In fact, there are many experiences in Ming Lan's growing experience for parents to learn from. In fact, many of klock -4' s personalities, ideas and work styles come from her biological mother Wei Xiaoniang and her grandmother San Marau. Do you know: From the education in Ming Lan, we can see the influence of children's character formation and life choices on their fate. Be reasonable, know how to be a man, and obey the rules.
Ming Lan My biological mother, Wei Xiaoniang, is a concubine with low status and no popularity. Because of the decline in family fortune, I had to sell myself as a concubine and enter a wealthy family, so I kept a low profile and was careful everywhere. Ming Lan's education also makes her behave steadily, so she can't stand out from the crowd and be inconspicuous. She can save her breath and avoid being jealous. Ming Lan looked at the geese hired by the elder sister and thought that the elder sister gave the little mother a cloak to keep out the cold when it was just cold, so she took the lead in retaking the geese for the elder sister. Although Ming Lan's father paid a little attention to her, he also made Lin Xiaoniang jealous and determined to get rid of Wei Xiaoniang, fearing that she would have a son and such a clever daughter, threatening her future status.
Afterwards, Wei Xiaoniang was taught by Ming Lan: "Although we have to be reasonable and know what is good, in this family, no matter the elder sister or the fourth sister, it is either noble or decent. They are a host family, but you are different. Elder sister loves you and you love her, which is naturally good, but some pains are superficial to her, but they are flesh and blood to you. Do you know? "
Wei Xiaoniang's company with Ming Lan was short-lived, but she taught Ming Lan many basic principles. Since then, Ming Lan has kept it in mind. She knows that the most important thing in life is to know her kindness. Be kind to yourself, that is, give your life and repay others. So when Mrs. Sheng had an accident, she threw herself at her, preferring to offend her maiden, elder sister and second brother. Lose the throne and avenge grandma.
Wei Xiaoniang is very uneasy because she knows that the Sheng family is a den of tigers and wolves. She doesn't know how to live in this yard because she is afraid that someone will stare at the orphan girl. Before her death, when she learned that Ming Lan, Gu Jiaer's son, had found a doctor, she instructed Ming Lan to give knee pads to her son to show her gratitude. When she told Ming Lan to remember that "the biggest thing in life is everything", she called her "Auntie" and slapped Minglan severely, insisting that Ming Lan call her "Little Mother", which is the church rule, Ming Lan.
As a concubine, she is a little girl. Even if Ming Lan refuses to give up, she can only call her little daughter. Otherwise, there are no rules, and it will be even harder for her to stand in Shengjia in the future. Everything she says and does may be picked by Lin Xiaoniang. At that time, if she wanted to survive, she had to struggle. Children are unruly at home, and even more unruly in society. Family members will not punish children, but when children enter society, society will not be as generous as family members.
After Xiao Niang's death, Ming Lan kept in mind Xiao Niang's teachings and refused to introduce matters needing attention before taking the lead. She stays out of trouble, tries to avoid things, and is patient when things happen. When she and Juran were framed by Moran, Juran had been defending, but she only explained one thing. When she saw that her father didn't believe her, she stopped arguing.