Love, unforgettable pain
Speech at the class meeting with the theme of "success and love"
Speaker: Zhong Dunfei
"I opened the window and my hands rustled with memories." Changfeng blows my thoughts into the distance. Years have passed, and the other shore has been swaying for thousands of years. An eternal song came from the river: "The white dew is frost; The so-called Iraqis are on the water side. " That's the distance between two hearts, that's what love looks like at first.
You say that you love rain, but you open your umbrella when it rains (you say that the misty rain is faint, the Lanting looks far away, and then you dance lightly and cover your clothes deeply), you say that you love the sun, but you find a shadow point when the sun shines (you say that the spring is bright and the green sleeves are red, and then you cover the West Building and stand quietly beside the green). Everything was so beautiful when we met.
However, this is short-lived. As someone said in the past, I used to think that love was a jump in the poetry of piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, but I had to face daily necessities. Remember the poem "The Book of Songs for the Mang"? "In order to protect themselves, I think that love is simple and beautiful, but later it is' growing old together and always making me complain'. Everything is like the moon in the water, flowers in the mirror, and dreams.
"Zhuangzi" recorded such a story, saying that two fish were in the middle of the sun, constantly spitting bubbles to keep each other wet and not sunburned. But Zhuangzi said: It is better to forget each other. It is better to swim in the rivers and lakes than to struggle in difficulties, as long as we are both good. Because love can't be obtained by hard work.
On this day, she was happiest, but he was still playing when you, my love, while she was wearing a wedding dress with flowers and flowers overlapping. I don't know where people are going, but the peach blossoms in the spring breeze are still smiling. I have seen that kind of spring, and the earth is flying. You don't need an eternal promise before you, just want to hold your hand and grow old with your son.
"If the truth is a kind of injury, please choose a lie, if a lie is a kind of injury, please choose silence, if silence is a kind of injury, please choose to leave", how to make Lin forget the love on Cambridge, and how to let go of the beauty when she first met? Some people say that Lin is the happiest woman in the Republic of China. Admittedly, this sentence is correct. The three men in her life: Xu Zhimo, Liang Sicheng and Jin, one amazed the time, the other softened the years, and the other.
Waiting silently all my life. Maybe these are the three forms of love, which one do you like?
Many people think that Mo Yan's writing is to survive. Even by his own admission, it was because of jiaozi's three meals a day. However, the fact is his first love when he was young-the stonemason's daughter. She has a beautifully packaged "Romance of the Gods", and Mo Yan spent an afternoon grinding it for her, only to get a few hours of reading. Mo Yan confided her girlhood love. She said, "When you write such a book, I will marry you." Finally, although Mo Yan didn't write a masterpiece like The Romance of Gods, it was also very successful and famous all over the world, but the girl with big eyes and braids married someone else's wife. This is also love, called missing.
Sometimes, you want to prove it to 10 thousand people, and in the end only one person understands. Sometimes, waiting is also a kind of happiness Zhuo Wenjun waiting, Yang Guo waiting for the little dragon girl, waiting for the money. But some of the waiting has drifted away. Lu You didn't wait for Tang Wan, Li didn't wait, didn't wait, became a tragedy. There are millions of strangers in a man's life, but only a few really accompany him to the end of his life. So, please be grateful when you meet, cherish when you are in love, and smile when you say goodbye, because sometimes, in a flash, people will miss you for a lifetime. This is love, right? This is called regret.
"It's a beauty to mourn the loss of the six armies." Does Wu Sangui really love Chen Yuanyuan? In the end, it turned out to be "the general is dead, round and old, all due to the scholar's tired eyes" and "Feng Xiao was heartbroken at night and worried about his eyes". The overlord of Chu is a bloody person, but in the end it is "the beauty in the Chu account drinks the sword"; "There are other ladies in the palace, and 3,000 beautiful women are rare, but his luck is concentrated on one person." Tang is also crazy about it, but in the end, "the emperor can't save her, he can only cover his face, and then when he turns to look, the place is full of blood and tears." Even with thousands of troops, it can't protect her beloved, which is pathetic. This is love, right? It's called heartbreak.
"Sleepless after drunkenness, gambling books have spilled tea fragrance", the past is still in my mind, but the sentence "Dong Lang" can no longer be heard, so Nalan Xingde had to comfort himself and say, "It was not normal to be a Taoist at that time." How sad Su Dongpo was when Wang Fu was away: "There is nowhere to talk about the lonely grave". With Qian Zhongshu gone, Jiang Yang came to the edge of life, but she smiled at life. Because of love, I never left.
At this point, everyone is going to refute me. We are just ordinary people and can be as touching as the stories of those people in the book. Yes, we are just ordinary people, so we can't get out. We are just floating ants, only dull happiness, only floating clouds of emotions.
I once saw such a question on a website:
"If a poor boy pretends to be rich and fall in love with you, will you still associate with him when you find out?" 99% people said: "Break up quickly, men's integrity is more important." A month later, another question appeared on the website: "If a rich second generation pretends to be poor and pursues you, will you still be with him after you find out?" 99% people said, "Of course, the person who loves him is not his money." I smiled, this is the reality.
The head teacher in junior high school warned me: "Men either love to get married or are proud to be single. Why waste great youth and energy to please other people's wives? It's naive." So, as a boy, how dare you be decadent. When you are in the boundless darkness, how can you not put the moth to the fire? Some people say, "If you are serious, you will lose." But seriously, you don't even have a chance to win.
"Life is like a pile of straw, like jade", or "My Fair Lady, a Gentleman", yes, who doesn't like beautiful women? Even women themselves are willing to "tolerate themselves", so the cosmetic industry in South Korea is booming. I'm not a girl. I don't know what you girls think, but I know that if it's true, he won't leave even if you look completely different. If it's just because of a face, even if he is with you, he will eventually give up.
Some people think that there is no love in high school. But I want to say that love has always been there. As high school students, we can't afford it. If we have to be together, please reach an agreement. 20 15 before the summer comes, when cicadas are singing, everything will be fine. All shall be well, jack shall have Jill, but now we must work hard, right?
We are all actors, playing the drama of life, we are playing our own story, but we don't know that we have become actors of others; Or shed your own tears in other people's stories. If the windy season is still in the future, I will turn over the white in March, put down my obsession and follow the fate.
Maybe I said a little too much, maybe everyone can't digest it for a while, and maybe they are still wondering what this guy is saying. I don't understand. Yes, how can we understand everything about feelings? Let's just listen. I hope it will help everyone. Finally, we may ask: "Mr. Dunphy, what is your view of love?" Then I'll tell you now, that is: use my three fireworks to change the confusion of your life, settle the dust for you and subvert the prosperity of your life.
Chapter 2: Class meeting with the theme of love.
Are you ready to fall in love?
Purpose of class meeting: Nowadays, love has become a common phenomenon among college students. Although college students are becoming more and more mature psychologically and physically, they are reckless in dealing with feelings because of their shallow experience and simple thinking, so they lack proper handling ability in dealing with sudden changes in feelings. The purpose of this class meeting is to educate students to establish a correct view of love and correctly handle the relationship between study and love.
Introduction: Everyone has a unique understanding of the familiar word "love", and some people envy the persistence of Liang Zhu and become a butterfly; Some people yearn for the courtesy of Qi Mei; Some people praise Lin Liang's pursuit of mutual understanding in architecture: some people are determined to take a leisurely walk after dinner; Some people believe in the elegant feeling of love at first sight; Someone expects to hold your hand forever; Some people practice with you, and they have a lifelong guardian of faith. So now please enjoy the love in the short film!
1. short film appreciation: "20 13 moved Zhou Yuehua and Archie, the top ten figures in China"
Moderator: I believe everyone will be moved by this ordinary and great love after watching the short film. So what does love look like in your eyes?
2. Ask the students to speak freely and "describe the love you understand"
Moderator: The students were very enthusiastic and expressed their understanding and views. Please look at the slide. what is love ?
3. Play a slide show to interpret "the true meaning of love, the characteristics of love"
Moderator: Love is sweet, but it is also bitter. How to deal with frustration or lovelorn love? Is lovelorn a shameful thing?
4. Show a slide of a lovelorn case.
5. Describe how to deal with lovelorn, and describe Goethe's grief and indignation in the face of lovelorn as a literary masterpiece "Young Werther's"
A troublesome story.
6. Class meeting summary, how to deal with the relationship between love and school?
Moderator: The class meeting is coming to an end. Please instruct the teacher to make a summary of the class meeting.
7. The lecturer will summarize the class meeting.
Chapter III: Happiness of Love (Speech)
Happiness of love (speech)
Happiness is no longer a dream for me. I often look up at the quiet blue starry sky in the south in the dead of night, which makes me feel your innocence and the brilliance of the stars and the moon, and I no longer think of Teresa Teng's Tears on a Starry Night.
Happiness is that you and my heart talk to each other, and she talks from the emotional sky. I bear the endless affection expressed by the people I love with my whole body and mind, and that is happiness.
Every happiness has experienced expectation and eager waiting, but it may also be full of bitterness, love and resentment, great sorrow and joy, and emotional ups and downs and blending.
Happiness is a baptism of two people who love each other after their hearts are pure. They can feel each other's inner thoughts, make the flowers in the mirror clearer, make the moon in the water more fragrant, and make happiness quite tasty. That kind of happiness caused by breaking the barrier between time and space makes two people who love each other cherish it more.
Happiness is the call of you and me for deep affection, the admiration and worship of both parties in love, and the most beautiful and harmonious voice in the world.
Happiness is immersed in a sweet whirlpool when you miss each other, constantly stirring each other's hearts, sometimes with tears in your eyes and sometimes with ecstasy.
My mood flies like the wind, and the breeze quietly passes through my heart, which also brings me happiness and stays in my heart for a long time. I tell you this feeling, so that you can experience and feel the happiness of love with me.
Missing is like a tide, happiness is like a tide. When it hits my heart bit by bit, the other side of life is full of endless waves of love. Family, friendship and love are all rapids that beat the other side of happiness, and happiness fills my mood again. That line is the wealth of my soul and the coordinate of my pursuit of life.