1: In life, no love is forever. Two people enter into marriage. After many years, love turns into family affection to a large extent. This requires mutual understanding, cherishing each other, and embracing each other with patience. Marriage cannot be like wearing clothes. If you are just looking for unchanging love and excitement, you will eventually become a loner and no one will be willing to stay by your side.
2: With an open-minded mind, you will understand: letting go of unnecessary things is indifference. When people are indifferent, they enjoy the relaxation, freedom, and high spirits, and their life is integrated into the unfettered relaxation and happiness!
3: When you have a companion when you walk, you don’t feel the distance is far; when you have a companion when you eat, you eat well.
4: When you reach the top of the mountain, you can see all the mountains and small mountains at a glance. (Du Fu's "Looking at the Mountains")
5: Life is tiring, less than half of it comes from survival, and more than half of it comes from comparison.
6: There will always be people who say good things about you, and there will always be people who say bad things about you, but as long as we behave with a clear conscience, we don’t have to be obsessed with other people’s judgments. There is no need to look at other people's eyes, and there is no need to blindly please others, as that will make your life more tiring. When someone makes disrespectful remarks to you, please don't pay attention, and don't get upset about it. Because these words cannot change the facts, but they may disturb your heart. If the mind is in chaos, everything will be in chaos.
7: On the first day of elementary school, my father taught me that the soft ones are afraid of the hard ones, the hard ones are afraid of being stupid, and the stupid ones are afraid of losing their lives. If you have a knife in your hand, you have to make people believe that you dare to stab it out.
8: Maybe some people are hateful and some people are despicable. And when I put myself in his shoes, I realized: He is even more pitiful than me. So please forgive everyone you meet, good or bad.
9: Xi Murong’s poem says: How can I meet you at my most beautiful moment? And those who are lovelorn should ask themselves: How can I leave you at my most beautiful moment? time? And when there is still a trace of nostalgia for each other, they turn around gracefully. Such a back view makes the departure of love, like the encounter, leave an aftertaste and mutual respect.
10: When forgetting becomes another beginning and memories fade away, the pain becomes the most real.
11: If a person is not ruthless, he will not stand firm! No harm to people, no standards! If people are not bad, they will die quickly.
12: When people are in pain, trouble and anger, they often hear advice from friends: be more open-minded and think more openly. Life is like that. < /p>
14: Whenever desire comes, people will have a strange and powerful feeling of greed, greed, stubbornness and stubbornness. Once you have achieved what you have accomplished, what comes next is ripeness, rottenness, greasiness, and annoyance. You have to put it aside, you have to cut it off, and you would rather have nothing at all.
15: Positive people see an opportunity in every worry, while negative people see some kind of worry in every opportunity.
16: Learn to be tolerant of people who hurt you, because they are very pitiful, everyone has their own difficulties, and it is not easy for everyone.
17: There is both joy and sorrow in life. When you are unhappy, try to release it. Don’t let sadness block your heart. When you are irritable, learn to exercise restraint to avoid damaging your harmony.
18: We may be able to love two people and be loved by two people at the same time. Unfortunately, we can only stay with one of them until we grow old.
19: Throughout history, there are countless examples of failure. Almost everyone can fail at anything they do. If you are afraid of failure, you will do nothing. Only by not being afraid of failure can you achieve career success. There is a difficult and tortuous process between failure and success. Someone once compared this process to a bridge. Many people in ancient and modern times, both at home and abroad, achieved success through this bridge.
20: Everyone is destined to walk their own path from the day they are born. Some are long, some are short, some succeed, some fail, and some succeed or fail. Thousands of times. No matter what the journey is, it will all be empty in the end. The value of life lies in being needed by others, just like the value of money lies in its use.