Recently, in Guangxi, a girl born after zero was blind in her left eye, but she finally got rid of her inferiority through hard writing. This story is very inspiring, and it also tells all people with defects that defects are not terrible, but they just don't know how to face them squarely. Personally, I think that if children want to face up to their shortcomings, they can start from the following aspects.
First of all, let the children know that no one is perfect and everyone has defects. Many children are distressed by their own defects and feel inferior because of their own defects. What we need to tell our children is that everyone has shortcomings and advantages, and no one in this world is perfect. Therefore, everyone should accept and admit their own shortcomings. If this shortcoming can be corrected, we will correct it. If this shortcoming can't be corrected, we will get along.
Secondly, parents should encourage their children more, identify with them and explore their advantages. What parents want to tell their children is that their parents love their children and will not like them because of their shortcomings. Mom and dad's love will not be transferred because of strength. Parents should identify with their children and encourage them to give full play to their advantages even if they have shortcomings.
In addition, let children understand that a flawed life can be wonderful. We should let the child know that his life will never lose its color because of this shortcoming, and he can also have a wonderful life. When accompanying children to grow up, try to make them feel that they are excellent, and let them know that they can achieve a successful and happy life like ordinary children.
The above are some related contents about facing up to children's shortcomings.