My friend Dali said to me angrily last night: I just cleaned up my son. I asked the naughty boy to do some winter vacation homework. After finishing the homework, he could play games for an hour. As a result, he called me happily. I, said he wrote quickly and applied to play games.
I was quite happy, I thought this guy was enlightened, but as soon as I got home from work, I read it. I had finished writing, and the words were almost flying into the sky. I was so angry that I just kicked him. He has two legs, he is only in the first grade, and his handwriting is so ugly. Should I enroll him in a class?
I said: You need to calm down first. Isn’t this only the first grade? There is hope for everything, don't worry. If you get kicked, wouldn't it be you who feels the most distressed? Dali replied to me: Yes, then should I enroll him in a class to "train" him?
In fact, first-grade children will be particularly beautiful if they write seriously, even those who have never practiced calligraphy.
My son had never been exposed to writing before going to school. After he entered the first grade, he followed the teacher to write stroke by stroke. I was amazed that he could write such beautiful words. I felt ashamed and very happy. It has the meaning of calligraphy, the kind that hides the sharpness of the brush.
When he was in second grade, he wrote well and was more serious; so I didn’t pay attention to it, thinking that he would always write so well. But I found that he has gradually slacked off since the third grade. I didn't pay much attention to it myself, because he usually writes well when he writes seriously, but sometimes he can be impetuous, draw fast, and want to write continuously.
Speaking of this, in fact, I am personally responsible because sometimes when I tutor him with homework, I don’t pay attention when writing, and the pen is naturally broken, but the child sees it and writes it down. In my mind, he tried to imitate me and started writing continuous strokes, even though I told him: It's like a child who wants to run before he learns to walk.
In the fourth grade, I found that his handwriting was no longer as beautiful as before, and good calligraphy is indeed crucial for children. The most successful case in handwriting is Hengshui Ti.
At present, the font of Hengshui Ti has become a benchmark. Many English posts say Hengshui Ti. Even if the font is clean and written incorrectly, it will still be judged wrong. However, for the same test paper, the font written in Hengshui Ti The grading teacher's mood can be imagined if the fonts are good and the handwriting is not good.
Even in normal times, teachers will look down upon a student who writes well. This is how it is written in English, and the same is true for writing Chinese characters.
So, I suggest that if your child’s handwriting is not good, he can be sent to study
From my own experience:
1. We should pay attention to writing well
We should pay attention to writing psychologically. It is okay for children to start writing in the first grade. If they write well, the teacher will like it. The child himself is also confident and will always be praised by the teacher. Children are naturally confident.
2. The choice of enrolling in a class or not enrolling in a class
Enrolling in a class can give children a systematic understanding of calligraphy, and the calligraphy teacher will also help the children to reach a higher level, for example, After my son learned it from his teacher, he realized that this kind of body is the Yan body and this kind of body is the European body, and it sounds eloquent when talking about it.
If you don’t sign up for classes, you can let your children write copybooks along with them.
3. The most important thing is persistence
The ten thousand hours rule tells us that anything can be successful through persistence.
The same goes for writing. Children who develop good writing habits can benefit them throughout their lives. Even if you only write a few lines of words every day, if you write too much, your feelings will come out, and you will develop a good habit of writing horizontally and vertically. If you want your child to write crooked words, he himself will feel uncomfortable.
Guo Moruo said: "To train primary and secondary school students to write well, not everyone will become a calligrapher. They must write in a standard, relatively upright, clean and easy to recognize. It is good to develop a habit in this way. It can make people careful, easy to concentrate, and good at caring for others. It is easy to make mistakes in things by being careless and arbitrary."