It's important to give others dignity: 1
Life is like a puzzling problem. Maybe we can't understand the mystery even if we spend our whole lives. Dignity is the key factor that determines whether our life is vigorous and unknown. Rousseau, a great French thinker, said: Every upright person should safeguard his dignity. Not only that, in life, we should realize that we also have dignity.
In life, we can see some young people in their prime kneeling on the ground and begging from passers-by; We can see that some people are idle, put a bowl in front of them and sit for a whole day, begging for a living; We can also see people who pretend to be disabled in order to gain people's sympathy. Every time I see them, there are ripples in my heart. I don't understand why they put down their dignity, bow to their own lives and live on the pity of others. I don't understand why they want others to trample on their dignity and give up themselves. Even if there are secrets, I don't think I have to rely on other people's charity to survive, do I?
On the contrary, there are many people worthy of our admiration in life: people who make a living by their own talents despite their disabilities; An old man who lives by picking up waste; People who don't give up their dreams even if life is hard. These people are from humble origins, but they know that no matter what, people can't put down their dignity and give up their lives. They should stand up and hold their heads up. They are respectable, at least for those who beg for a living, they are glorious. As Rousseau said, they can maintain their dignity and they are upright.
Hammer, the oil magnate, used to be a nobody. He also experienced flying when he was young, but it was Hammer's self-esteem, self-love and self-improvement that earned him the world-renowned title of "Oil King". Many great men were depressed, but they never gave up their dignity and bowed their heads to face life. Instead, I defended my dignity with my life, proved my height with facts, and finally stood at the peak of the world.
Men have gold under their knees, not just men, but everyone should have gold under their knees. If they can't maintain their dignity, they will be trampled and insulted. Everyone in the world should have dignity, maintain dignity and respect dignity. Only in this way can we be worthy of the word "person".
Each of us should not have a "low-headed life", but should look up at life and let others see a different self with our own efforts!
It's important to give others dignity: Chapter 2
Holding a handful of clear water and choosing dignity in tranquility has a long history;
Enjoy a bright moon, choose dignity in splendor, and be carefree and calm.
The journey is long, we should choose dignity in the journey, dust off the yellow dust that covers our eyes and step out of life all the way.
When the great feat of "pulling out the mountain and shaking the world" faded from the painter's yellowed page, when the turbid waves and "great winds and clouds rising" sung by the Han family slowly faded, when Chu songs came from all directions, such as thrilling magic sounds hitting your ears and tears washing the back of the stalwart, you slowly passed away.
Xiang Yu learned to choose by the roaring Wujiang River, calmly and firmly chose the dignity of life, like chrysanthemums falling in the wind, but always fragrant. Faced with the blue color that glides across the spear tip and the bright red blood that glides across the white neck, the brave resolutely chose dignity, and chose dignity that is more important than life, and bloomed at the end of life.
It is the singer singing in the wild geese blowing from the yellow sand and the north wind; Master Roshi with neon as the line and rainbow as the hook; It's the traveler who travels all over the mountains and rivers and sees the bright moon in the sky.
Li Bai, who returned to the land of Shandong, drank for months, shared eternal worries, returned to wuyue in the south, sleepwalked in the sky, and set his sights on mountains and rivers. After waking up from a dream, he learned to choose, choose the dignity of life, keep lonely, sing "Until, raise my cup, I ask the moon, bring my shadow to me, let us three", choose the dignity and wine like the moon, go out with a smile and write "Are we Artemisia people?" , such as graceful lotus, blooming with fragrance.
Climb a continuous festival, embrace the loyalty of "life is a big man, death is a big man" and run in the vast desert; One by one, the lambs stick to the lofty belief of loyalty to the country and wander in the cold sand and grass. The snow and ice are falling, and the blood is boiling. Camel bells burst, remembering patriotism and loving the distance.
Su Wu chose the other side of life dignity on this side of wealth and enjoyment, and resolutely set up a monument of loyalty to the motherland in his heart. He explained the dignity of life incisively and vividly with unyielding chastity; With immortal loyalty, he sublimated a bare knot into an amazing surprise; In the spirit of never betraying, he fixed a group of skinny sheep as brilliant eternity. He chose dignity, like plum blossoms blooming in winter, and the fragrance drifting away.
Butterflies choose their dignity on the petals and rest gracefully;
The fish chose their dignity in the lake and swam freely and calmly;
Seagulls chose dignity in the sky and flew peacefully.
In life, choosing dignity is the greatest pleasure. Learn to choose the dignity of the journey, paving the way for legend and lasting prosperity.
It's important to give others dignity: Chapter 3
My father was like my patron saint when I was growing up. He stepped on his dignity without complaint and raised his love for me above his head.
Father is a frustrated person. In the year when the college entrance examination was resumed, he dropped out of the list by eight points. Due to the financial situation at home at that time, he had to give up the opportunity to continue sprinting for the college entrance examination and go home to farm. Later, he married his uneducated mother and later had me. In my childhood, in my eyes, my father was so noble, solemn and sacred. But when I grow up, my father's image in my heart is no longer tall, not because of his repeated failures in business, nor because of his stubbornness, but because I think he has lost his dignity! When he knocked on his uncle's red paint door, he borrowed money with a pretentious smile; When he argued with others for a few cents; After the creditor came home, he piteously begged me to touch my heart and bleed. Although I know he borrowed money from me, I still can't accept it, and I can't accept my father's loss of dignity.
My father and I finally broke out in a quarrel, which changed my attitude towards my father.
That day, I went to see Tan's father after school. Father kept sweating in the hot sun. He was very happy that I went. I chatted with him on purpose because I didn't want to widen the generation gap between us. My father has been staring absently across the street, and I can see that he is hesitating. He tried to walk there several times and once came back halfway. I said, Dad, what do you want to do? Oh, no, it's okay! But from his eyes, I could see that he did have something on his mind. Xiao Li, look at the booth for a while. I'm going over there! The moment my father walked by, I remembered Zhu Ziqing's back. I never realized that my father had become so old. Across a narrow road, I can vaguely hear his voice and that uncle's voice. At first, they talked about unimportant things. Later, my ears shook and I heard my father say, "His uncle, you just lent me a dollar. You see, my uncle said that he forgot to pay back the money in a hurry, so he quickly took out a dollar and handed it to his father. At that time, I felt that I was burning in the flame of shame. When my father came up to me with a smile on his face, I couldn't help shouting at him, "Dad, you're a shame! His face twitched and his arms waved in the air. He hesitated when he touched my face, but he hit me hard in the face after all. This is the first time that he 16 years hit me, and it hit me hard. I can clearly see the complicated expression on his face. His body is shaking, his hands are shaking, and his voice is shaking: I just want to save some money to buy you books!
At that moment, I lost control and burst into tears. Dad, how selfish and ignorant the daughter is. Her pride and self-esteem are the gorgeous sky in her world, but she doesn't know that what supports this sky is the dignity sacrificed by her father!
It was this slap that woke me up, and the dignity my father stepped on paved the way for my loving life. He said to me, always remember, go with the dignity of two people!
It's important to give others dignity: Chapter 4
I read an article and a short article called Ode to Bamboo. There is a passage that makes me pay special attention to: "In the palace in spring, the peach blossoms chasing butterflies for fun, the violets clinging to other things from bottom to top, and the peony boasting about the world with wealth have already sunk in the dusty desert." Hey! Peach blossom, violet and peony are all sacred flowers. Why is it not liked by the author in Zhuzhi Fu?
Peach blossom is the messenger to welcome spring, and pink petals give people a fresh and refined artistic conception. In the palace of spring, a hundred flowers blossom and compete for beauty. Peach blossoms can stand among these flowers and produce the most beautiful flowers in the colorful world. Isn't this her pride? It is better to say that peach blossoms attract pink butterflies to pursue pleasure than the charm of peach blossoms.
Throughout the ages, peach blossom has become the object of many literati dancing and writing, such as Du Fu's: peach blossom is in full bloom, lovely deep red loves light red? ; Li Bai's: Peach Blossom Flowing Water [y m 4 o] is suddenly far away and near, and there is no heaven and earth. ..... this is the peach blossom in our hearts.
Violet is a vine. Stretching is easy, independence is not easy, and independence can only be achieved by attaching to something else. Nature didn't give Violet limbs, which is unfair to nature, not Violet's fault. Violet at this time is a disabled person who has lost his legs. If I were you, I might feel that life is hopeless and go on. Violet didn't, and the pain of independence didn't hit him. With the help of the living environment around him, he bloomed the most dazzling flowers and showed people his beauty.
Knowing the growth experience of Violet, I think you will no longer think that Violet is a "parasite" who climbs the dragon and attaches to the phoenix, but an "endeavor" who is physically disabled and determined. Everyone should understand: "that gorgeous color, faint fragrance, is the strength exchanged in misfortune!" " "
Peony is the national flower of our country, symbolizing wealth, auspiciousness and prosperity. Eating in restaurants and visiting relatives can be seen everywhere, because people pin their good wishes on her, hoping that this will bring good luck to people.
With the changes of the times and the development of society, what has sunk into the secular desert? It's the kind of villain who intrigues all day because of personal interests and has no good end!
As the saying goes, "no one is perfect, and gold is not enough." Flowers are certainly the same. Peach blossom, violet and peony, of course, have shortcomings, but please don't stare at their shortcomings, because they present the charm of life in a unique way! If you always compare the shortcomings of that thing with the advantages of this thing, then the life of that thing will always be bleak! Is this fair to them?
In writing, in order to highlight the importance of what is written, the author often takes something as a foil, which is understandable to me. However, in life, in order to publicize their achievements, some people often disregard the dignity of others, let some injured hearts face the camera and tear their pain again and again in front of the microphone. This is the last scene I want to see.
Please remember: every life has dignity! Whether life is strong or weak, whether life is noble or low, you should never underestimate or ridicule it, because every life has its value and significance!
It is important to give others dignity: Chapter 5
One cannot live without dignity. Dignity is not a hollow name, not a flashy wealth, but a noble spirit, a shining soul, and an innate nobility from the heart.
Turning a page of history, those who have been shining for thousands of years come to me leisurely. I hold a few thin glasses of wine in my hand to worship these shining souls who live with dignity.
I sacrificed to Qu Zi, who threw a stone into the river and died.
The king of Chu is fatuous, and the clique is in power. How can you awaken the insensitive ruling group by yourself, and how can you support the establishment of Chu? Why not listen to the fisherman's advice: get drunk with everyone and let the country decline! But you didn't. You don't want to see the people of Chu lose their dignity with the decline of the country. So for the dignity of the motherland and the people, you threw a stone into the river at the moment of disillusionment, and your soul shone with dazzling light.
I sacrificed to Sima Qian, who lived a forbearing life.
You have suffered great pain and humiliation, and human dignity has been trampled on wantonly. What is the strength that supports you to live tenaciously? It is the great wish of "writing the history of faith and shining on the earth", the belief that "literary talent is in the hands of future generations" and the purpose of remolding trampled dignity. So you live in seclusion, hiding in the dirt. Live in humiliation, but also live in dignity, and live out the value that is more important than Mount Tai. Practice your ambition by living, and your soul shines brilliantly.
I sacrificed to Su Wu, who observed Hu 19 as the Han Festival.
Poverty never moves, wealth never lusts, and power never bends. This is a portrayal of your noble personality. You have withstood the test of blood and fire, resisted the temptation of fame and fortune, and stood in the snowy northland of Wan Li for nineteen years with a big man's scepter. How magnificent and powerful! For the dignity of the motherland, swallow Leng Xue and walk through the snow on the top of the ice. You are like a soul called a great man! Never betray, your soul shines brilliantly.
Going with the flow will not affect a person's career, but Qu Zi does not. He won his dignity for it. Death may wash away shame, but it is painful. However, Sima Qian did not. He also won dignity for the sake of dignity. Kneeling for surrender will certainly bring wealth, but Su Wu didn't. He also won dignity for the sake of dignity.
People can't live without dignity. Dignity is intangible and priceless. It is worth buying with life and defending with life. Have dignity, even if it is not great enough, it must be extremely noble; Have dignity, live upright, and be immortal after death.
I pass this bowl of liquor to all people who live with dignity!