Dear future self:
Hello! I am you! I don't know if you are doing well now. When I am alone, I miss you a little. I have a lot to say to you, so I will try to write you a letter. The future self, you, at the beginning, just stepped into the society. This university is very big, and there are many things I still don't understand and have to learn. I used to live an ordinary life without suffering, but now it's different. Now I must think about things and work hard for the future. So, when I first entered the university, I really felt a little tired. But if I think you can live a better life in the future, I have to work hard. But when I have nothing to do, I can't help but smile and feel very tired when I think that you may lead a rainy and romantic life in the future.
To put it bluntly, I don't live for me now, but for you. I don't know if you will look down on me in the future and how to live in the future, but I think I still deserve you now, because I didn't betray you, wasted your good time and stopped fighting for you. I have been moving forward, no matter how you live in the future, I hope you won't abandon me because I have worked hard. At least now I'm trying, although I'm just helping you. In the future, I know you will suddenly think of me when you are free. If you think about yourself from the beginning, you will laugh or cry silently.
Because I was so naive and difficult at the beginning, please don't blame you for making some decisions in the future, because I gave up something for you, but now I don't regret it, because it's for you, my future self, no matter what my future life is like, I hope your nature will not change, and I hope you will work as hard as before, be as modest and do your duty, no matter whether you have money or not in the future. Just remember that it's plain, don't do what I'm sorry for now, do your duty, be an aboveboard person, and be yourself in the future. No matter where you are, please remember those who have helped you and cared about you, because you really didn't live so chic at that time, and people should know how to be grateful when they are alive. No matter what level you are in the future, please don't stop, because I expect you now. Future self, I am the original you, praying for your safety!
Xx，xx，XX，XX
Chapter two: A letter to my future self.
Dear self:
Hello, I don't know what you are now. Perhaps, you have become the * * in my dream. Then I must congratulate myself and you in the future. But maybe, you are still as ordinary as I am now, that's because I'm sorry. Now, I am * * years old. By the time you read this letter, I have been struggling or drifting for many years. Of course, in order not to let me be sorry for you and my future self, I will not drift down. Write down what I will do, study, work, life, etc. On the one hand, it is more than 200 words, enough to think about what I will do in the future. ) Now, I am * * years old. I can't guarantee what you, that is, myself, will become after so many years of hard work, but I hope that you will become the * * in my dream, with your own sky and yourself.
Pay tribute to the future!
Xx，xx，XX，XX
Chapter three: A letter to my future self.
Ten years later, I:
Hello! It's uncomfortable to call it that for the first time! Of course, I am the one who wrote this letter now, and I will be the one who will receive this letter in the future. It feels so strange, as if I have traveled through time and space. Let's get to the point directly! I am writing this letter to you because I hope I can have a bright future in ten years. Of course, you already know what I will be like in ten years. Do I still stubbornly keep the moustache at the corner of my mouth, and when others advised me to shave it off, do I still stubbornly say that I want to keep it as Santa Claus? Is your figure as fat as most middle-aged people I see now? Tell me, when you look down, do you see your toes or your navel? I always care about you because you are another me.
Didn't you say that loving you equals loving yourself? In order to love myself better, I can only love you with one more thought. I hope your wife doesn't mind, because I'm sure you're not * * *, so I told our wife to let her put her heart in it. First of all, I want to ask you a few things that I particularly want to know.
First, tell me, is my wife beautiful? I know that no matter how beautiful a person is, he can't eat as a meal, but if he has a meal, no matter how beautiful he is, he can still get some discount. Of course, I can't forgive you if you tell me that you are still single. Someone once said that after you have love, you will regret it for half your life; And if there is no love, you will regret it all your life. It doesn't matter if I'm single now, because I still have ten years to find a suitable girlfriend. There's not much time left for you. So, find a suitable person to spend the rest of your life with. I don't want the happiness of my life to be destroyed in your hands.
Second, tell me what your monthly salary is now. Although this is a question involving personal privacy, I shouldn't ask around. But I need to know what I will be like in the future. I can't be reluctant to buy a movie ticket after ten years. In that case, please tell me as soon as possible. I may leave this big city now and go back to our hometown for development. That might be better, don't you think? I think your life experience is ten years richer than mine, and you should be able to give me some guiding suggestions.
Third, ten years later, am I still as disobedient to my parents as I am now? I never liked what my parents said, so I don't think you will change much at that time. However, parents are old. If you are a father, you will certainly understand the good intentions of your parents. So, even if they sometimes ask you something, if you can satisfy them, please do your best to satisfy them. Now I make them very angry. Please take good care of them for me for a while. When I reach your age, you can give me the baton. Well, since you may mind me prying into your privacy too much, I'd better stop here.
I can't imagine what you were like when you were alive. I was going to let you write and tell me, but it suddenly occurred to me: as long as there is no accident, you will definitely read this letter in ten years; But if you want to answer my letter, you won't have time to travel unless there is an accident. In other words, I can't understand your reply. Then, let me expect more from you. If you are willing to do what I want now, maybe you will really succeed in the future. Then treat yourself well.
After all, being good to yourself is good to me! First, I admit that I just graduated from the university campus, and I also admit that there is a big gap between the knowledge I have learned and the ability needed by society. Continuous learning is the best way for me to keep improving. I have realized this and intend to move forward on this road without hesitation. I believe that through my efforts, you have made some small achievements, but I hope you will not stop and continue on this road. Look at you now, and then look back at me today, and you will know how indispensable learning is.
Secondly, neither you nor I can avoid a topic, that is, school education. We have all been in the same school and received the same education since childhood, so I think we can reach a consensus on this issue. When many people in the society are clamoring for the futility of reading with the viewpoint of money worship, I hope you can keep a clear head and tell our children with your own personal experience how sacred it is to go to college for education. Maybe he (she) will be disappointed with his academic performance, so please tell your child how to study at school. It is better to teach people to fish than to teach them to fish. If the child still doesn't understand, please take him or her fishing by the river.
Third, I know I'm still single and dink, but I still expect you to have a family and career by then. I don't think I'm qualified to discuss with you on the question of starting a family or starting a career first. But as I said just now, love is beautiful after all. People who have good things can certainly create a good life. So, you don't have to dwell on this problem. When love is deep, do what you should do. Don't be bound by some social secular views, find someone you like and like, and live a good life. Fourth, I don't know if you will be overwhelmed by the burden of life.
In fact, life has never changed, only our age has changed. Now I can live happily with a small salary. Although I have a little trouble, I am doing what I like. What could be better than this? Some people say that if you want to do something you like, you must first do a lot of things you don't like. Although your life pressure is much greater than mine, it is inevitable to do many things you don't like, but I hope you will always stick to your dream and don't give up my present pursuit because of money, in that case I will be very painful. Fifth, maybe you have gradually become peaceful, you no longer like rock and roll, and you no longer like heavy-flavored movies. It doesn't matter.
The only thing I don't want to see is that music and movies disappear from your life. What kind of end of the world is that! A saint like Confucius, after listening to music, still "knows the taste of meat in March". It is conceivable that if you still love music, how much money you will save for our family every month! As the last art form, film itself is of great significance, and I don't need to say more. What I want to entrust you with is to stay away from those extremely fake songs and movies that can't even enter the cinema and go directly to the movie channel. Don't lower your taste, because once you lower your level, it will be more difficult to upgrade.
What's more, I don't want to be the kind of person I despise now in ten years. Sixth, pay attention to your health and don't let all kinds of midlife crises happen to you. For me now, although I still don't understand what midlife crisis is, I know it should be a terrible word for us. No matter what shape it comes from, we'd better stay away, because you have parents and children, and you can't afford to play this game. Finally, finally, I'm a little tired. I'm afraid I won't say this last point again. I'll be your age when I pay the money. In fact, I really don't know what to say here. After all, many changes have taken place in the past ten years. I just hope you can always do what you like and stick to your beliefs.
There may be no tools to help you walk on the road of life, but once you lack faith, you will lose your way, and no matter how hard you try, you will only turn around. Maybe what you like is very different from what I look like now. Anyway, your happiness is my last wish. I pray to all the gods to wish you happiness. Well, I've written a lot, and I'm afraid you're not in the mood to read any more. Maybe your wife is urging you to make soy sauce for her behind her back. Love her for me! In the end, it seems more difficult to write. I just typed these words on the computer. Why do I feel that I have known you for a long time? In fact, after careful calculation, I have only known you for 23 years since I was born, but you have known me for 33 years. This is indeed a strange proposition. So, I think you should know you better than I do.
Then, if conditions permit, can you take some time out of your busy schedule to write me a reply? Maybe I'll understand when I get to your age. Who can say for sure about such a thing? My dear friend, I wish you happiness. I also wish our parents, our wives and children good health. 10 years ago, you wrote it after a meal, and your thoughts were flying.
Chapter four: A letter to my future self.
For me in 2020:
Hello! When you are exhausted, when you are immersed in your study, when you are thinking hard, please put down what you are doing for a while and read the letter I wrote to you.
Are you still sticking to your dream in 2020? If you are confused on the way forward, please don't be afraid or confused. Calm down and think back on the promises you made to your parents, teachers and classmates in high school. You know, the easiest thing in life is to choose, and the hardest thing is to choose. But no matter what path and goal you choose, you must rely on yourself to achieve it, and the results you choose can only be borne by yourself. I think, since I have chosen a hard way to study, I should stick to it, work hard and advance without hesitation. Please remember, no matter in the past, present or future, as long as you try your best to do one thing, you will certainly succeed! Now the study is very heavy, but after a hard day, I will definitely feel that this day has been extremely fulfilling, and I will proudly give myself a thumbs-up and say, "Great!" "So, what about you? I believe you will be more tired than me, because your studies must be more arduous than now. But I believe that only through tempering can we grow faster, and only in the face of setbacks can we win. No matter how steep the mountain is, it will be conquered by the brave sooner or later. When you cross layers of thorns, when you split one hard rock after another, what awaits you at the top of the mountain must be a gorgeous flower of success! When I wrote this letter, it was difficult to write it down. Not won't, but dare not. Indeed, who dares to ask too much of themselves in the future?
I am in 2020. Is your success or failure in my hands now? Therefore, instead of dreaming about the future, it is better to use your own hands to open up the road to success in the future. And this letter is not so much an encouragement to you as an encouragement to me now. Whether now or in the future, there will always be people ahead that we must surpass, including ourselves. Perhaps, in this year, you will occasionally be confused and lazy, but please firmly believe that the eternal dream in your heart has been firmly grasped in the hands of "us"!
In 2020, will you take another big step towards our success? Don't forget, yesterday's me and today's me will all become dusty history. Those who cling to the past can only retreat from difficulties. Similarly, people who look forward to the future too much can only hinder their down-to-earth progress invisibly. Only by putting aside the past, facing the future and grasping today can we truly create success. 20 1 1 year is the key period for your study. "Learning is like sailing against the current, if you don't advance, you will retreat" is my entrustment to you. "Heaven will send a great mission to Sri Lanka, so we must first suffer from their mind, their bones and muscles, starve their bodies, and empty their bodies. Those who can do what they can, so be patient and get what they can't do" is my famous saying to you and me. Let's cheer together!
Me in 2020
Xx, xx, 2020
Chapter five: A letter to my future self.
Dear self:
Hello, I believe that when you receive this letter, the time has passed. Although we can't stop the passage of time when youth is silent, I'm afraid that the teenager who insisted on worrying about giving new words already knows what it is like to worry.
I hope you will still be happy when you read this letter. I hope the sunshine at that time can still pass through the cracks in the leaves and then through the French windows, leaving a warm mark in your heart.
When I wrote this letter, I was 20 years old and a sophomore. Quiet personality, not noisy. Silence in front of strangers and eloquence in front of acquaintances. I like surfing the Internet and reading books. This seemingly peaceful life is full of undercurrents.
How to describe the helplessness now? I want to earn my own living, but I find myself a doll that can't live without my parents. I don't want to ask my elderly parents for money, but I find that I am actually very timid and powerless now.
I wonder if you have a job in the future. Whether you are busy from nine to five every day or not. I don't think the salary of the job is important. I just want a job and peace of mind.
At that time, you should be more responsible. Maybe there will be pressure at work, maybe life will be rough. All these things should make you feel tired. At that time, will you think of me now? Will you miss you more than me? You see, people are such complicated creatures. Self-reliance is certainly the life you want, but it is definitely not your ideal life.
More than once, I have thought about my ideal lifestyle in the future. You should be independent before you are 29. In the years after that, I was free to do what I liked.
I have always believed that true freedom is not to do whatever you want, but to do whatever you don't want.
My freedom is to stand on the Qinghai-Tibet Plateau and watch the blue sky there, sit on a boat in Shaoxing and watch the drizzle, or hide in the flower sea of Provence and listen to the fragrance of lavender. Don't think about the trivial things in the world. When you are tired, go home and have a rest and continue the next journey.
I hope that when you read this letter, you will feel happy when you just came back from playing or excited when you are about to embark on a journey again. In that case, I think you are kind even if you are blurred in the future.
Finally, we will never say goodbye, which means that your life will stay in the present state forever. I hope you wake up every day knowing that you are making progress. If life is a journey, I hope you will go straight on the train, see the scenery you have never seen and listen to the stories you have never heard. And I will look at your shadow, regard you as a goal, approach you, and don't touch you.
Don't write, look farther. I wish you a bright future
Xx year xx month xx day