How do parents guide their children to become passive and active?

Parents give their children a position that they don't like learning and don't want to learn, which shows that they are dissatisfied with their children's current learning situation and are very anxious! When did the situation that children don't like learning and don't want to learn begin? What do parents do to help their children when they are unwilling to study? When I say help, I mean what kind of learning guidance to give, what kind of learning methods to give and how to cut in flexibly. Instead of memorizing, criticizing, ordering and attacking education! After you took some measures, did the effect improve or worsen?

Encourage excellent children. If you want your child to be excellent, you must first make him excellent! Therefore, parents and friends should think more about how to make boring learning interesting, even if it is not very interesting, and let children know the sense of accomplishment brought by learning!

For example, if a child learns to teach garden, instead of sitting at a table, it is better to take him to the supermarket for on-site shopping, or to a small supermarket to play games, or to participate in a flea market and set up a stall in the square to sell some gadgets! Play, children will be highly involved! Of course, we can also start from other angles, such as responsibility, ability and specialty. In short, integrating knowledge into life and games makes it more interactive and interesting.

There are many kinds of rewards, such as material, honor, feeling, sense of accomplishment, responsibility, trust and superiority ... As Fan Wei said, what is happiness? Hungry! You have two steamed buns, but I don't. You are happier than me! Knowledge! You know, I don't understand. As soon as you said it, I suddenly realized! This is the superiority of knowledge! So you can consider the family knowledge sharing meeting and the school knowledge sharing corner! In the TV series "Youth School", Qian Sanyi absorbed countless powders with extensive knowledge! This also stimulates potential opponents to study hard and read more books!

Your parents don't study, they play games and watch TV every day. Why do children study? Children are a mirror of their parents, observing and imitating their words and deeds! Parents are the teachers who spend the longest time with their children, and every move affects them! Therefore, in order to make children love and willing to learn, parents and friends should start from themselves, set an example for their children and create an atmosphere! Every day, parents can sit down and read books while their children are studying. Quiet and comfortable reading is contagious!

Learning to read is a lifelong thing, and it is also a good habit for families and children. Learning broadens the family's horizons, and the pattern of parents is the starting point for children! Learn and let your family interact. The more you share, the happier you will be and the clearer your knowledge will be! Learning makes children more confident. They are full of poems and books. Smart children are the strongest! From any angle, learning is the top priority of the whole family! This activity needs the joint efforts of every member of the home network!