The awakening of parents, the future of children.

Many parents have been taught that primary school is an important stage to cultivate habits, especially before the third grade.

In the third grade, with the increase of children's learning difficulty, children need to have certain ability to deal with problems. Therefore, in the first and second grades, it is necessary for parents to exercise their children's habits and abilities, among which the cultivation of thinking is very important.

My baby will be in the next semester for one year. For more than a semester, it has been free-range. Children's homework is basically to complete the homework assigned by the teacher, and there is basically no homework.

It was not until the second semester that I saw that the first thing children do when they come home from school every day is not to do homework, but to play. I really realize it's time to take care of it.

Although playing is a child's nature, as a student, learning is urgent. I missed the habit formation and ideological guidance of the first and second grades, and I still have to suffer in the future.

So I decided to start cultivating children's habits and abilities, otherwise, when the children reach the senior grade, their problem-solving ability and learning endurance will not meet the requirements in all aspects. If you can't solve the problem, you will feel frustrated. And at that time, it would be more tiring to think about educating children.

With an idea, how to act?

Fortunately, now is an era of developed network, and we can learn a lot of information through the network. For example, in some classes, in the circle of friends and in the study group, we can receive some good teaching methods provided by teachers.

I also intend to sum up what I have learned through my own study. First, I will leave a knowledge base for myself, which I can browse from time to time to deepen my impression and use. Second, I will share it in this way, so that parents who also need help can gain something.

For example, today's study, I made the following summary:

1 course, 1 course is about mind mapping.

Mind mapping used to be very popular, but people generally associate mind mapping with adults, and never thought that mind mapping actually applies to children.

Expressing what you have learned in the form of mind map can exercise the rigor of logic, thinking ability and rigor of logic.

Mind mapping has many forms, such as curtain, xmid, brackets, vertical arrangement, fish and so on. Once I saw others draw mind maps so beautifully and in various colors, I felt a sense of fear. I don't think I can draw them so well, so I gave up mind mapping. Later, I woke up through the teacher's explanation. In fact, the focus of mind mapping is to improve my thinking.

Mind mapping is just a tool, and we don't have to care too much about what it is like. The key point is to sublimate our thoughts and exercise our logical ability through mind mapping.

For children, we can use the simplest circular mind map, bubble mind map and tree mind map to let children connect their thoughts in simple learning to draw.

For example, we want children to plan a day's trip and let them draw what they did after getting up in the morning in the form of mind maps. What to do at noon? What to do at night? Exercise time and target management to enhance the sense of logic.

How to teach children to draw mind maps? Take an article "Little Tadpole Looking for Mom" as an example.

For example, if we want to know the mother of a tadpole, we can use a bubble diagram to draw a circle in the middle, write that the tadpole is looking for its mother, then draw several circles beside it, and write the mother's eyes, legs, color, shape and other characteristics inside, and then connect the outer circle with the middle circle with a line. This simple mind map is completed.

In short, the key to mind mapping is not the tool, but the training of thinking, so that children can understand the cause and effect, including the relationship with inclusion.

Parents are children's first teachers, and they are also important guides for their growth. We all want to give our children the best, give them what they want, and let them get these things continuously. We must help them lay a good foundation in the early stage, so that they will have more possibilities in the future.

The key to educating children is action. Mom and dad, let's go.