When I was your age, I thought every day that a beautiful woman like Ouyang Xiadan had nothing to miss. Youth is always a stupid thing you do, and you always feel bullied, but it is always inevitable.
Just like when I was in college, I always carried a girl's bag. She carries a bag when she gets on and off the train. Later, I found this girl walking with another boy on campus. I asked her, I said who this boy was, and she said it was my boyfriend. I was very angry. I said, since you have a boyfriend, why do you want me to carry your bag when you get on and off the train? She said. But I still have no regrets today, because I think that is youth. If I calculate what I can get from girls and do what I should do, we have become calculating numbers, and calculating numbers is only related to old crafty people.
Youth is actually related to three thoughts, called dreams, ideals and thoughts. If we can stick to our ideals, pursue our dreams and explore our independent thoughts, our youth has already begun.
When we stick to our ideals, you will never give up. I learned this when I was a child. So when 16 years old started the college entrance examination, he failed in the first year, failed in the second year, and persisted in the exam in the third year. There is no Peking University in my ideal, but I finally entered Peking University, because I insisted on my ideal and had to go to college, knowing that there is no vast world in the countryside.
But in the vicissitudes of life, it is easy for us to give up our dreams. Dreams are often related to our youth, but don't forget that when you give up your dreams over time, it also means the end of your life. The biggest sign of youth is that you will never admit failure, experience setbacks and never change your mind.
What kind of heart is to always have a beautiful heart, a heart full of hope, a heart looking for hope from despair and a brave heart. In the face of any setbacks, failures and blows, you can still stand up and shout at the sky.
The world around you is still beautiful and you still have a happy heart. After you encounter great despair, you still believe that most people in this world are good, and the world will always give you opportunities. If you are trampled under the soil, you can still grow a big tree from the seed like a seed. Facing the test of failure, everyone will experience it.
In my life, if I do the math, there are more failures than successes. I only succeeded once, that is, I founded a small new oriental, and failed countless times. From three failures in the college entrance examination to pursuing 25 girls in love, none of them succeeded. Finally, I got tuberculosis, stayed in the hospital for one year, and was finally expelled from Peking University. Finally, when I was working in New Oriental, I wanted to get a license for New Oriental.
At the same time, please really believe that youth has nothing to do with age. Some people 16 died at the age of 20. They have no expectation for life and no longer have the spirit of struggle. Some people are still full of youth after 80 years old, and they are thinking about how to live in the future. So youth gives you four words, that is, enthusiasm.
I believe that you should remember a poem written by forefinger (Guo Lusheng) in the future. My friend, please firmly believe in the future, indomitable efforts, youth who overcomes death, the future and love life. Thank you.