Around the 1980s, our country began to admit some gifted children to enter universities early, which later triggered a "prodigy craze." Among them, there was a girl named Tian Xiaofei who was admitted to Peking University at the age of 13 and studied in the United States a few years later. But when he finished his studies, he chose to change his nationality and stay in the United States. She also married an old American man, which aroused people's deep thoughts -
At the age of 13, she was discovered and trained by Peking University for 4 years, and she went to study in the United States and never returned!
In 1971, Tian Xiaofei was born into a scholarly family, and her father was a university professor. Therefore, Tian Xiaofei was influenced by her parents when she was a child, and began to be involved in poetry creation, accumulating more and more words.
When she was in elementary school, she published a collection of poems. Later, I met celebrities in the industry and received praise from many people. Even many well-known writers at the time had long-standing contacts with Tian Xiaofei.
When Tian Xiaofei was 13 years old, she was discovered by Peking University because of her numerous publications and high literary attainments. In the end, she was admitted under exceptional circumstances. During the years of studying at Peking University, Tian Xiaofei still showed amazing talents.
When she was 16 years old, on the occasion of the 90th anniversary of the founding of Peking University, the article "The Opportunities of Thirteen Years Old" she wrote for Peking University was even selected into the middle school textbook.
There is one sentence: "Nothing makes me stay - except the purpose. Even if there are roses, green shades and quiet harbors on the shore. I am a boat without a tie." It is also praised by many students. Keep it in mind and use it as a slogan to encourage yourself.
During those years at Peking University, Tian Xiaofei met her idol, Haizi, and received Haizi’s appreciation and praise. Said that if she can continue to create, she will definitely become a great poet.
Encouraged, Tian Xiaofei became more confident in the path of poetry creation. But three years later, Tian Xiaofei learned the news that Haizi committed suicide by lying on the train. It was hit hard and fell silent for a long time.
Tian Xiaofei, who could not accept the death of her idol, was unable to create at all for a long time. For her, Haizi is not only her idol, but also a senior who kindly encourages her and supports her creations.
But why did the people who asked themselves to persevere at the beginning not persevere in the end? Tian Xiaofei couldn't understand.
When she finally came out of the gloom, Tian Xiaofei paid more attention to the meaning of creation and the connotation of expression. Later, in addition to poetry creation, Tian Xiaofei also translated and translated many literary works, which were deeply loved by readers.
When she was 20 years old, Tian Xiaofei chose to study in the United States. In 1991, Tian Xiaofei received a master's degree from the University of California, USA, and then went to Harvard University to continue studying for a doctorate in literature.
In 1998, she successfully obtained a doctorate from Harvard University, becoming the youngest doctorate in Harvard history. However, when people thought she would serve her motherland, this young doctor chose to stay in the United States.
Changed her nationality to marry an American man
This is because she met her mentor, Owen, during her Ph.D. Irving is a professor at Harvard University, a full 25 years older than Tian Xiaofei. But he and Tian Xiaofei got along very well, and they were very compatible.
Tian Xiaofei was moved by Owen's gentleness and thoughtfulness, and after taking the initiative to confess her love, the two fell in love. In the end, Tian Xiaofei decided to become an American citizen and stay in the United States with Irving. In 1999, they entered the marriage hall.
However, not everyone understands Tian Xiaofei's choice. Many people feel that the country vigorously cultivated talents at that time so that these high-end talents could contribute to the development of the motherland.
Face the doubts from the outside world, Tian Xiaofei seems not to care. Since 2000, Tian Xiaofei has been invited by Harvard. He stayed at Harvard as a professor, studied literature with his husband, and lived the life he wanted.
It is true that there are not many elites like Tian Xiaofei in our country who have gone abroad. But there are still many people who choose to return to China and contribute to the construction of the motherland. We should have respect for these people who unconditionally repay the motherland. As for whether Tian Xiaofei did the right thing, only she knows.