Life is short for everyone. Like fireworks, everyone will have their most brilliant moments. No one thinks about those separations in good times. We always feel that diseases and accidents are very far away from our lives.
However, Jinyujiang, the author of "Human Confessions", uses simple and sincere language to describe how she and her husband went from campus to wedding dress, from falling in love at first sight to staying together until fate broke their original ordinary happiness. Life...
Goldfish Jiang, whose real name is Li Jin, is an illustrator with a warm and cute style. She is also a bright and cute Pisces girl with dimples who loves to laugh.
She treats life, her lover, and her family just like her paintings, which are rich in color and every stroke is like a bright sunshine. In the book, she uses delicate and affectionate words to express her love for her husband, and in a plain and simple tone, she expresses that after being hit hard by fate, she still faces life optimistically and cheerfully, never letting go of her love and yearning for the world, and using her words as a mother to express her love for her husband. The strong tone expresses the strong determination to protect the healthy and happy growth of his son Hua Xiang.
This is a book full of memories. In the process of trying their best to stop the countdown of life, they tried their best to accompany each other, leaving the most splendid memories for each other in the most difficult time, Their stories are just a drop in the ocean of all living beings, but they are also the most touching, pure and beautiful true stories.
Jinyujiang and Xiaohu got acquainted in the summer of 2003, when they just entered high school. Jinyujiang joked that she was a beauty control, and she fell in love with Xiaohu at the first sight. But she didn't expect that her heartbeat would be responded to and confessed by Xiaohu. The two spent the best time of their first love together. Although they had been separated for many years and each had other people, they finally came together. , got married and had a baby, and specially chose Jinyujiang’s birthday, March 3, to get the certificate.
Jinyujiang believes that for everyone who loves life, every journey is a story, and there must be a poet and artist living deep in their hearts, because they are willing to choose to discover the difference in life. , I want to freely compose music for my life, turn stories into poems, and treasure them in my heart forever.
Her lover is a gentle and kind-hearted man who comes out of the comics. His carefulness, quick thinking and other character advantages provide a perfect complement to Jinyu Jiang's peaceful painting at home. He never I feel that there is something wrong with being the man behind a successful woman, so I am willing to work quietly behind the scenes and be a househusband.
It is said that meeting a mature and excellent person in marriage can take you to higher places and live a better life; but meeting someone who is willing to grow up with you and work hard together, Let's look at the life scenery created by *** together and how rare and precious it is.
There is a warm and enviable spring scenery between the lines of Jinyujiang. Readers can not only feel that the world is full of dog food, but also feel as if they have eaten a large box full of chocolates wrapped in fragrant wine. , so sweet that you will lose your teeth and your mind will be drunk.
Later, the arrival of their little baby Peanut added a more brilliant color to this warm and happy home. It was so beautiful that people yearned for it, and they understood and understood the family of three in the book. Enthusiastic interaction.
Until the summer of 2017, everything came to an abrupt end. Jinyujiang's Xiaohu was diagnosed with terminal cancer on August 18 of this year and only had about three months to live.
At the age of 30, the child was still young and the parents were particularly healthy, but his life was set to an irreversible end by the disease.
Art comes from life, but life is more cruel than art...
Now that life has begun to count down, the remaining time has no time to worry about sadness, turn pain into passion, and change A way of living, such as a family of three going to the market to buy groceries, basking in the sun on the square on the way home, going to Disneyland, traveling with peanuts if the body allows, etc. The gloomy life is more interesting and wonderful.
Just like Min Hongwei who has been fighting cancer in the fifth episode of "The World", her husband always believed that there is no end to the road while accompanying him in the fight against cancer, and worked hard for a glimmer of hope. He did everything he could to accompany her to the United States to find a way out of life.
Although the final result extinguished the ignited hopes, in the process, the optimism and hopeful smiles they brought to the future made the audience in front of the screen follow them again and again. Let’s be optimistic and laugh together.
The choice between life and death is the best period when human nature is fully revealed. You can’t pretend or deceive. Others may think Jinyujiang and Min Hongwei’s husband are naive and illusory, but who can say? They live a life that is beyond the reach of others and possess a fearless and passionate heart.
In the first episode of "The World", Wang Sirong, a 13-year-old bone tumor patient, had to have her legs amputated to save her life because her distal femur and proximal tibia were covered with tumors. Her parents were stunned when they heard the news. Yes, she cried.
Under the consultation of the chief expert, Wang Sirong’s leg was saved. After coming off the operating table, the mother who promised not to cry saw her daughter’s pale face and the thigh that had been removed and reinstalled to remove the tumor. , covered her mouth and hid aside, her body trembling constantly. Her strong appearance finally could not hide the fear in her heart, the fear of losing her daughter.
Xiaohu is not only a husband, but also a father, and even more so a son. He is a parent and a child. Each identity should be experienced in person, only then will you know the happiness and difficulty involved, and then you will know how to cherish and be grateful. .
In the book, Jinyujiang and Xiaohu’s families are strong supporters who support them all the way, and the two families love them as much as their own children.
When they learned about Xiaohu’s condition, the hearts of both parents were bleeding. Xiaohu’s father fainted and cried bitterly. This blow instantly destroyed the hearts of both parents. No one left alone, no one believed that a kind and warm person like Xiaohu would be treated so unfairly by God.
Perhaps, only at this time did Xiaohu realize that he was also a child and still deeply attached to his parents.
On the afternoon when Xiaohu left, their family members rushed to the hospital from Wuhan, but these three minutes became a permanent regret.
The heart-wrenching pain of a white-haired person giving a black-haired person a gift is no less painful than Guan Erye scraping his bones to heal his wounds. The feeling is like being exposed to a strange poison that has no cure. , slowly penetrated into every inch of their skin and every nerve. Before a wound healed, new wounds were added. The feeling of despair and suffocation was the normal state of life.
After Xiaohu passed away, Jinyujiang stayed in Shenzhen to work. Their son Peanut would often ask where his father was. Although he never thought of hiding his son, for Peanut, who was only two years old, he could not Understand what death is, but you can understand what returning home is.
So she will not give Peanut such expectations and waits, she will tell her son; Dad went to Huhu Planet, he is responsible for the beauty of the entire sky, the blue sky and white clouds you see, the sunset That's all due to Dad.
Although the child is ignorant, he feels it is magical and believes his mother's words. As he grows older, he will gradually understand that behind his mother's white lies, there is an unforgettable longing for his father.
Zhu Zhenglun, the attending doctor of Ruijin Hospital, wrote this paragraph to the family members after the patient passed away; I believe that in the face of all deaths and partings, patients and family members will definitely not be able to let go for a long time. Who can let go? Down? At present, our abilities are still very limited. This is a pragmatic statement, but this statement forms a completely different logic from any patient who does not abandon or give up. I hope you can miss this son, this husband, and this father. We must live well, live for him, fulfill his dreams for him, be filial to our parents, and fulfill our responsibilities for our children. Like the wind that has traveled eight thousand miles without asking about the date of return!
The development of critical care medicine has given humans more and more weapons to fight against death, shifting the natural balance between life and death in the direction of sustaining life. However, it has also brought difficulties. Life The point of termination is often not the termination of the natural process, but the interruption of technical support.
But not Xiaohu. His condition became more and more serious and he could only be hospitalized. He desperately held on for breath and forcibly postponed the three-month countdown to more than a year. He was still struggling with life and death. While hesitating, he was afraid that if he took too many painkillers, he would forget the story with Jinyu Jiang. As I said, even if time is running out, I still want to live a few more days to celebrate the birthday of my beloved Jinyu Jiang, even if I suffer all kinds of pain. The torture of illness.
We often say that to love someone is to wish him well, but how can we ask Jinyujiang, who worked hard to let Xiaohu survive and give him hope, to say give up? She was more reluctant than anyone else to let him leave. And now Xiaohu's consciousness of survival is stronger than ever.
Sitting in front of his hospital bed, Jinyujiang recounted every moment since they met, just like looking back on their short 16-year love.
What is love? She said that her understanding of love is: meet the right person, and then love him like you love life.
In her opinion, the process of loving him with all her heart is the process of her loving life. She liked his romance, his tenderness, how he cared about everything about her, and how he looked at her with love.
And Xiaohu said: She is a rainbow in his gray life, like a light shining into his heart.
Therefore, death cannot separate them. She will raise Peanut well with Xiaohu's love.
In the two months after Xiaohu left, she took peanuts to Guangzhou Chimelong, Zhuhai Chimelong, and Disneyland. Not only that, she also made reservations for August, October and before the New Year. travel.
Is she really not sad? No, it's because Peanut is growing up day by day, and her parents are getting older day by day. If she indulges in sadness and stops living, she will let down Xiaohu's deep love. She needs to re-plan her life and fill it with more expectations. Let the sunshine fill this cozy little home.
During these years of big hands holding small hands, they may encounter many unexpected hardships, but the road is walked step by step. As long as she is not afraid of hardship, as long as her heart is full of love, I will definitely move forward bravely and strenuously.
Although Jinyujiang was unable to free Xiaohu from the predicament of death, she used her love and companionship to help him endure the suffering and take a breather from the torture of illness.
After Xiaohu passed away, she still tried to embrace life enthusiastically with her optimistic and strong smile. Every word she wrote was telling the world that God will open a door for you when he closes the door for you. Open a window, as long as you persist and never give up, people can survive. As long as you are willing, you can stand up again at any time.
Cherish the moment, embrace your loved ones, parents, relatives, and children around you. Even if you encounter misfortune, you must still muster the courage to move forward and rekindle your enthusiasm for life!