I can watch a movie, no matter what theme, as long as I can walk into the cinema and be in the strong attraction of literary works, I will shift my attention from the shadow of lovelorn to other roles. Of course, if I choose patriotic themes or some comedies and stimulate my neurons with laughter, I may be able to get rid of the pain of lovelorn.
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Secondly, listen to more songs, the kind of single cycle.
You can find some songs on Xiami Music or Cool Me music instead of sad music of lovelorn love, and find some music with lively rhythm and pleasant mood. Bobby said that I especially like the escape plan, the stars in the night sky, and this song is particularly inspirational.
If you put yourself in music and blend in with it, you will forget the pain of lovelorn. Or listen to a song about the light in Tan Yan. I am a bird in Zhao Chuan. Cycle all day, you may forget, so you are unhappy. Remember never to read the information of this song. The more you read, the sadder you will be. I have a personal experience of this.
Third, shopping costs money.
Dress yourself up beautifully or coolly, go for a walk in the street, and have the psychology of spending money to relieve sadness. Maybe you will find out what money is at this time, and you will have a carefree heart when you spend it. You will be better to yourself, buy a lot of snacks and not a lot of clothes, which can alleviate the sadness in lovelorn. Because only oneself is good to oneself in the world, and others' kindness to oneself is false, so let it go to hell.
Fourth, find someone to talk to.
You can find your own freedom or hell to pour out your pain, and get out of the shadow of lovelorn quickly through the companionship and comfort of friends. No one cherishes himself. Maybe there are many people waiting for him with a future. There may be many people who secretly love themselves. It's no big deal, because the best self should find the best person to match.