A sentimental poem by a 52-year-old woman

There is a famous saying that I believe everyone has heard: "Genius is 99% sweat plus 1% inspiration." In fact, there is a second part of this sentence-"But that one percent of inspiration is far more important than that 99 percent of sweat."

It is true that diligence is something you can do with your heart, but talent is a rare opportunity for everyone. A truly talented person is like a gold nugget thrown into the sand. No matter how buried, the lead will be washed away eventually.

Words such as "genius" and "prodigy" appeared in the world, but in the end they all confirmed the sentence "Is the golden scale a thing in the pool?" Of course, it is one thing to have talent, and it is another to be able to use it. Otherwise, how could there be such a tragedy as Fang Zhongyong's "losing everyone"?

For ordinary people, Tian Xiaofei is undoubtedly lucky. She has an unparalleled family background and talent, which has created her brilliant life. There is no doubt that she is also powerful. Although she is very talented, she is never proud of her talent and is always passionate about poetry and literature.

It can be said that her success is due to luck, but not all because of luck.

Literary family

Tian Xiaofei was born in Harbin in 197 1. Her parents are writers, so she has been well influenced by literature education since birth.

A good family environment and enlightened parents will also help her lay a good literary foundation in the future.

Maybe it's a gift, maybe it's parents' ears. From an early age, Tian Xiaofei was not addicted to games like other children, but obsessed with literature.

Give the child a collection of essays and a cup of tea, and she can stay quietly in her room all day. Tian's parents are engaged in literary work, and they are naturally overjoyed to see their daughter addicted to literature. They not only support women in book reserves, but also mobilize their friends in the literary world to guide their daughters.

Although they have eaten hundreds of meals, they are among the best "evergreen trees" and famous literary masters in the literary world. Tian Xiaofei's literary skills were greatly improved when he was young.

When his poetic career was smooth sailing, Tian Xiaofei also made a detailed plan for his life. From the age of seven, she caught a glimpse of the quiet and far-reaching unnamed lake in Peking University, and her yearning for Peking University was out of control.

In order to be admitted to Peking University as soon as possible and go to the holy land of poetry in his heart, even if Tian Xiaofei has more talent, he will make more efforts than ordinary people. She is diligent in class, has laid a solid foundation for her own literature, and is even more fascinated by the prose and poetry collections of famous Chinese and foreign scholars.

God helps those who help themselves. /kloc-at the age of 0/3, Tian Xiaofei was successfully admitted to Peking University, becoming one of the youngest students in the history of Peking University.

At that time, the idol of this "prodigy" was the famous poet Haizi. Before going to Peking University, she made a special trip to ask Haizi what her poems were like. Haizi replied: "If you can continue to write poetry, the future is limitless." This later became the motivation for Tian Xiaofei to insist on writing poems.

The good times didn't last long. 1989, Haizi committed suicide. This made Tian Xiaofei deeply puzzled: Why did the man who insisted on writing poetry give up writing poetry first?

What is the meaning of poetry? Insist or die? With these questions, Tian Xiaofei decided to leave the motherland and go abroad to explore the true meaning of life and poetry.

Meet love

Tian Xiaofei, 20, chose the literature department of Harvard University, the world's top university, as her first stop for further study. She intends to precipitate herself in this more intense literary environment than China.

Yu Wensuo 'an appeared in Tian Xiaofei's life at this time, but the difference is that he is twenty years older than her. The status is also very different. When we first met, he was her doctoral supervisor and she was his student.

Yuwen Suoan, like Tian Xiaofei, has an almost crazy passion for poetry and literature and an insatiable thirst for knowledge. In particular, he has a strong interest in China's classical literature since he was a child.

This interest directly led to his later works dealing with China culture. At the same time, his achievements in Chinese learning are immeasurable and he has a very high position in Harvard University.

Out of love for China culture, Yuwen Suoan soon noticed Tian Xiaofei, a China student in his class. After spending some time together, he found that Tian Xiaofei not only had high attainments in classical literature, but also reached the peak in poetry. Plus, she studies hard and has a lot of knowledge. Sooner or later, Yuwen Suoan can't help feeling for this young female student in China.

But at that time, as a teacher, Yu Wensuo 'an had personal feelings with students, which was undoubtedly immoral. Therefore, during his doctoral studies in Tian Xiaofei, he kept this love in his heart and tried his best to guide her academically.

Tian Xiaofei is also very grateful to his teacher and admires his talent. They have a secret love affair.

After Tian Xiaofei graduated, she boldly expressed her love to Yu Wensuo 'an, and they soon got together. At that time, Tian Xiaofei still faced a very big problem: parents and nationality.

First, she flew back to China to convince her parents that she was going to marry a man in her fifties. Her parents respected Tian Xiaofei's choice and expressed their agreement and support. Later, Tian Xiaofei changed his nationality and stayed with Yu Wensuo 'an.

At that time, this move caused quite a stir in China's literary world. Some people pointed out that Tian Xiaofei was "unpatriotic". But how can Tian Xiaofei care about other people's eyes?

For her, she has a country in her heart, and her research direction is also the history of China classical literature. Even if she changed her nationality and became an American nationality, what remains unchanged in her bones is the blood of China people.

After marriage, Tian Xiaofei and Yuwen Suoan lived happily together.

Can't say I don't envy genius. But often people can only see the genius of genius, but they can't see the thousands of efforts behind it. How many days and nights, they study their situation before work, sleepless; How many dim lights, they never give up and forge ahead. Tian Xiaofei's success is inevitable, because only hard work is the best way to achieve a person.