When I send my children to kindergarten, I often meet an old lady in the family courtyard of Shanshi. She is almost 80 years old, and her only son has gone abroad to settle down. She can only come back once every few years. Isn't she lonely? So I personally think that loneliness is not a person, and it is really not necessarily related to having children.
0 1, Dink family, mostly choose Dink after weighing themselves. Some people don't like children so much and don't want to give up their free life now for their children. As long as you make up your mind, most of them are happy. For example, my former leader used to be the vice president of a newspaper, and his wife was also a media person. At that time, they chose Dink.
At first, the family was against it, especially the man's father. Later, I immigrated to New Zealand and became a landlord. I often saw photos sent by them and envied the leisurely life. The man's father also accepted his son's choice of Dink. For example, there is a couple after 70 in the headline. I often read their posts. They made Dink's life successful? Poetry and distance? .
02. It's also wonderful to choose Dink. One of my female colleagues is also Dink. The husband repented halfway, and the female colleague resolutely chose to divorce. Being single, she had a good time. She usually goes for tea and coffee after work. She lives alone in a house of 100 square meters, so she doesn't have to save money to buy a house for her children. She travels when she has money, both at home and abroad, and she is very happy.
She is 50 years old now, and there is no pressure in her life. what's up Bar essence? Will ridicule her? You will know when you are old and sick. Who will bring you a bowl of water when you are thirsty? ? Female colleague smiled:? I'll hire a nanny. My pension is enough for a nanny. ? Hehe, if you have children, will someone wait on you before going to bed when you are old and sick? Not necessarily. Now the work pressure is great, and the children have to go to work. So what? No dutiful son in bed for a long time? Your children may not be good to you.
What I said above is only my own rational analysis. Every time I talk about this question, my husband begins to wonder: with your remarks, how can human beings carry on the family line? Dudek, sooner or later, mankind will not perish? ? Haha, is it really a lot? Bar essence? . Attention, I'm talking about choosing Dink voluntarily! If you can't accept Dink, have a baby. Nobody's stopping you, so don't stop Dink. When I was young, I couldn't accept Dink and felt I had to have children. When people reach middle age, they have figured out a lot of things and feel that Dink is understandable.