After reading the story, many netizens are not calm. Most people think that Lizzie doesn't need to be so strong in his career; Besides, with Chen Yiming's ability, she can feel at home.
But Lizzie doesn't think so. She is 30+ and has her own goals. From beginning to end, she never thought of relying on men to support her.
So after breaking up, she hid her sadness and continued to devote herself to her entrepreneurial dream. From raising funds to decorating the office to recruiting, she went into battle in person.
Aside from good feelings, we saw a girl who never gave up in pursuit of her dream, a strong and independent woman of 30+.
In real life, what can women in their thirties do to live beautifully?
1. Be yourself and not be defined by any label.
After watching the program "Women 30+", I like Ma Yili's words very much: I think women with 30+ can only live more beautifully if they learn to respect and love themselves. Because people who love and respect themselves usually have great power, which will make you more brilliant and infect people around you with your energy.
Ma Yili is one of my favorite actresses. 20 17 plays Luo Zijun in the TV series "My First Half Life". After her husband cheated, her marriage was frustrated and she finally had to choose to return to the workplace to make a living.
At the end of the TV program, Xiao Bai became a sales elite, which we all expected. At this time, Luo Zijun wore an enviable aura on his head.
Luo Zijun's final rise inspired me in a confused and troubled life at that time.
I was just 30 years old that year. In order to protect my children, I chose naked resignation to rest at home. Maybe the fate has not arrived, and the baby still can't meet as scheduled.
During that time, my mood was always gray, I could do nothing, and I was depressed. I plan to return to the workplace and have interviewed more than 20 companies in a row. There is no following.
I have been greatly frustrated and feel sad every day. I am always angry with my husband and even doubt his work.
Once after dinner, I saw him sending WeChat with his mobile phone all the time, showing indignation at each other from time to time, but more words of comfort.
When I learned that the other person was a girl who just entered the workplace, my anger suddenly exploded: you really have someone in your heart. So a storm came between us violently. After Hedong roared, I slammed the door.
Actually, I really think too much. That girl, who happened to be his new subordinate, was harassed by a male colleague in the company when she was on a business trip. She happened to report the "bad guy" to my husband.
There is a good saying: not everyone can be what they want, but we can be what we want through our own efforts.
Yes, I need to change myself and make myself better. Luo Zijun in the play won applause with his diligence, so I can work hard.
2. Live in the present and accept your imperfect self.
Jiang Shuying, 34, said in Women 30+: You never know what will happen in the future? You never know what you will choose. Only when it really happened did I know what I would choose now.
Facing the uncertain future, she also experienced anxiety and insecurity at the age of 30+, but the biggest change was that she accepted her imperfections. She has her own clear goals, but she doesn't want to be a "three good students" in everyone's eyes.
When she is busy at work, she will choose to rest for a few days and stay at home doing nothing; For love, she frankly likes plain and long-term feelings. Throwing away the star aura, she lives freely in the present and does whatever she wants, which is also our dream.
What happens in life is not important, what matters is how we face it.
Two years ago, a 35-year-old girlfriend had a serious car accident on her way to work. Her right leg was crushed and rushed to hospital for treatment.
After three months of treatment and recovery, her right leg still can't recover to its original appearance, and her limping is more obvious.
My best friend is a person who loves beauty. It is heartbreaking to encounter this robbery. I thought this fatal blow would make her feel inferior from now on, but what I never expected was that she was stronger and more optimistic than we thought.
She threw herself into work quickly and turned all her misfortunes into motivation. While completing her job well, she also successfully obtained the certificate of "Senior Accountant Title".
Of course, her efforts are obvious to all, and soon she was reused by her boss.
In her words, "I just lost my former beauty, but my life and health have always been there." Instead of living in pain every day, it is better to try to break through every difficulty and not let the short life leave regrets. "
As the saying goes, gold is not enough, and no one is perfect.
We are all ordinary people, and imperfection is the normal state of life. Although we are 30+, we still have the courage to go forward and accept our imperfect selves after being defeated by suffering.
3. Continuous learning and lifelong growth
Selina Selina is the most touching person in women's 30+. Friends who have watched the show may be surprised to find such a secret: she is beautiful again, even more beautiful than her girlhood!
This year is the tenth year since Selina was injured. She said humorously to her mother, "Should I hold a banquet to commemorate it?"
Madame Curie once said that our life seems difficult, but what does it matter? We should be more tolerant and patient, especially give ourselves more confidence.
Selina's laughter was hearty when she started broadcasting. She said confidently, "What do I think the wrinkles on my face are compared with my scars?"
From her words, we saw a beautiful woman who lived more and more transparently. It's really good to face up to your pain and learn to endure it.
At the age of 38, she is constantly charging herself, from starting a company to cultivating hobbies, such as taking floral lessons, watercolor lessons, French lessons and playing golf. .....
30+ women should not be bound by age, but should keep learning and enrich their hearts with knowledge.
There is no hurdle, so let your posture be beautiful. Life is long, and we need to keep growing.
In the TV series "Standing at Thirty", the most touching ending is Zhong and this pair of CP. Rachel Momo, who plays Zhong, is not so successful emotionally.
In a program, the host Cai Kangyong asked Rachel Momo: How long have you been single? How many times have you cried?
From the interview, we learned that 32-year-old Rachel Momo had experienced two relationships, and it took nine years to get married and fall in love, but it was fruitless.
For a girl, this youth has been spent on the wrong person. How painful this wound is. However, she said, for the present and the future, the audience should concentrate on their work, make a good show and be a good actor.
She showed us a growing self with every excellent work and every beautiful dance step. I believe that the future Rachel Momo will meet the right person as she wishes.
Write at the end:
30+ women may need to face the conflict between career and family balance, but no matter how they choose, they don't have to regret it.
Women with 30+ will also have anxiety, contradiction and weakness, but please don't question your ability to solve problems.
30+ women are not necessarily perfect, but they must be unique. No matter how big the storm is, you can be yourself bravely, accept yourself, enrich yourself and improve yourself.
A woman of 30+ is a new starting point of life. I hope we can all choose to live independently and find a sky of our own.