? I saw a hot topic on the Internet: What is the symbol of NPC pattern?
? I saw a hot topic on the Internet: What is the symbol of NPC pattern? There is an answer that is deeply rooted in people's hearts: "You can adjust yourself when the valley is low, and you can stick to your heart when you are high." Even if the inner waves are rough, the surface is calm and the inner clouds are light. " After walking for half a lifetime, I looked down on many things and saw many people clearly. The farther you go, the more you understand: silence, noise and argument all have their own power of silence. Failure is self-cultivation.
? Confucius said, "A gentleman is Thai but not arrogant, and a villain is arrogant but not Thai." People with patterns are not only extraordinary in strength, but also humble and low-key And those who make themselves famous everywhere with a little achievement are actually a sign of inner lack of self-confidence.
? There is such a scene in Mo Yan's Late Mature Man. At a banquet, the people who came to the banquet were elites from all walks of life, including generals and senior officials. While preparing dinner, a middle-aged man suddenly grabbed the stage and asked for a microphone to introduce himself loudly: "Leaders, I am a poet Jin Hepu ... This year, I made a lecture tour in 100 universities across the country, published five books of poetry and held three poetry recitals ..." Everyone stood up and applauded him. I didn't expect such figures in this small county. He couldn't help being proud of the spring breeze, so he had to write a poem for everyone on the spot: "Big steamed bread, big white steamed bread, big fragrant steamed bread, big steamed bread made of old noodles, big steamed bread grown in my hometown …" A poem "Steamed bread" surprised everyone and made the audience laugh. A senior official couldn't stand it anymore, so he quickly ordered the food and changed the subject, and the farce ended like this.
In my life, I often meet a kind of people who show off all the time. As long as they get a little achievement, they begin to expand physically and mentally, giving themselves a 360-degree shine. The light that can be shown off will not only illuminate others, but will make people feel dazzling. A truly powerful person can still be sought after and respected without mentioning his achievements. J·k· Rowling, a British woman writer, became famous for her best-selling novel Harry Potter. But this reader never waited for her next book. It turns out that she has changed her pen name and written a new book, The Call of the Cuckoo, which has succeeded again. She said, "I just don't want to support myself with the glory of the past." Not showing off is your absolute recognition of yourself. Just like a saying circulating on the Internet, the more a person lacks, the more he will show off. Mature rice has been bowing its head; A truly rich person will not dazzle everyone.
As the saying goes: "There are people outside, and there are mountains outside." What you are proud of may be nothing to others. You think you have a lot of knowledge, but you are just teaching fish to swim. A person's maturity is not to show off his mountains and dew, not to publicize himself, but to be calm and calm.
? Efforts are not complaining, but practicing. 1990, in the boiler workshop of Fuyao Group, there was a high flyers who graduated from Beihang University. He is thin, and he uses a scooter to pull one or two tons of waste glass from the workshop to the garbage dump every day. This is the dirtiest and most tiring job of the whole group. It's really a chore. Others don't understand this, and some people advise him to resign early. It is unnecessary for a man like him to stay in such a dirty workshop. When he came to the interview, he thought he could be a clerk at the worst. Unexpectedly, Cao only glanced at his resume, turned around and threw it into the trash can. He said with a straight face, "Go to the boiler workshop to pull the scooter." The young man has worked in the workshop for seven years without complaining. Seven years later, Cao Wangde called him to the office to talk and asked several questions in succession: "Is it unfair for a famous university graduate to work in the production workshop?" ? Why don't you want to leave? "He said:" There must be grievances, but I will adjust my mentality. "People spend more than half of their lives doing odd jobs, and these odd jobs for ten or twenty years are just to let others know about you and give you a chance to do something important. No matter work or life, we will inevitably encounter all kinds of bad things. But complaining blindly can't solve any problems. Instead of feeling sorry for yourself, it is better to turn every grievance into an upward motivation. As Mencius said: "If the sky falls on the Sri Lankan people, they must first suffer their minds, work their bones and muscles, starve their bodies and skin, and mess with their actions, so be patient and get what they can't do." "If you want to wear a crown, you must bear its weight. All the hardships you encounter and the grievances you swallow are actually for your success. There are two consequences of a person's suffering, one is consumption and the other is gain, depending on your attitude.
Fools complain about others, but they have eaten up the failure of life; The wise man is silent, but can he come to Thailand in the end? It is wise not to argue about bad things. Writer Zhou once said: "Life should have indisputable wisdom." The road of life, don't argue with bad people, don't entangle with broken things. In the movie "Let the Bullets Fly", there is a bridge that makes me feel deeply. Xiao Liu ate a bowl of bean jelly in a small restaurant. Unexpectedly, something bad happened: he was framed for eating two bowls of bean jelly. However, Xiao Liuqi argued with people, and more and more people were watching, and they also booed around with ulterior motives. He was in a hurry, but he didn't want to be accused of giving a bowl of powder less. Finally, he cut open his abdomen with a knife and abruptly took out a bowl of bloody bean jelly to prove to everyone: "Is there only one bowl of powder?" When the truth came out, the spectators left, and he fell in a pool of blood and could never wake up. It's not worth winning a bowl of powder, it's worth losing your life.
? There is also such a plot in the TV series Paradise. Ding Yuanying went to the breakfast shop and ordered a bowl of wonton. When he finished eating, his front foot just walked out of the gate, and the proprietress stopped him and said that he would not pay. He paused, looked at her for two seconds and gave her the money without saying a word. But another customer said that I paid the money as soon as I saw him coming. Wife of shop-owner mouth will fight back, I didn't think Ding Yuanying left and never look back. In his eyes, instead of fighting for bad things, it is better to save some time and do something more beneficial. Xiao Liuhe and Ding Yuanying, who were also framed by the shopkeeper, had different endings. The former fought for right and wrong and died on the spot; The latter confessed to paying and drifted away.
? Nietzsche said in The Other Side of Good and Evil: "When you stare into the abyss, the abyss also stares at you." The best way to avoid rolling in the deep is to stay away from the abyss. The more you pester others about something, the worse things are waiting for you. The best way to deal with bad things is to take a step back and leave it alone. Instead of fighting for meaningless things, it is better to focus on yourself and live your own life.
? In life, we will always meet some people we don't like, or friends who are duplicitous, or colleagues who stab in the back, or relatives who like to take advantage. When you are young, when you hate someone, you will always be cynical and desperate to tear your face. Later, it became more and more clear: if you hate someone, there is really no need to turn your face. Adults bid farewell to a relationship, there is no heartbreaking quarrel and collapse, and there is no formal farewell, only silent alienation.
? As Mo Yan wrote: If you don't like it, you just don't like it. There is no reason. Just like a gust of wind, all you have to do is pat the dust on your body and turn around and walk away calmly. The three views are different and need not be strong; Different levels, no need to argue; Don't pester rotten people and things. No mortal, no mortal. I like Yu's sentence in "Looking for China": "A person's life pattern is big, so he won't indulge in trifles." Whether you are satisfied with walking in the world lies not in fate, but in the height of things and the pattern of doing things. When a person has seen mountains and seas, he will not be bound by the small things in front of him.
? No matter what you have experienced, don't let it bind your heart. In fact, you just need to take care of yourself, don't put too much thought and energy into it, there is no need to speak ill of yourself behind your back and lower your level. In fact, the world in your eyes is the projection of your heart. Sometimes, the root of your dislike for others is that your own realm is not enough. Being a man, the most taboo is to measure the thickness of others' lives with your own scale; Put other people's stories under your own microscope. So, please learn to protect your mouth and your heart. Never say anything you shouldn't say. Don't distort a rumor that you shouldn't make.
? The so-called cultivation is to talk less about feelings and see more facts; The so-called emotional intelligence is to talk less about right and wrong and take yourself as the center. Learn to be silent, improve yourself and go into battle lightly.