My husband and I watched "Open the Door" at home over the weekend. This is a show that our husband and wife like to watch very much. We can guess the song titles and hum the songs while watching, and we can also listen to the guests who participated in the show talk about their experiences. The story tells the story of life. This program invited a couple who have been married for 26 years. The husband Zhou Xiaolin is tall and energetic, and the wife Yin Jie beside him is quiet and delicate. They are a perfect match. Originally, they were just an ordinary couple among all living beings, but their ordinary love and marriage life made others envious.
Just 11 years ago, his wife Yin Jie suddenly told her husband Zhou Xiaolin with enlightenment: "I have been traveling on the road for so many years and I really want to settle down and enjoy a quiet life. I really want to have a life of my own." Garden." It was a casual chat, and the husband was stunned for a moment, and then made a promise to his wife to give her the most beautiful private garden in the world. Soon, Zhou Xiaolin spent all his savings to build a dream private garden for his wife. This garden is located in Zhuanlong Town, Jintang, 60 kilometers away from Chengdu. It has a large number of nearly a thousand kinds of flowers such as hollyhocks, lilies, lupines, poppies, and cornflowers. They bloom at different times according to the seasons, making it seem like a year-round flower garden. A beautiful valley filled with flowers all year round. In fact, this is no longer a small garden. This huge garden "burned" Zhou Xiaolin tens of millions of dollars. The couple even sold their house in Guangzhou and subsidized the money into the garden, but all this was It's worth it, because it's my wife's dream, and the couple enjoys running this garden together.
Throughout the program, the husband has been looking at his wife affectionately, and his wife Yin Jie has been leaning against Zhou Xiaolin with a smile. They have been married for 26 years, and both of them are middle-aged people over fifty, but the love between them is still so fresh. The host asked them the secret to keeping their marriage alive, and the wife smiled like a little girl and said: "Actually, it means being in love with your partner for a lifetime." She also praised her husband Zhou Xiaolin as a particularly romantic person. Ordinary life will always give her some small surprises, so that their love always maintains a sense of ritual. It's like building this super garden for her so that she can live in a sea of ??flowers for the rest of her life. But this is no longer a small surprise, it is a huge gift. Most women love flowers and romance. You can imagine how happy Yin Jie, who was married to Zhou Xiaolin, lived under such extreme pampering from her husband. This is exactly what everyone yearns for in a happy marriage.
In fact, the two of them experienced many twists and turns when they first met and came together. Her husband Zhou Xiaolin is from Aba Prefecture, Sichuan, while his wife Yin Jie is a native of Beijing and a girl from the capital. At that time, when China's development was not very balanced, Beijing was out of reach for most people. They met during a trip. Zhou Xiaolin worked part-time as a tour guide in Jiuzhaigou and met Yin Jie, who came from Beijing to travel. He fell in love with this girl from then on. They have been exchanging letters for several years, but Yin Jie is 3 years older than Zhou Xiaolin. She has always regarded him as a younger brother and close friend, and never thought that she would marry him.
Later, Yin Jie was one of the first batch of nursing college students in China. After graduation, she was assigned to work as a nurse in a large hospital in Beijing, and was later promoted to head nurse. After graduation, Zhou Xiaolin taught in a rural middle school in Aba Prefecture, Sichuan. In the process of previous correspondence, Zhou Xiaolin had already expressed his love for Yin Jie and hoped to become a couple with her, but Yin Jie politely refused. But Zhou Xiaolin did not give up. When the time came, he resolutely quit his job, issued a marriage certificate, and went to Beijing alone to pursue his lover. Yin Jie was very repulsive at first, but after two months of "hard work" with Zhou Xiaolin, she decided to accept this persistent suitor, left home, and started traveling around the world with her husband.
In fact, Yin Jie's family was very dissatisfied with their relationship at first, and her father even angrily told her not to come back after she left. In fact, Yin Jie was unsure at first, but she was defeated by this difficult guy who came to propose marriage and couldn't drive him away, so she made a bet on this marriage. She gave her husband a two-month investigation period. If the bet won, she would follow him for the rest of her life. If she lost, she would return to Beijing. This bet is now clear to everyone. Yin Jie became the biggest winner. Her husband used his love to make her the "largest private garden owner" in China.
After listening to their stories, "Open the Door" is coming to an end. I coquettishly leaned next to my husband and jokingly said to him: "I also want a garden." My husband touched my head and said with a smile: "Okay, I will make one for you in the future." I knew he was just trying to make me happy, but I still felt very warm in my heart. In fact, what women want is very simple. Sometimes, just a greeting from a lover, a look full of love, or a half-lying promise can make them happy. Just like when falling in love, boys will think of some sweet words to make girls happy, and they will also do many romantic things to the girl they love to make her smile. But often after marriage, these things that are often done during love are considered redundant and unnecessary.
Many couples feel overwhelmed by daily chores and trivial housework. Especially after having children, the couple spends less and less time alone together. They focus most of their energy on making money and raising children, and rarely spend time to calm down and think. Do you think this kind of married life is what you want? How long has it been since the husband and wife said sweet words to each other and smiled at each other?
As a married woman, I have many fantasies about a happy married life. I also hope that my married life, whether it is 5 years, 10 years, 15 years or 20 years, is not just about finding someone to live with. But to live a happy marriage and have a lifelong relationship with your husband.