in order to achieve the same conditions as others, we keep pursuing and working hard. However, the fact may be that even if we try our best, we may not be able to achieve what others have.
only then do I realize that what I have is also envied by others. While you envy others, others are envious of you.
Last night, I chatted with WeChat, my best friend who grew up together. Since we left the school gate and went to work in different areas, we have rarely met.
I remember when I was young, we spent almost the whole day together, except sleeping. We go up the mountain to herd cattle, bathe in the river, collect firewood and play together.
It was more than ten years before we met again. At that time, we kept in touch with each other. She went home for the summer vacation this time, and also dropped in to see her old parents.
I was asked before I went home, saying that I couldn't come back. After all, I finally got the contact information from childhood. I really want to meet more often and get back the lost time.
I'm sorry to tell her that I'm going back because of my work and my children, but it may not coincide with your time.
once again, we didn't see each other, so we had to chat on WeChat. Yesterday was when we were children. Let's recall the good times once again.
My best friend said that she envied me when I was a child, saying that I was so good at climbing trees. A big tree climbed like a monkey with no effort. And she couldn't climb it with all her strength.
She also envies me that I don't have to go out to do farm work in summer and won't be basked in the sun.
envy me this and that. At that moment, it felt as if she had nothing when she was a child.
But the truth is, I envy her the freedom to go out and play. Although it is hard to go out to do farm work, you can go out to play.
I can't. Although I don't have to do farm work and won't be basked in the sun, I have the same arduous task of taking care of my nephew, not one, but three. Besides, I am still an eleven-year-old child. I have been a "mother" since I was eight years old. How difficult it is.
At that time, in order to get rid of taking my nephew at home, I tried many ways to fight against it, but they all failed, so I was beaten by my father.
At that time, I was so eager to play freely like my best friend! Rolling in the green grass, picking lotus seeds in the lotus pond with swaying lotus flowers, and playing sandbags in the dam of the compound.
she envies me for climbing trees, but I envy her for swimming.
Our hometown is rich in water resources, and there are ponds everywhere. In summer, after dinner, we will take a bath in the pond together.
Children are naturally fond of water. The cool and clear water attracts us to jump happily in the water. We try various postures.
hold your breath for a while and get into the water; After a while, the face is up and the backstroke position is opened; After a while, open your hands and go freestyle.
I don't show weakness when I see them happy. It's okay to hold your breath, but when it's your turn to backstroke, you choke. This choke directly choked my desire to swim.
we are remembering each other and feeling deeply. At that time, we were young and didn't talk to each other as openly as we do now. Just playing, laughing and frolicking.
Now we are middle-aged aunts. When we walked through Qian Fan, we found that we were once so envious of others and were once envied by others.
what does it matter if I can't compare with others?
it turns out that in the years you didn't know, what you had was the best.
in the future, I will live my life without being disturbed by the secular world or defined by other people's eyes, and be my truest self.