The same "indisputable" and love for art are also reflected in The Three of us. I remember watching The Three of Us four years ago, and I was deeply moved by the description in the first chapter. "Our family is very simple; The three of us, it's simple. We have nothing to ask for and nothing to fight for in this world. Just get together, stay together and do what you can. When we encounter difficulties, we will bear them together, and the difficulties will no longer be difficult; We help each other together, no matter what is bitter or difficult, we can become sweet and moist. We will be happy if we are a little happier. " I also copied this passage on the title page of my notebook. Every time I look at my notebook, I can't help revisiting it.
Jiang Yang recalled: "My father respected and cared about my mother, and my mother understood and supported my father's maverick. This equal relationship between husband and wife was extremely rare in the society at that time. " Moreover, the relationship between Jiang Yang's father and mother is like old friends. They talk about everything.
Such a happy and equal relationship between husband and wife is rare, not to mention in the old society in the late Qing Dynasty, but also in the new century of equality between men and women.
Jiang Yang, who grew up in such a family atmosphere, naturally had a very happy childhood, and such a happy family environment between his parents also reappeared in himself. The love between Yang Qian and her husband is also the most popular story nowadays.
Yang Qian's love was originally based on books. After meeting for the first time, they exchanged letters and books they had read recently. "I introduced him to finish reading-know? Our? Nerve, I don't have a book. I just introduced the author and the title. Later, he said it was borrowed. He introduced me to henri bergson? Time? And then what? Free? Will, "
This emotional exchange caused by books is also envied by countless literati. Since then, the two have not only introduced books to each other, but also corresponded frequently, mostly writing letters in English. During their love, Qian Zhongshu wanted Jiang Yang to enter the graduate school in Tsinghua University so that they could be classmates for another year, but Jiang Yang didn't have time to defend himself, so he ignored him.
Qian Zhongshu thought that Jiang Yang was too sad to ignore him, so he wrote many sad poems and described his sadness with "a thousand lines of tears in pain". In the face of love, Qian Zhongshu is also extremely infatuated, and their communication is also throughout their lives.
During the Anti-Japanese War, Qian Zhongshu went to Kunming National Southwest United University to teach. At that time, Jiang Yang was entrusted by Mr. Yuji as the principal of Zhenhua Middle School, so he didn't have time to write back to Zhong Shu, but Zhong Shu's letter was never cut off.
During the anti-rightist struggle, Jiang Yang was sent to a labor camp, and Zhong Shu often wrote letters every day, which was affectionate, vivid and interesting. Among the companions who were sent down together, some didn't have any letters from home at all, and some only had one every week or two, but only Jiang Yang had letters every day.
If two people are separated, the emotional bond that connects them is letters, and many times, Qian and Yang are waiting for each other. At this time, the most talked about between them is literature.
Jiang Yang recalled her experience with Mr. Qian Zhongshu when she was studying in Oxford, and said, "Our literary exchange is the foundation of our friendship. Learning from each other is very interesting and fun. Zhong Shu reads a good book and knows that I will like it. Let me read it. " It is their love for literature that has made their future literary achievements. Moreover, they have always admired each other and were the first readers of each other's works.
When Qian Zhongshu wrote Fortress Besieged, every chapter he wrote was bound to be shown to Jiang Yang at the first time, and the two discussed with each other. When Mr. Jiang Yang wrote Bath, it was also the first time Qian Zhongshu read it. If you have read Mr. Jiang Yang's Bath, you will find that Mr. Jiang Yang's literary achievements are no less than Qian Zhongshu's, while Jiang Yang is well known to us, but always appears in front of us as Mrs. Qian Zhongshu.
As we all know, during War of Resistance against Japanese Aggression's time, Mr. Yang was more famous than Qian. In the occupied area of Shanghai, Mr. Jiang Yang successively created dramas such as Satisfied, Game World, Turning Truth into False, etc. After the performance of Satisfied, Jiang Yang became famous overnight, and the name Jiang Yang was taken at that time. Because of the close relationship between the two sisters, Ji Kang was called Jiang, so she named it, which has been used ever since.
Now everyone thinks that Jiang Yang is her real name, but few people know that her real name is "Yang Jikang". Just as we all know that Jiang Yang is Qian Zhongshu's wife and a writer, we don't know that she is also a playwright, principal of Zhenhua Middle School during the Anti-Japanese War and a translator. Don Quixote translated by Jiang Yang is the first Chinese translation from Spanish. In order to translate this book, she began to teach herself Spanish at the age of 48. But she always stands silently behind her, detached from the world.
Yang Qian and his wife are not only bosom friends in the book, but also consistent in character and value orientation. At first, Jiang Yang accepted Qian Zhongshu because Zhong Shu was "not ambitious, but only wanted to devote his life to academic work". Although she studied politics for four years as an undergraduate, she has no interest in politics. Her love in life lies in literature, which is also an academic portrayal of their husband and wife's life.
They have been each other's best friends and bosom friends all their lives. No wonder Qian Zhongshu said that Jiang Yang was a "wife, friend and lover" to her, and these three unrelated identities were uniquely combined. According to Jiang Yang and Qian Zhongshu, husband and wife should be lifelong friends. If they are lovers rather than friends, this relationship can't last. If you are not friends enough, you have to break up.
This kind of friendship has always fascinated me. When I first read Ordinary World, Shao Ping wrote to Shao An, and she said, "Let's be friends first, then brothers". This sentence deeply touched me, so when I was in high school, I got up the courage and wrote a letter to my brother, which said, "Let's be friends first, then brother and sister." Because friends are equal, there is always a concern and concern between brother and sister, and naturally there are some inequalities.
I have always believed that no matter husband and wife, lovers or parents, children and brothers, they should be friends first, and then the relationship endowed by the world. So after I went to college, I always maintained a relationship between teachers and friends when facing my favorite teachers. Good books and works will always be shared in the first time, and trivial things in life will also be confided to each other. This relationship based on friendship will be deeper and longer after graduation.