"Loyalty in China culture constitutes' loyalty', which is a humanistic spirit and a criterion for being a man. White lies are also a kind of lies, just like benign and malignant tumors in human diseases, no matter how different the results of the diseases are, they are all diseases and harmful to human health. So is a white lie. In the final analysis, a white lie means not seeking truth from facts, telling lies and empty words, exaggerating, covering up and distorting the truth. On the contrary, "honesty" is a very important norm, and honesty is the pursuit of "truth" and justice. The ancients said that "true self" was sincere. Not refined and sincere, not moving.
Lies are called lies because they are false, untrue and deceptive words. If a person often lies in his mouth to deceive others, he will lose people's trust over time.
Mark. Twain once said, "When you can't make up your mind, tell the truth. It will embarrass your opponent and make your friends feel relieved. " So the psychologist's point of view is: don't lie easily, even if it is a white lie.
A "lie" itself is dark, and the likes and dislikes of things are not measured by the purpose of things. A white lie itself is a lie.
Lying means cheating, which hinders honesty. White lies have a good starting point, but often once they are exposed, they will hurt each other more deeply.
However, white lies and honesty are always contradictory. How can we directly conclude that a white lie will definitely reduce the obligation of good faith?
Another debater, since a white lie is a lie, how can it be white? Even if it's white, why lie? It is better to tell each other directly, why cheat others.
"Keeping promise is the pure land of keeping promise, keeping promise is the success of keeping promise, and keeping promise can last forever for the Chinese nation.
Here I want to ask other students, when a person loses integrity, is his starting point still good?
Someone is terminally ill. In order to let him spend the rest of his life safely, his relatives and friends have kept him in the dark. There is no malice or selfishness in this, but it is often unsatisfactory and deception cannot last long. On the contrary, patients lose the rationality of cooperating with treatment and the opportunity to deal with personal affairs. Sisera, a female philosopher? Polk warned that such a lie would put people on the verge of a great decline in personality.
I think that even if a lie is well-intentioned, its negative effects can be seen everywhere. No need for examples. This negative influence on honesty is often hidden and a chronic poison. Ignoring this poison is undoubtedly stealing the bell.
A lie is always a lie. Is it right to cheat others?
A novelist once wrote this sentence: "When we first tried to lie, we fell into a web of chaos that we woven."
Even a white lie, in itself, is the opposite of honesty. Therefore, whether a lie is for a good purpose or not, as a lie itself will inevitably hinder honesty.
Speaking of lies, I dare say that none of us has never lied since childhood. Yes, everyone has lied, but some lies are white and some lies are malicious! A white lie has a good starting point, and it is a lie that has to be fabricated when lying and cheating in white.
People in charge of personnel management, when laying off employees, often find some excuses that won't hurt each other, and don't directly point out each other's defects and deficiencies. They usually say, "You work hard and the company recognizes you, but the company is very difficult now, so you have to give up what you love reluctantly, and so on." There is no doubt that this is a white lie. But we can clearly see that this is also cheating, which is not helpful for employees to correct their shortcomings and work better.
Another example is:
George W. Bush used weapons of mass destruction as an excuse to attack Iraq again and kill Saddam Hussein, but he found no trace of weapons of mass destruction. George W. Bush lied to the American people and the international community, and won the support of many allies and public opinion for the sake of less terrorist attacks on the American people in the future and long-term stability in the Gulf region. Although the final result proves that Bush is lying to the international community and the American people, the vicious consequences are irreversible. In addition, the international integrity of the United States has been destroyed as never before.
From the above two simple examples, we can see that, firstly, a white lie is not necessarily beneficial to the client in the result; secondly, a white lie will also reduce the honesty of the liar because the scam is exposed; thirdly, no matter how beautiful a white lie is, it can't escape the deceptive nature.
Logical reasoning should be the most rigorous and scientific reasoning, and lies deviate from the principle of good faith, which is recognized by everyone. White lies are included in the concept of lies, and white lies will inevitably deviate from the principle of good faith. This is the simplest syllogism reasoning. If someone tries to prove that white lies do not hinder honesty, then they must overturn the primary judgment that "lies deviate from the principle of honesty".
No matter whether a lie is well-intentioned or malicious, it is cheating others to use such a lie to deal with others; To deal with yourself with such lies is to deceive yourself. White lies always emphasize their own goodwill, and are intentionally classified into the moral category of kindness in the perceptual world. In this way, white lies seem to draw a clear line between moral evaluation and malicious deception that people hate, and are more easily adopted and accepted by people. But we can't ignore rational thinking because of perceptual likes and dislikes. For this reason, the author believes that the deception of white lies determines that white lies will inevitably hinder honesty. A: First of all, a white lie is also a kind of lie. Just like benign and malignant tumors in human diseases, no matter how different the results are, they are all diseases and harmful to human health. So is a white lie. Although it can be accepted by people emotionally, and even a white lie has a good intention, it still belongs to a substantive behavior that violates reason and morality, that is, lying (pathology). Therefore, it is an indisputable fact that no matter what the purpose and result of white lies are, they all violate the principle of good faith.
When we look at things, we often add a strong emotional color, that is, emotional things-human emotions. Although we know that well-meaning deception is also cheating, we always feel that the original intention is good, and the deceived person will not feel ashamed, even a little noble. Even if the deceived person knows that it is cheating, he will not feel indignant and condemn the deceived person because of his face and goodwill towards the purpose of the deceived person. But this does not change the nature of deception itself. From a rational point of view, deception is a departure from honesty.
There are many white lies in daily life, such as:
People in charge of personnel management, when laying off employees, often find some excuses that won't hurt each other, and don't directly point out each other's defects and deficiencies. They usually say, "You work hard and the company recognizes you, but the company is very difficult now, so you have to give up what you love reluctantly, and so on." There is no doubt that this is a white lie. But we can clearly see that this is also cheating, which is not helpful for employees to correct their shortcomings and work better.
If you want others to be honest, you must be honest with yourself first-Shakespeare.