Praising others can purify our souls through appreciation and praise. Praising others can fill our hearts with love and build healthy and harmonious relationships. If we often praise others, we will find that there are too many beautiful things around us, our lives will be full of sunshine, and we will be grateful for life from the bottom of our hearts. In this fast-paced modern society, in this living environment with no time for communication, if you learn to praise others, there will be more understanding and less caution between people; more warmth, less indifference; and more harmony. , a little less estrangement.
Of course, praising others is not cheap flattery, nor is it unprincipled hello, me, hello, everyone, nor is it a mental massage to please others, nor is it a mental bribery with evil intentions. Praising others is appreciation and touching from the heart, kindness, encouragement and tolerance. It means respect, understanding and support.
To praise others, you must overcome the narrow mentality and dark heart. How can a person who always thinks about his own gains and losses, and a person who always treats others with vigilance and caution, be able to appreciate others? What about others? Not to mention sincerely praising others.
The great writer Hugo once said: "The widest thing in the world is the ocean, wider than the ocean is the sky, and wider than the sky is the human heart." We should be like the sea. Laugh at all the rivers, let the eagles soar like the sky, and crowd the peaks like the mountains. Abandon arrogance, conceit and complacency, and give heartfelt praise to others' intelligence, morality and conduct without hesitation.
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Confession
Everyone may have some regrets in their heart that cannot be talked about and are inconvenient to talk about. Conscience and soul, these will become leaven, and gradually leaven into repentance.
Liu Chuanzhi, chairman of the board of directors of Lenovo Group, said: In 1986, they acted as an agent for servers for a foreign company. There was a problem with the server purchased by a customer. As a result, the foreign company could not find it and could not compensate. He bilked a client for 20,000 yuan, but this became a stone weighing on Liu Chuanzhi's heart. When he met that client again a few years later, Liu Chuanzhi quickly returned the 20,000 yuan to the client, and then heaved a long sigh of relief. This is the most sincere feeling and the most kept secret that a successful entrepreneur told the media in front of the media. However, he said it - because he said it, he was more respected.
If ordinary people repent, individuals will surely make progress; if entrepreneurs repent, the economy will surely take off; if national elites repent, the country will prosper - it is best if everyone can repent and expose their hidden thoughts to the sun. Get tested. Hiroshi Oyama?
——Write justice with justice
Hiroshi Ohyama, a famous Japanese lawyer, is the leader of the "Japanese Lawyers Group for Compensation Claims for Chinese War Victims".
This old man with gray eyelashes, as a lawyer representing Chinese war victims, has participated in all legal cases against Japan in the past 40 years since 1963. The "Japanese Lawyers Group for Compensation Claims of Chinese War Victims" established by Hiroshi Oyama and other Japanese lawyers will represent these lawsuits free of charge and will advance all expenses themselves. In addition, they have repeatedly spent their own money to transport Chinese victims to appear in court in Tokyo, Japan. Hiroshi Oyama, who devotes most of his energy to litigation, can only support his family as a legal consultant for companies.
Oyama Hiroshi’s actions angered right-wing forces in Japan. But Oyama Hiroshi's actions have been respected by the Chinese and even the world. People call him "a fighter who fights for justice against those who have lost their memory", and the lawsuits he represents "not only contribute to China and Japan" , and contribute to all mankind." He himself said: "The courage to repent of one's own country's crimes is true patriotism; a country with conscience should face history instead of trying to deny or try to cover up its crimes. Only in this way can it be done. Gain respect from people all over the world. ”
Help others and help yourself
Do you know why blind people turn on lights when walking at night?
That's according to others. If others see the road clearly, they won't hit the blind man. It turns out that helping others is helping yourself.
In Boston, the United States, a memorial to the massacre of Jews is engraved with a confessional poem left by a German Protestant priest named Marcy:
“At first they chased and killed Communists, I'm not a communist, I didn't speak out; then they went after the Jews, I'm not a Jew, I didn't speak out; then they went after the trade unionists, I'm not a trade unionist, I continued to stay silent ; Then they came after Catholics, but I was not a Catholic, so I still didn’t speak; in the end, they came after me, and no one stood up to speak for me anymore. ”
People who can repent. , the spirit is extremely noble. -Lu Xun's "Ghosts in the Chinese Literary World"
The most respectable person is a penitent person. -Li Dazhao's "The Repentant"
Writer Yin Qian: "Repentance is not escape but responsibility, repentance is not death but rebirth, repentance is not despair but hope - Edison Chen ran to the United States after the incident, Until she later decided to quit the entertainment industry, it was like running away from home. Gillian wanted to commit suicide and got sick one after another. This was weakness and sadness caused by self-pity and shame.
They are merely engaging in narcissistic relief and fear-based avoidance rather than true repentance. Some people may ask, why do people have to repent? Because only true repentance can enable them to have a strong and profound understanding of sin and destroy that false and arrogant moral self-esteem. Repentance shows a person's understanding and anxiety about his own moral status. Therefore, Edison Chen and others must truly Confession, not just apology and apology, not just self-blame and remorse. ”
Learn to repent! Let your personality be clean!
What does repent mean? To repent is to confess the mistakes made in the past; to repent is to regret and to change one’s ways. Repent. It means repenting for the mistakes you have made, repenting, and promising not to make them again. Repentance is not a unique method of Buddhism. Christianity and Islam attach great importance to repentance in Buddhism and other religions. Difference: In other religions such as Christianity and Islam, who do they repent to? Repent to God and the leader, and ask for forgiveness and forgiveness from the Lord. The main purpose of repentance in Buddhism is face-to-face. Although I sometimes confess to the public and myself, it is mainly self-reproach. The Buddha said in the sutra: There are two types of people who can achieve great success in practicing Buddhism. One is to practice and live according to the law and not commit any crime; the second is to be able to repent after committing a crime. It is not terrible that a person has shortcomings and mistakes. What is terrible is that he has made mistakes and has no regrets. Talent is the most terrifying thing. Therefore, when we make a mistake, we must sincerely repent, change our past mistakes, and promise not to sin again in the future, so that we can achieve success in practicing Buddhism.
Ordinary people. We all know how to clean our living environment, but few people pay attention to cleaning and cleaning up their bad behaviors and removing the dirt in their thoughts, words and deeds. Since time immemorial, we have had many troubles and created many sins. Our personality is completely polluted by anger and delusion. If we don’t need to repent to cleanse our personality that is polluted by worries, what will our personality look like? Just like a very beautiful and beautiful fashion, it is originally very clean. If a lady Wear it for a while, if it gets dirty, take it off without washing it, put it there, wear it again after a few days, then take it off again; wear it again without washing it; after a few days, take it out and smell it before wearing it again. After a long time, it has become It’s extremely dirty and stinky, and then you keep wearing it without washing it. What do you think our personality will be like? Like new clothes, they are originally very clean, but because of greed, anger and ignorance, we have created many sins. The troubles pollute our personality, and the sins bring suffering in life. Therefore, we now learn from the Samantabhadra Bodhisattva. The four great vows to "repent of karma" enable us to use the Buddhist method of repentance to clear away the dirt in our souls and restore our personality to its original appearance, so that we can be a good person!
Repent!
Many people think that repentance is a very serious word, and it seems that it can only be used for people on death row.
In fact, repentance is different. Repentance is too shallow; repentance is different from remorse, which is too emotional. Repentance is the purification of the soul, the sublimation of life, and the pain after the softness deep in the soul is beaten.
Understand that repentance is the purification of the soul. Happy. When people do something wrong and violate the moral bottom line of their souls, conscience, the guardian arranged by God to live deep in the human heart, will take out its weapon and prick us one after another. We are panicking from the bottom of our hearts, no matter how you pretend it is. A person who knows how to repent hands over his faults to heaven and earth, God, Buddha, words, walls, and puppies at home, so that he can obtain spiritual salvation. As the Bible says: "When the Lord looks at When you are ready, hand over the filth in your heart and you will be saved." Of course, you can also hand it over to the police.
The so-called pressure in life actually comes not only from society, but more often from our hearts. Each of us has made mistakes, small mistakes, big mistakes and even sins, and as a result, our souls cannot have peace of mind. A person who cannot have peace of mind will certainly feel out of breath all day long. At this time, we have to repent. Purify the soul in repentance, sublimate the soul in repentance, improve yourself in repentance, and move forward resolutely in repentance.
We are naturally atheists, and we are naturally not superstitious. However, we still need to learn to repent.
Learn to repent, because of the suffering you have given to others; learn to repent, because of the devastated earth; learn to repent, because of how many creatures have been exterminated!
A gentleman will reflect on himself every day, and then he will have an awe-inspiring spirit.
The age without God does not mean that there is no need for repentance. I have given up my faith, lost my direction, lost my ideals, indulged in appearances, and dimmed the light. We must find our faith in repentance, discern our direction in repentance, adhere to our ideals in repentance, see through appearances in repentance, light up new lights with repentance, and start a new voyage.
Ba Jin is the "conscience of the 20th century", but what about the 21st century? No need for conscience? I like to use martial arts and Zen as a metaphor for technological material civilization and spiritual civilization. Every unique skill in Shaolin Kung Fu has a corresponding Zen philosophy to transform its violent energy. Because "Wu Nai Qian Tianhe is a thing that destroys human relations. If there is no corresponding state of mind, it is inevitable to go crazy and become a demon."
"Without repentance, their souls will not be purified, and thus they will not be able to keep up with material development and lose the guidance of correct consciousness. In this way, the faster the development of material civilization will only make human beings go further on the road of losing themselves. < /p>
Therefore, we must learn to repent, let us start from scratch, go into battle easily, and move toward tomorrow.