1. It’s easy to get together and easy to go, bear the pain yourself. Falling in love has nothing to do with right or wrong. There is a song that goes well: Don’t mention the past anymore, life has been full of storms, even if the memory cannot be erased, love and hate are still in the heart. Once we got to know each other, it doesn’t matter. Each heals his or her own wounds, each heals his or her own heart. 2. Become enemies: cut off everything, delete everything, and have no contact with each other until death. This is the most common and most common way to choose extramarital affairs. It doesn't matter if we become enemies, we can break them off cleanly and separate them thoroughly. Delete all information about the other party, clear the past, and never see him again. 3. If you are not happy after a breakup, just make a fuss and make the other person feel blocked, and then you can be happy. This is a typical "heart blocked", and people need a process to accept it. In this process of acceptance, people will not be reconciled and want to be willful to better vent their suppressed emotions. It is also to find a balance point in the other person's heart, so he wants to make a fuss, so that when the other person's heart is blocked, he can get through. 4. You have to argue with the other party whether life or death, and you love to get into trouble. As soon as I heard that they had broken up, I immediately became excited and very impulsive. I feel that I am not doing anything wrong, and besides, I have paid so much. I had a good time the day before, so why should I just give it up now... There are too many things that I can’t figure out, and there are too many reasons why. Unable to turn around, I want to find the other party to reason with. Such people love to be serious and get into trouble, and the longer they will suffer. 5. Ask for compensation. You can’t follow the other party in vain. Since you don’t love him anymore, you need compensation, including youth loss and mental loss. There is nothing wrong or bad with this idea. I personally think it's very practical. What to do if a man who has an extramarital affair says he wants to break up 2. Being cold and violent towards you is a cold war. A cold war is a sign of a breakup. Men all like to play the cold war. Some people still choose to use this method when they really want to break up. Some women also use this method when they really want to break up. This happens, you don't want to talk to the other person, especially after the two of you quarreled. If you enter the stage of cold violence, it means that the other person wants to break up with you. It's not just about talking. After so many days of cold war, you have figured out everything you should have thought about and want to break up. You can't hesitate. This is not a relationship between a single man and a woman, but an extramarital affair, so you can only break up completely without any room for maneuver. Dating with others: When the other person actually breaks up, he or she will date other people. If you see that he (she) has a new love, it proves that it is impossible for you to be together. Men and women still have the same thoughts in this regard. If they break up, they should break up completely and not give the other party or themselves any chance to change their minds. Doesn’t it all say that if you want to get out of a breakup, you have to develop a new relationship, no matter it is The person who broke up the relationship or the one who was broken up must learn to self-mediate, and stop thinking about what was lost. Not contacting each other. Not contacting represents your own attitude. This is not called heartlessness but a relief for each other. There is nothing good about pretending to break up. It can only increase worries. If the other party really stops contacting you, or even deletes your WeChat, QQ or other social accounts, it proves that he (she) really does not want to interact with you anymore, and it is also a sign of a complete breakup, and the extramarital affair has not persisted. Finally, you must make the right choice if you are having an extramarital affair. What to do if a man having an extramarital affair says he wants to break up 3. First: He is waiting for you to say breakup. A man having an extramarital affair obviously doesn’t love you anymore and wants to break up, but he doesn’t tell you directly. In his heart, he is actually waiting for you to take the initiative to mention it to him. separate. Because a man who has an extramarital affair knows in his heart that if he breaks up with you, you and those who know about it may accuse him of being irresponsible. Therefore, he would rather you take the initiative to break up with him. In this way, he will not have to bear too much psychological burden and can leave you with peace of mind. So, when the man you are having an extramarital affair becomes more and more indifferent to you, often loses contact with you, doesn’t answer your phone calls, or doesn’t reply to your messages, and when you finally meet him, he looks impatient and ends it in a hurry. That means he wants to use "cold violence" to force you to break up. Men who have extramarital affairs pay special attention to face. They don’t want others to gossip behind their backs, laugh at him for being unethical, and ruthlessly abandon the third party after he has caught him. That’s why he didn’t choose to say it openly, fearing that you would pester him and affect him. Therefore, it would be a good choice for him to use cold violence to force you to break up. Having been with a man who has an extramarital affair for a long time, your weakness is that men know how to make you happy, and they also know how to make you miserable. If a man who is having an extramarital affair no longer loves you, he will find ways to make you unhappy. He will do anything you don't like. If you endure it, you will be the one suffering. If you can't stand it and take the initiative to break up with you, you are playing into the man's hands, and he will agree without hesitation. Second: Men who have extramarital affairs want to enjoy your free love and dedication. A woman's love is selfless, especially when she is deeply in love with a man, she is even more stupid and irrational. Some women are so stupid that it makes people feel bad when they have extramarital affairs. She is willing to devote everything she has to being good to the man, willing to endure humiliation and humiliation for him, sacrifice for him, and just wants the man to stay by her side. A man who has an extramarital affair is like an "uncle" to the woman who loves him deeply, and the woman is like an "old mother" who takes good care of the man.