1 trick: venting, that is, fighting against desire by hurting the body to get pain.
History: During the Spring and Autumn Period, there was a widow named Yu Qiu in Wei State. Once she cut her thigh with a knife and then "spit it out". This behavior is similar to that of modern girls burning their arms with cigarette butts.
The second measure: borrowing, that is, the current electrical appliance is W (note: see film A for the operation method). According to the female self-ware unearthed by archaeologists from the ancient tomb, this history can be traced back to a very long time.
The third measure: remarriage, that is, finding a legal husband. But in ancient times, especially in the Ming and Qing Dynasties, the remarriage of widows was tantamount to confronting the whole social order. So once the remarriage fails, it is basically implemented.
The fourth measure: stealing Chinese style is to find a savage to talk about hunger and thirst. For example, Pan Jinlian and Pan Qiaoyun in Water Margin. However, there is a difference between a widow and Pan Jinlian. The former is practical need, while the latter is lewd behavior. Of course, for orthodox social ethics, both of these behaviors will be condemned.