Linglong dice Anhoudou, what do you know about bone acacia? -The article "Two Southern Songs/New Poems"
After birth, there will be no acacia, only acacia, and then acacia. -Xu Zaisi's "Gui Ling Chun Qing"
I want to go crazy if I can't see you for a day. -Sima Xiangru's Yellow/Feng Qiu
Without Cai Feng's wings, it is impossible to be Qi Fei in fly with me; The heart is like a soul, and the feelings are the same. -Li Shangyin's Untitled Stars and Winds of Last Night.
(1) Love:
Brain science and psychological research have found that romantic and vigorous love is a biological procedure. Love-related behaviors are all caused by multiple attraction (charm and major histocompatibility complex, etc.). See the natural paragraph in the "Factors" section).
The correlation between the area that activates the angular gyrus and the passion of love (R = 0.496, P = 0.002). For details, please refer to the original address of our scientific research materials, which is taken from the electronic journal of MIT Press. )
Different sexual orientations determine whether people are willing to fall in love with the same sex or the opposite sex. Sexual orientation is a natural phenomenon. Because of the instinct of human beings to reproduce, heterosexual love is absolutely dominant, otherwise the species will become extinct.
Studies all over the world have confirmed that the general passion has actually ended, and its conclusion is from love at first sight to holding hands. No wonder some cultures say that it is foolish to choose a lifelong partner based on such a fleeting love. (Excerpted from the international channel of National Geographic magazine, see the natural paragraphs of the original article Connotation or Cultural Customs and Related Discrimination)
(2)
Marx is talking about the love of the body, that is, the love emotion only based on the material.
Fromm's The Art of Love is about universal love, that is, love in a broad sense.
Cao Jing's Theory of Love Belief talks about love emotion plus love relationship (a love relationship that arises from emotion and transcends emotion).
In my previous love ethics, love feelings and love relationships were similar.
If the love emotion is over, then the love relationship will also end. There is no transcendence between love relationship and love emotion, so strictly speaking, this can't be regarded as real ethics.
In my love ethics, love relationship has a certain transcendence over love emotion. For example, even if the relationship ends, there will still be at least one month beyond the relationship.
Love relationship comes from love emotion and goes beyond it. Love relationship is metaphysical, so it will not fluctuate because of the fluctuation of love emotion. Love relationship has ethical characteristics, so it is called love ethical relationship.
Secondly, love ethics has been influenced and alienated by marriage ethics, which is different in different times and regions. The essence of marriage is a social system that controls the relationship between men and women. If there is an independent and pure love ethics, what is it?
Love ethics is the only way to pursue love (relationship), loyalty and long-term between two people. Pursue others on this premise.
Love (ethics) relationship can't be based only on emotion, otherwise the standard of love ethics will fluctuate with the fluctuation of emotion. Love (ethical) relationship is bound to arise from emotion and transcend it.
This characteristic beyond emotion is called the metaphysical existence of love relationship, and a simple understanding can also be regarded as that your love is with God.
Love (relationship) based only on emotion and love (relationship) that originates from and transcends emotion.
Love (relationship) based only on emotion is fluctuating and intermittent, such as love today, not love tomorrow and love the day after tomorrow. For example, there is love in the conscious state, and there is no love in the unconscious state (sleep). (physics)
Love (relationship) that originates from emotion and transcends emotion is persistent and transcends. The love belief or commitment of two people at the belief level makes the love relationship transcend the existence of sex. (metaphysics)
Love is divided into two stages, one is the stage of love selection, and the other is the stage of love belief (love ethical relationship) generation.
Whether it is married love or unmarried love, the sense of sacredness comes from the generation of love belief (love ethical relationship). Modern marriage advocates love as the foundation.
Love emotion is fluctuating and intermittent. The ethical relationship of love is metaphysical, continuous and relatively stable.
What is the difference between love ethics and marriage ethics? Cao Jing's Theory of Love Belief
The ethical relationship of love is self-generated, and the whole world is a man and a woman, which is bound to be related to love, starting from the voluntary love beliefs (beliefs) of both parties and counting from the voluntary love beliefs (ethical relationships). It belongs to voluntary ethics, and there is no controlling party. Voluntary ethics is something that originates from emotion and transcends it.
In China, the ethical relationship of marriage is currently registered by the Civil Affairs Bureau, with the intervention of the third party control (different countries have different marriage systems in different times), which is generated by marriage control and counted by marriage control. Belongs to control ethics. The essence of marriage belongs to the category of control. Or choose a loyal object under limited conditions.