Where did the quiet years come from? What do you mean by gentleness and calmness?

This sentence means to keep an indifferent and quiet heart and live a comfortable and beautiful life. Gentle personality, easy to do things. In the passage of time, it has been quiet and beautiful, life is comfortable and warm, and life is bleak. This kind of life is the best life.

There is a saying in The Book of Songs, National Style and Zheng Feng that "women cry", that is, "it is advisable to drink alcohol and grow old with their children. The harp and harp are in the imperial palace, so they are all quiet. " Used to express harmonious family life and sincere love between husband and wife. The original sentence is ancient prose, which evolved into "gentleness, calmness, good life and tranquility" after the second creation of later literature, mainly used to express the mentality of keeping indifferent and quiet.

Zheng Feng, a national style, is a poem in The Book of Songs, the first collection of poems in ancient China. Most modern scholars think this is a poem praising the harmonious life, sincere feelings and beautiful life wishes of young couples.

The whole poem consists of three chapters with six sentences in each chapter. This poem is a very interesting dialogue poem, which shows the harmonious family life and sincere love between husband and wife through the form of husband and wife dialogue. The dialogue is short, the rhythm is fast and slow, the emotions are calm and warm, and the characters are vague and distinct.