Tai Shigong wrote in Historical Records: "If disaster does not come, happiness will not come."
Evil will not come for no reason, and happiness will not come to us casually. All the blessings are balanced.
There is no good luck or bad luck in this world for no reason. All good luck and bad luck, in fact, complement each other and transform each other, which has always made people dare not take it lightly.
For example, if a person is full of blessings, he can't take it lightly, because the next moment may be a collapse-type disaster. This is what we often say "extremes meet".
For example, if a person's luck goes to extremes, he can't give up hope of continuing to struggle. Maybe meeting him next moment will be as lucky as the bright morning light. This is what we often say, "No pains, no gains."
We must firmly believe that there is no pain or good luck for nothing. We can have as much happiness as we can endure. Everything, you have to pay, you can get something.
If a person is in pain, he doesn't have to struggle too much, he just needs to endure it silently, that's all.
If there are blessings for people, there will be sufferings from heaven. These sufferings will eventually become your blessings.
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All the losses will be compensated unexpectedly.
There are two strokes of herringbone, one can be written and the other can be lost. What you get will be lost one day. What is lost will also be compensated and given by fate at some point in the future.
Is there really "compensation for fate" in this world?
After graduation, Xiao Wang wants to pursue further studies, hoping to make further progress in academic qualifications and academic qualifications. It's a pity that Xiao Wang didn't go to graduate school and didn't realize his dream of studying.
Under the pressure of life, he gritted his teeth and went to the first-tier cities to work hard. After ten years of struggle, Xiao Wang has grown from a grass-roots employee to a regional head of the company, with a successful career, a car and a house in first-tier cities, and has taken root.
Is it really unfortunate for a person to lose his present dream and move towards the unknown future? Not exactly. Sometimes, what you lose is the best arrangement of fate for you.
Because fate knows that you don't belong to this road, it can only make you experience setbacks and let you find your own right path, benefit from it and get on the right track.
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The suffering you have experienced will temper your will.
We often say that the flowers in the greenhouse will eventually be destroyed by the storm. Only the flowers in the wild can face the wind and rain, see the world and smell more and more fragrant.
Flowers are very different because of different environments. The same is true of people, because different experiences, different degrees of persistence, and different final achievements.
Some people live under the protection of their parents all day and never leave their parents at all. Isn't he a flightless chicken?
Some people wandered around at a young age, suffered countless hardships, met countless people, and saw through the essence of rivers and lakes and the truth of the world. Isn't he the Dapeng who rose in nine days?
The gap between people lies in the word "experience". And experience can also cause mental differences. Sometimes, the calmer you are, the more you can achieve great things.
It can be said that the hardships you have experienced will make your mind invincible.
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Everything goes against your will, and you are banished from the darkness ahead.
There is a saying: "everything has cracks, that's where the light comes in."
No one in this world is perfect. Some people get love, then they will lose money; Some people get happiness, then they will lose their health. How can everything be perfect?
The reason why the creator does not make the world perfect and life perfect is because he knows that imperfection is the truest. And perfection, that's the least valuable.
Both brothers have worked in the same company, and their abilities and career achievements are similar. Why can the eldest brother stay and the younger brother be dismissed?
Everything is just fate and opportunity. There is fate and opportunity, then you will naturally get what you want. Without fate and opportunity, it will naturally backfire.
However, when people gradually accept the life that backfires, then they will find that there are so many choices in life. We are unhappy only because we are blinded by a leaf.
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It is the blessing of ordinary people to live a plain life through hard work.
Many people will complain that I have worked hard all my life. Instead of being rich or expensive, you can only live a dull life. Is this fate really fair?
We might as well ask ourselves, is all this fair?
I want to say that everything is the best arrangement. Even if it is dull, it is also a blessing for ordinary people.
Ordinary people's ability and psychological frustration simply can't cope with the ups and downs of life. The virtue of ordinary people can't bear too many achievements and positions. At this time, it is plain, but it is the best destination for ordinary people.
To be a man, there is no need to be obsessed with the words "great wealth and great wealth" and "making contributions". If you have the ability, you can naturally try. But if you have no ability, why force yourself?
People live a lifetime, accept ordinary parents, accept their own ordinary, and accept ordinary children. This is the best state of mind and the highest state of being a man.
Text/There are deer in Shushan