service, he said, "Chai Shenghua, director of Chai, was aboveboard and selfless all his life ..."
Many people took part in hearing the bad news of dad's death! Those who were not invited still attended the ceremony. Some elders spoke highly of it: "Your father is a nice guy and left too early! He has been very kind all his life, never got into trouble, and he is a very decent person! "
All the old-timers admire my father's noble thoughts all his life.
Dad died, taking away the happy paradise where the children once met; Dad died, leaving the children lacking the comfort and prestige of flattery!
In the hearts of children, in the hearts of everyone who is familiar with dad, the image of dad's height has been left.
Dad left a warm and unforgettable memory of his home for his children. Before his death, Dad often did things that were beneficial to the people, often helped poor families solve their difficulties, and taught children to love learning and labor, instead of taking the needle and thread of the collective and others.
Because my father was born in a poor family in the old society, he lived a miserable life in the old society for the first half of his life and worked as a long-term laborer for the landlord. After the people's liberation, New China was founded. Dad is talented, hard-working and entrepreneurial, paving a bright road for future generations to live a happy life.
In recent years, leaders will consult with their fathers about what happens in villages and towns. The school held a summary meeting, and the principal asked dad to be the representative of the poverty alleviation association. Dad has been the director of credit cooperatives for decades, and entrusted loans to the People's Bank of China to help poor households in several villages and towns. If anyone has a contradiction, dad will bring a lawsuit for him. Dad's thought is the standard thought of party member cadres.
Dad is approachable and amiable among the masses, and it is worth his life to proceed from the party's policies and the interests of the people. Dad overcame the magic of disease with tenacious perseverance, leaving an endless and constantly charging image for future generations. Dad's life, love the collective, lead a totally clean life! Enthusiasm for the people, broad-minded, and quite good prestige among the masses!
Many people who have seen my father say with regret, "Your father is a good man, a good old man, virtuous and kind!"! Why are you walking so fast! "
Dad always said, "Girl! It is in the interest of the party that the unit pays me back after I have not worked for so many years. I should do something practical for many people to be worthy of this bowl of rice! " Dad's pension is not idle. At the age of 70, he often said, "I'll go to the credit union to ask if there are any loans that haven't been confiscated, and I'll help them collect them." Holding the public bowl, I want to do things for the public, run errands, do something, and feel comfortable with the rice bowl in my hand. "
Although I have done all kinds of odd jobs, I regard living in poverty as my duty and will not embarrass my father. While doing my duty, I worked hard to create, and regained the autonomy of life and the power to do practical things with double work spirit. I have my father's righteousness, so righteousness still exists.
Dad is a real producer of * * * in party member, and a good cadre of * * * production party. His words and deeds set a shining example for his children. Dad's life is a hard and simple life; A glorious life; A life worth learning by thousands of people in Qian Qian.
If every cadre in party member always thinks about the sufferings of others like his father and lives up to the expectations of the people, then the society will be more harmonious and beautiful.
Before his death, his father left his children his last words of expectation. I am determined to turn grief into strength, live up to my father's expectations, live up to my mother, live up to my father's entrustment, do a good job in the aftermath, and build a perfect and unwilling home, a home that truly loves China.
Dad left safely with a kind expression! Go so leisurely! Walk so peacefully, Ruotai! Future generations who have gone so far miss his great achievements and aboveboard thoughts very much!
Dad is dead forever! May dad rest in the ground forever!
I will inherit and carry forward the selfless spirit of loving my father and noble ideological style, and serve the people wholeheartedly in a plain life. This is the best memory and commemoration of my father.