In order to give birth to this child, I, naked resignation Al, gave up my bright future and went to Africa to reunite with HW's husband in Yemen. Just got pregnant and went back to China immediately to have a baby. Eight months after giving birth, Yemen evacuated overseas Chinese, reunited me with my husband, and then went to Egypt with him. A stay is more than five years.
As a family, life is getting better and better, and I can accompany my children to grow up every day, which makes me particularly grateful for my original choice. When my child was young, I cooked food for her every day and watched her master new skills every day. Although it's hard to take care of the children alone, I'm also very happy, especially after the children go to kindergarten, I have personal time.
I didn't think so much about my child's education at first, but I just thought she was happy. Because I can only go to international schools abroad and need to strengthen my language, I asked her to teach English as a foreign language, three classes a week.
School is over at 1: 30 every day, and the afternoon is very free, so I arrange for her to have two gymnastics classes every week, thinking that this can exercise.
Later, I felt that my child needed art training and invited an art tutor. Then I think the piano is the king of musical instruments. After learning, she can exercise her brain, maintain her physical strength, cultivate her sentiment and ease her mood, so she is invited to be a piano tutor.
Because gymnastics is indoor, it is mainly to exercise the flexibility of the body. I was afraid that she didn't have enough outdoor activities, so I added two tennis lessons to her.
There is a racetrack in the community. Every time she passes by, she likes to see those horses and always wants to ride them, so she will give her equestrian lessons when she is old.
Writing here, I feel that there are a little more classes, but I really didn't feel it at that time, and the children liked it. The class was over at 1: 30, so I had a lot of time to go to interest classes. She also got straight A's at school. These classes are also added by relay, that is, she adapts to the previous classes and is willing to add new classes to her.
After she went to school, I began to learn English, took on some part-time translation work and tutor work, and wanted to lay the foundation for my future work. After all, I stayed at home full-time for many years.
I started my overseas travel business on 19. It's really difficult to start a business after cooking and picking up children's various interest classes, because they all start from scratch and the business is getting better and better.
Before the outbreak began, there were cases in Egypt in March. At that time, the children stopped classes at home, and then my husband started working at home, and all classes stopped. Business is gone. In order to let the child not neglect and develop good study habits, let her make her own study and entertainment plans. She also performs happily and consciously every day.
As we originally planned to send her back to China to attend primary school, we moved to China one year in advance. At the end of June 2020, I will take her back to China alone, and the release of isolation will be at the end of July. In August, I took a break to prepare for school. In September, she starts school and I go to work.
You can't lose the piano; English can't be lost; I like painting very much; Dance takes over gymnastics; When I was looking for a tennis class in the National Fitness Center, I passed a martial arts class. The children loved it, so Wushu took over tennis. Lego mindstorms studied for several months when he returned to China in the summer vacation before programming. He liked it very much and reported it again. After school, I found that my handwriting was not good, so I added another writing class. So she has seven classes.
Other classes are ok, and the piano needs to be practiced every day, so in addition to tutoring homework, attending interest classes and urging piano practice every day. Playing the piano is really, I'm afraid only those who have experienced it can understand it. It's mom who tests it. Fortunately, I have a sparring foundation. When she was three years old, I had seven classes with a teacher in the last month when I returned to China to decorate my house. Then I went back to Egypt to rent a piano and taught myself for a while. With a little foundation, she began to learn piano at the age of four, and I embarked on the road of sparring.
Suddenly, I feel that I am writing this today because I took numerous deep breaths and told myself not to get angry when I was practicing the piano today. After she fell asleep, I sat on the sofa, thinking about how I got on the road of chicken baby, and it seems that this road will continue. Although it is hard, it is all for the children.
What makes me happy is that my child's performance in school is ok, and he got full marks in several exams. The teacher likes her very much and says that she has a good personality and has made many friends. She doesn't mind these interest classes. The school has the flexibility to leave school, so she can basically finish her homework before going home. Except when she didn't know how to read at first, she needed to come back to me to read the questions. Now that she can read extra-curricular books by herself, I basically don't have to worry about studying.
Dancing and martial arts occasionally make her lazy and don't want to go, but I insist that she will go anyway, and she is very happy when she goes to practice. These are mainly for her to exercise her posture.
She insisted on playing the piano for so long, and the investment cost was high. It took a lot of money and energy to keep her going.
Painting is her favorite, and she won't give up on herself.
Writing class is still needed at present, so we can't give it up for the time being. We can consider stopping writing, or writing with a brush after writing.
Lego mindstorms programming, in fact, I have no concept, just think that children should be able to program in the future, and they can also exercise logical thinking after learning. But my husband said it was useless. It depends on the future. If she doesn't like it, she can stop.
Wait until the third year of high school, you won't have time to learn these things, and you may have to add Olympic math and composition classes.
Think about it, your children are very happy now, but they are also very poor. The competition is too fierce. Everyone should study. If conditions permit, we should still learn from her. There is no mine at home, so we can only rely on Jiwa to give her more choices in the future.
And I, taking care of the baby alone, returning to the workplace, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, all the pressures suddenly made me breathless.
Ps: Recently, I also impulsively enrolled in an on-the-job postgraduate course, feeling that I urgently need to recharge and recycle.
Nowadays, children are so heavy at school. As adults, let's continue to bear this burden. At least there is light in my eyes, and you are behind me.