I brought three issues, and in each issue, the children said that they had the best time in Qinling.
I am nervous in the first three days of each issue. They all go to the Terracotta Warriors, the Forest of Steles Museum, the city walls and other crowded places. On the fourth and fifth days, away from the hustle and bustle of cities and tourist attractions, they came to the Qinling Mountains, the geographical boundary between the north and the south in China, southern Shaanxi. The children ran freely in the mountains looking for yew, and shouted and screamed when they entered the mountains in a big truck built in the early days of the founding of the People's Republic of China. They had never been on it. The children's passion was completely ignited and their nature was released. The children's laughter echoed in the quiet valley with the sound of running water and birds singing, and it also permeated the whole summer, making it sweet and refreshing and becoming an unforgettable scene for children.
These children all live in developed cities such as Shanghai and Shenzhen, and their family conditions are excellent. From an early age, they will learn painting, calligraphy, dance instruments and other talents. Travel around the country and attend an international bilingual school. The starting point and personal comprehensive quality can be said to be very, very high, and it can be seen from their words and deeds during the camp that family education is also in place.
I think it is very important to cultivate first-class children. First, a good family environment provides them with opportunities and resources as much as possible to cultivate and practice their talents. The second is to let them get close to nature, get in touch with nature, return to the most basic nature, and be a child who loves to play and laugh. Thirdly, through leading the team for three times, I feel that parents' care for their children and patient and meticulous companionship and guidance are the most important. Compared with external things, I think it is more important to cultivate internal character and quality. No matter external or internal, children are a blank sheet of paper. Externality can be cultivated slowly in the future, and there will be no big problems. However, their inner personality and psychological quality will affect the most precious golden period of their lives-childhood, and even for a long time to come. For example, during the camp, when sending mobile phones to parents on a regular basis, it is difficult for some children's parents to get through, and they rarely read and reply to messages among parents. In response to the point at the beginning of the article, children's family environment is superior, but there will also be cases where parents may be busy with their careers and social activities and neglect their care and companionship. In addition, if some parents' family atmosphere and educational methods are improper, it will also have a very bad influence on their children. It may cause children's psychological defects of introversion, autism and insecurity. Some children will cry and panic when they encounter some difficulties, setbacks or problems, or wrap themselves up like ostriches, or even choose to deal with problems and face people and things in a way that hurts them.
In family education, the way parents reward and punish their children will have a great influence on their growth. I want to talk about this in combination with my own growth experience. When I was in primary school, my grandfather encouraged me to get a little money for the exam 100, a little less for the exam 99, a little less for the exam 98, and no prize for the exam below 97. How much is the first prize and the second prize of "Three Good Students"?
Since childhood, in order to buy their favorite toys and snacks, they will work hard for "scholarships" and gradually evolve into some short-term goals that can be seen in front of them. Learning for others may gradually lead to my own life and attitude towards doing things for others, which also bothers me. Although I think many concepts and habits can be corrected in society, in books and under the guidance of relatives and friends when they hit a wall, children's early brain development is not mature enough, and when their individual consciousness and independent thinking ability are not enough, they need the correct guidance of parents, teachers and first instructors.
One more thing, which is also my favorite thing to get along with children, is that children are very pure and pure. Once, after completing a food exploration mission in Huimin Street, children were free to walk around and buy their own food. Two children in our group are eager to buy ice cream. I told them there was no place to eat ice cream. When they come to Xi 'an, they will eat some local specialties of Xi 'an, but the children just don't listen and buy ice cream. In the evening, I went back to the hotel and thought about it. The children are very simple. Like it, like it, don't like it, don't like it. Adults may be a little utilitarian and will weigh the pros and cons and analyze the status quo. Later, I chatted with Grandpa Niu in the yard of Qinling Mountains. He said that children certainly have their own preferences, but we should also guide them correctly.
Children have their own personalities. We should respect them and their ideas. We should not treat them completely as children, but treat them equally, so that they will be more willing to share and communicate with you.
Cultivating, educating and caring for children is a kind of love and two-way responsibility and knowledge between children and educators.
Every child is a seed, and a good growth environment is very necessary;
Every child is a blank piece of paper, please paint him with colorful colors as much as possible, and don't leave him with too many blank or dim colors;
Every child is a piece of jade. While retaining the essence of natural personality, it needs careful carving by tour guides and sculptors.
The children said, thank the teacher for giving them an unforgettable summer vacation. Similarly, you gave us an unforgettable summer vacation!
Grateful, moved, grateful!