After that, I carefully thought about my daughter's growth and future path. Under grandma's subtle care, the children live a simple life and don't have to worry about anything but study. I am going to work soon. Maybe it's time to tell her that there is no shortcut in life, only the road of suffering, the action of suffering, and the mentality of suffering. This is probably also a manifestation of stupidity.
Growing up in a greenhouse, she always has to go outside to experience the wind and rain.
I am distressed and have confidence in her. First, she has a kind and simple heart. I think that's enough. This is a person's texture, just like a good piece of wood, which can carve beautiful patterns. Second, she has a heart that is unwilling to lag behind, which is the driving force for her to overcome the ups and downs of life. No matter ordinary or excellent, hard work will pay off. Third, she has many people's love and blessings, so there is no lack of love in her heart. Fourth, she has a heart that loves beauty, likes singing and reading, so that her mind will not be lonely.
Losing money is a blessing. I didn't understand it when I was young, but I didn't understand it until I was old. If I lose money at present, the future blessings are waiting for me. In the eyes of the world, losing money is nothing more than material gains and losses, and material is foreign. If others want it, they can take it away. Keep this mentality, the road will go a long way. The road of life is long, and small favors are not worth fighting for. Others need more happiness than they ask for, and then they will grow up and their happiness will increase.
Bitterness is sweet, bitterness and sweetness are two sides of a whole, and sweetness is in contrast. The happiness of climbing mountains is to leave a memory, the difficulty of climbing mountains and the scenery along the way during the journey. The degree of joy when standing on the top of the mountain depends on the difficulty of climbing it. When I was a child, I took my daughter to climb the mountain, and her legs were too tired to walk. She would cry and sing "Snails climb up step by step with heavy shells on their backs" and continue to climb to the top step by step. The road of life is very long. Get out of the comfort zone at any time and start a new journey, which is a lifetime. Just like a daughter from elementary school, junior high school, high school, university and graduate school, there are surprises along the way. This is a wonderful life. No matter what happens in the future, keep working hard and keep your initial heart, and your heart will not be confused.
My mind was stumbling, and when I understood this truth, it was very late. After entering the society, fear and anxiety have accompanied me for many years, and my heart is full of pain and I can't enjoy life. My mother brought this pain to the grave, and it was her departure that alerted me. Therefore, before my daughter enters the society, I hope she understands that life is like climbing a mountain, with joys and sorrows. No matter what you do and what your situation is, your heart is full of sunshine and your life will be full of sunshine. When the sun comes out, the clouds will disperse.
I don't wish my daughter smooth sailing, I just hope she can get the truth all the way.
Give a sentence I heard yesterday to my daughter and myself: Keep your head down when you walk, look up at the road, and there is a road in your heart. Life is meaningful as long as you don't get lost.