The poet uses the third person at the beginning, uses narrative language, and uses association to first reveal the relationship between Dayanhe and me: the grace of upbringing, and then describes the desolate and lonely cemetery of Dayanhe. The purpose of using the third person is The introduction arouses the reader's sympathy, but in fact it is the poet's nostalgic emotion, the fuse of the emotion, and the expression of strong emotions below. Sure enough, in the second part of the poem, the poet makes full use of the second person, as well as the first and third person, showing the poet's sharp fluctuations in emotion. The author first uses the second person, eight consecutive sentences "after you...", and uses parallelism to depict the picture of Dayanhe nurturing me without regrets in the harsh living environment. The gratitude overflows beyond the poem; At the same time, the poet writes in the first person, "I became a new guest in the home of my parents who gave birth to me." There are "carved furniture" and "golden patterns"... and the poet is "self-conscious" and even disgusted. What a stark contrast! The author uses personal pronouns to express the contrast of emotions.