It is reported that Guan Ju, the first article in The Book of Songs edited by Confucius, describes a young man who can't sleep because he is eager for a woman. Confucius' student Zuo said: "Affection stops with ceremony", which is what Confucius advocated.
Affection, that is, human emotions are generated between men and women; It is bound by etiquette to stop at the ceremony.
Analysis: "Show love, stop at ceremony" is the idea of Confucius. Falling in love is ok, but you can't go beyond the boundaries of etiquette. According to the description of the poem, this boundary is mainly aimed at nobles, and women's feelings can't be taken away.
"Stop" here does not mean to stop feelings, but to stop within the scope allowed by etiquette, and you can't do anything beyond etiquette because of love.
Extended data
Guanju is a folk song of the Han nationality in the pre-Qin period, which originated from The Book of Songs, National Style and Nan Zhou. It is the first article in the Book of Songs and the first article in the style of the Records of the Fifteen Kingdoms. Many sentences in the poem contain profound and beautiful meanings, among which My Fair Lady, which praises both her beauty and her beauty, can be said to echo and complement each other.
Another example is the phrase "tossing and turning", which vividly expresses the love of the lover. Later, Bai Juyi's "Song of Eternal Sorrow" and George's "Moon Qu Yuan" all came from here. The Book of Songs is the first collection of poems in the literary history of Han Dynasty. It had a far-reaching impact on the development of poetry in later generations and became the source of the realistic tradition of China's classical literature.
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