There are several ways:
1. It is okay to read the Quran by yourself. You can tell the imam in advance which chapter you will read. The imam will generally not refuse. .
2. After reading, you can pray with the imam and explain your wishes to Allah.
3. If there is an imam reciting, the listener does not need to recite, just listen carefully, and finally pray with the imam.
4. If you want to recite it yourself, first recite the first chapter, then recite the Yasin chapter, then recite the last three chapters, and finally pray.
5 Before the Year of the Imam, tell the imam where you will be and where you will be picked up from, and just ask him to stay for a while.
How to visit the grave:
1. When visitors to the grave come to the grave, they should face the "Selan" of the deceased and pray to Allah.
2. Burud’s narration: The Holy Prophet taught us to recite when we go to the cemetery: “O believers and Muslims in the tombs! I wish you peace. If God is willing, we will follow in your footsteps, You are the forerunners, we are the successors, and we ask God to grant you and us health.”
3. Narrated by Ibn al-Abbas: When passing the tomb in Medina, Muhammad faced. The tomb said: "O people in the tomb! May peace be with you, and may God forgive you and us. You are the forerunners and we are the successors.
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