What happens to children who have reorganized their families?

In the process of family reorganization, parents and stepchildren may face greater challenges and more conflicts in the process of life adaptation. For example, after the reorganization, the family population is large, and the family composition is relatively complex, which is prone to contradictions. Different from the family of birth, the reorganized family pays more attention to the "law of fairness" and is extremely sensitive to who is more and who is less, who is close and who is thin and thick. Children living in reorganized families tend to compare the changes of their family structure and think that they have lost some freedom and economic dominance in the new family and their family status has changed. These changes make them suffer from negative emotions such as psychological anxiety, uneasiness and resentment. Generally speaking, children with reorganized families may have the following psychological characteristics: Image source: People's Daily HealthNo. 1. Inferiority personality and self-cognitive disorder. Afraid of communicating with others, unable to know and evaluate oneself objectively, and biased in self-cognition. If you stick to your shortcomings, you won't recognize your strengths. I often feel useless because of a little thing. Inferiority and self-cognitive obstacles restrict children's development in all aspects. 2. Behavior withdrawal, fear of failure. Because the family situation is different, I feel different and inferior to others. Always carefully restrain your words and deeds and dare not express your thoughts and feelings. Fear of trial and error, fear of failure, fear of being laughed at. They think that simple things are not easy to make mistakes, so they are unwilling to try complex and difficult new things, which will seriously affect their development in all aspects. 3. Depressed, sensitive and suspicious. They may experience quarrels and struggles between parents in family of origin, lack of fatherly love or maternal love, the collapse of family of origin, and unhappy family reorganization. Will fall into a state of depression without warning, often silent. Pay great attention to other people's evaluation, and non-positive evaluation is negative evaluation in their view. I will suspect that others are talking about their own topics or whispering bad things about themselves. 4. Rebellious and sometimes aggressive. Most of them are rebellious, and they are easy to resist the words and deeds of their stepparents and even teachers, make confrontational behaviors, are unwilling to abide by discipline, and some even have revenge. Over time, it will develop into dissatisfaction and picky about many things around you, which is not conducive to the development of children's interpersonal communication and mental health.