Life in a wheelchair
Life is like a tree. Even if some branches of the tree are cut off, as long as the root and soul are still there, the tree will live, and perhaps it will flourish even more.
Life is like a long journey. During this long journey, it is inevitable that we will encounter unimaginable things. "There are unexpected events in the sky, and people are doomed to misfortune." Difficulties and setbacks are inevitable, but no matter what difficulties and obstacles, as long as you don't give up in your heart, there will be hope and dreams. In life, always believe in yourself and the future: success will definitely reward sweat, and believing in yourself is victory; After the storm, it must be bright sunshine. I believe that life can be grasped in the future. If we go down in a down-to-earth way, the difficulties will only be short-lived, and the pain will only be a moment. Happiness and happiness are the main themes of life.
Maybe some words may be empty and harder to do. In fact, when you really face these problems, you may have a deeper understanding. Maybe I really experienced too much! Maybe it's fate, but I realize more clearly that life should have gone like this!
I still remember the day that changed my fate. It was September 1998, when I just entered junior high school. I was elected as the monitor a few days after the start of school, and I had many beautiful dreams for the future. However, one noon, with a rapid brake sound, I was dragged more than ten meters away by the car. When I woke up, I was dizzy! I want to get up, but my legs after thirteen years can no longer support the weight of my upper body. At this time, I really realized that I had such a big car accident, and then I looked down at my lower limbs completely bloody. At that time, I really didn't think too much, and I didn't have any fear. I just had an idea, "I want to live." So, while shouting for help, he climbed under the bridge (the car accident happened on the bridge). Then I passed out. When I woke up again, I was lying in a hospital bed. I was still alive and miraculously survived. Around the bed are my parents who are crying. It was the first time in my life that I saw my father cry. I lived in the hospital for two months, and was identified as a first-class disability by the doctor. Since then, I have formed an indissoluble bond with the wheelchair. In the first few months after I got home from the hospital, I cried every day. I stayed at home every day because I was afraid of meeting people. I felt that I was a cripple from now on. There was no tomorrow, no future, and life was dark! Even I have thought that if there is a place where I am alone, I would rather lie in it and not come out, so let it die! One day I said to my parents, "I really want to die." Dad walked away without saying anything. Mom said, "When you die, mom will go with you, and mom will not live." It took me a while to understand my importance! Mom often said, "Even if you can't do anything, as long as you are alive, your parents will be satisfied if you can see you every day."
In this way, with the encouragement of my family and the concern of my friends, I gradually realized my own direction and began to go out and play with my friends. With the melody of life, bathed in the baptism of life, I gradually realized that life is a lifetime. Since God gave me a second life, although I lost my legs, my mind is still sound and my hands are still flexible. I should cherish this life well and not live under inferiority all day. I want to make my life wonderful and I want to live happily. Not only do you want to be happy, but you also want to make people around you happy. Through your own efforts, you will definitely have your own tomorrow. I am a strong person, I am not a coward! After that, I became cheerful. Maybe it's because I smile peacefully, which makes people feel easy-going. Over time, I have more friends and become a monitor, and my life has really enriched a lot.
Because junior high school is two or three miles away from home, my father bought me a hand-cranked scooter. I go to school and leave school by myself every day, and my life seems to be back to the old days. In September 23, I was admitted to Suixi No.2 Middle School in Suixi County, Huaibei City with a score of 3 points higher than that of the municipal key middle school. I came to a new school, a new environment and naturally made new friends. In order to take good care of me and create a good environment for me to study, my father chose to go to town to study with me.
I remember, I sat in a seat near the window. Every time after class, I always looked at the students playing and frolicking on the playground through the window. Occasionally, I felt puzzled. I really had an impulse to join them. However, I could only be a watchman. At that time, Mr. Bai (the head teacher) wanted to talk to me every week, and he made me lose my mind and keep going. He once said to me: "Life gives you happiness and makes you feel dull regret, but it gives you pain and makes you feel full of pleasure." He informed me of activities at school, and I actively participated in them. There are many more, and he has always supported me. In this way, I seem to feel that there is a force behind me pushing me forward. Slowly, I feel that the reality can't be changed anyway. Why not live a wonderful life and live an open life? Because the physical defect is already a fact, and unlike doing something wrong or going the wrong way, you can start all over again. Why do you have to suffer for the situation that can't be changed? It is better to turn such pain into motivation, enrich your life, let your dreams fly, and show your value with your own practical actions. Maybe life is another world. A man should stand up and hold his head up. I thought so, and I did. As long as there are activities (speeches, recitations, calligraphy, essay writing, singing) in the school, there will always be my performance or name! It may be because the number of performances in front of everyone is much more, and the "thick face" has been experienced, and the chances of participating in the project being awarded the prize have reached the extreme! My acceptance speech: "I am also very good!" "
It's fleeting, high school has passed, and I think it's time for me to show my strength. Besides, my family has been accompanying me for three years, and it's time to go home! I was blinded when I learned that the college entrance examination was "sliding". I feel that I lost this time, and I feel a sense of guilt that I haven't felt for a long time. I think I'm really useless. I'm sorry for my family (my father broke eight ribs in a car accident in the third year of accompanying him), and I feel that I have no face to face my relatives and friends, and my parents' faces are all lost by me. But "sliding gear" is a fact. After a few days of pain, I am not reconciled. I said to myself, "Several years of hard work have been wasted. I want to start all over again. I will get up wherever a man falls, and the son of the Wangs can't be a coward! I don't believe that I can't go to this university; Back in those days, when I was in the hospital, it took me more than an hour to change the medicine every time, without anesthesia. I bit my mother's jacket with my mouth and changed the medicine. Didn't I get over it when the jacket was bitten? What is this little setback? Repeat in the city! "
Because my family is busy, I specially ask my family to live for one year. I think this is an exercise for myself and a test of life. If I can't even take care of my basic life problems, how can I go on in the future? I believe that as long as people are still alive, there is no mountain that they cannot cross, and there is no river that they cannot cross! Walk into the new high school full of hope. The days of repeat reading are bitter, because there is always a shadow of failure in the college entrance examination in my heart. I do test questions and listen to handouts every day, but I still signed up for the art festival held at school, because I feel that no matter when, where and what situation, I will have no regrets in my life only if I pay attention to what is around me and live every day well. Often many people just pursue the result and just ignore the process. In fact, the process is our real life. Maybe many years later, we may have forgotten a certain result, but the experience of fighting for the result will never be forgotten. When we look back, we will be proud of our courage to stand on that stage and sing the love in our hearts!
during the recovery period, it may be because I talked a lot, and I made many new friends soon! Take a walk, chat and clap basketball when you are tired of learning, and life will naturally be enriched! Thus, I always feel that I am the happiest person in the world. Although I lost my legs, I may get more things than ordinary people, and I can do many things that normal people can't. In fact, people live not for others, but for themselves! No matter how difficult the conditions are, as long as we can look at ourselves correctly, let go of our ideals, put ourselves in a suitable position and bravely ride the wind and waves, everyone can reach the other side of our ideals. If the heart is there, the dream is there and the success will be there!
a year of review life was spent in a hurry, although it was not well played! However, I was admitted to the school and major of dream and soul-clinical medicine major of Clinical Medical College of Anhui Medical University. At the moment when I received the notice, I just stared at it for a long time. In an instant, I smiled. I was a prospective college student. I waited for a long time and finally waited for this day. In fact, there is no such thing as fate in life. Everything acquired can be in your own hands. As long as you are willing to work hard and go forward bravely, you can create your own world and future!
in September p>27, I came to the university to report for duty. As soon as I entered the school, I went through the admission formalities under the leadership of several seniors, and the school specially arranged me in the dormitory on the first floor according to my situation. My father stayed with me at school for two days. During this period, I showed my father the housekeeping aspects such as washing clothes and folding quilts. On the third day, he went home safely. I think this is a new starting point. I can really experience and enrich myself. I will face greater challenges in the university stage when knowledge erupts.
Many students offered to help me, but I refused, because I clearly knew that what I could do should be done by myself. Although it took a long time, I couldn't accept some care at will, and I would be more open when I really needed my classmates' help, so as not to lose my principle of being a man.
After the formal start of school, I took the initiative to apply to Mr. Zhou (counselor Mr. Zhou Shengkun) to do some work for the class. According to my resume, he asked me to pass on psychological information and appointed me as a psychological information Committee member. I think no matter what position, as long as you do your own thing and do your job well, such people will live a valuable and meaningful life! After helping my classmates solve their psychological problems, I really feel a kind of infinite happiness and satisfaction.
University is a place with higher comprehensive quality requirements. Apart from studying and being a good psychological information officer and league secretary, I also joined the Love Society of our college and served as the vice president. I not only learned a lot here, but also made many friends! Help more people around you who need help through your own efforts.
in the past year, I participated in the 22nd Campus Singer Contest of Anhui Medical University, the speech contest of "Always Follow the Party and Strive to Be a New Generation" of Clinical Medical College and the speech contest of "Self-reliance, Self-reliance, Self-motivation, Talent and Service to the Motherland" of colleges and universities in Anhui Province, all of which won prizes. I was fortunate to participate in some social welfare activities as a volunteer, and did my modest part to serve the society.
I will continue to work hard and try my best to raise my quality in all aspects to a higher level. Although I know this road is very difficult. But wind and rain are only the beginning of life, and I believe I will be able to create my own clear sky! My future is by no means a mirage, but a beautiful scene! Now I am full every day. I want to be magnanimous, don't get bogged down in everything, and don't break the jar. No matter how unbearable things you encounter, as long as you face them frankly, don't feel inferior, resent incompetence, pain is useless, and rush forward bravely, you will rush out of your broad road.
Finally, my parents who want to work outside the home are safe.
May everyone have a bright future;
may the world be full of love!