This competition has been registered before. If you quit, it will also be a blow to your child. What should you do? How can I restore my daughter's confidence? It doesn't matter whether I am promoted or not. As long as my daughter can successfully complete the performance, I will be satisfied, at least reducing the harm to the children! It is not good to quit directly at this time. One is to directly deny the child, which is also a blow. The other is to let children escape and give up when they encounter difficulties in the future? But if you can't say it after going up, it will be the heaviest blow and injury! I am very entangled, and I have been thinking about this problem in my mind, trying to find the most suitable way ... Many things have happened, and then a miracle really happened-my daughter not only recovered her confidence, but also successfully advanced through hard work. ......
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Two days ago, I was busy dealing with the leftover goods in the store. My daughter has been at my grandmother's house and caught a cold. /kloc-On the evening of May 0/3, I went back to listen, and her voice was hoarse. To tell the truth, I will take part in the competition the next day. I was more or less worried, but I didn't say anything in front of my daughter. I just comforted her to drink more water and rest for one night. I am also looking forward to really recovering the next day!
Since the game starts at 8: 30, I have to get to Zaozhuang, so I have to get up at 6: 00 the next morning. After I woke up my daughter, my heart thumped, and my hoarse voice became worse when she spoke. At that time, my daughter's first reaction was particularly anxious and worried. To tell the truth, I only have comfort and don't know what to do. I told my daughter to drink more water. I just got up now and will be fine soon. After putting on my makeup, I hurried to the stadium.
My daughter reads children's poems every day and records them. In the second study, the staff uploaded them to the reading space and sent them to parent schools all over the country. Many friends also like her voice. It sounds good to me. It should be sweet. Today, my daughter is no exception, but she stopped after reading one sentence. She said, "It's terrible!" "I don't seem to have the courage to read on, and my previous self-confidence has disappeared without a trace.
My daughter was in a bad mood all the way, and she was particularly distressed! If not, I believe my daughter will do well! The result of the competition is not important, but it is important to get exercise and growth in the process. However, if the daughter is not promoted in this state, the child will be very sad and think that his strength has not been brought into play. So I kept joking all the way, teasing her and her sister. It happened that my voice was very bad these days, so I brought my golden voice and gave her a small piece, hoping to get better.
Although it tasted terrible, my daughter insisted on eating it. After a while, I said, "honey, I hear your voice much better than before." It seems really effective! " I'm sure it will be all right after a while. My niece then asked me, "Aunt, what if I can't arrive on time?" I said to them, "It doesn't matter whether I get promoted or not. This is just a performance. You should just come for fun. If you get promoted, you will be promoted. If you don't get promoted, I think you are also very good. Do you think I can't attend yet? "I estimate that going in will be ejected." Then they laughed.
The niece practiced involuntarily in the car, but the daughter didn't want to talk, so she stopped after saying a word. At this time, I'm a little worried. I know she is idle, but if she doesn't have the courage to say it now, the game will definitely be worse. I'm not worried about not getting promoted, but I'm worried that my children will be hit and hurt internally? So I said to my daughter, "honey, you can speak slowly and quietly, and you will be fine soon." Now the voice is obviously much better, and my mother believes that she will recover completely when she gets there. And the judges will also watch the comprehensive stage performance. Don't worry, come on! "
Then I stopped looking at them and ignored their existence, but chatted with my husband. At this time, they are all practicing by themselves, and their daughters are practicing in a low voice over and over again. At this time, I am also secretly happy. At least I dare to say it. With courage and confidence, I will get better.
We arrived at the stadium soon. Parents are not allowed to enter the stadium in this competition. Ten children come in groups according to the entry numbers in advance. Besides the judges, the teacher is the camera. In that case, to tell the truth, even adults will be nervous, not to mention children. The judges are first-class broadcasters with a particularly high professional level. This should be a very formal competition with a particularly high gold content!
You can watch the live broadcast directly on your mobile phone. I see that many children have been eliminated. So I know more about the difficulty this time, but at the same time, I'm glad that the regular competition will be more meaningful! In order to achieve the goal of really exercising children! Daughter, in this special situation? I have to find a way to relax her and give her confidence and courage.
The game will start soon. Ten people have entered the first round. Many parents take their children to look inside the glass door. In fact, trying not to let the children see it at this time can only increase the sense of tension. I take them to a corner where they can rest, where they play games. I keep looking for ways in my mind, and I plan to use the right time to let my daughter practice like a game. My husband didn't approve of this idea when he found out, but my daughter's situation is quite special. What if she doesn't have the courage to break through now I will be even less confident when I go in! I still think this exercise is necessary!
So after playing for a while, I called them out. I said to them easily, "Did you have a good time? Let's get started. You walked a circle from beginning to end, and then continued to play. Can sister start first? " Because my niece is an expressive child, she can't wait long. She should be very happy at this time, and then my sister will start first. After my sister's performance, I naturally went to find my daughter. I didn't say much.
My daughter started practicing seriously, and the whole process was really natural. I saw her efforts, courage and persistence. To tell the truth, it is not as good as the original sound, and the overall effect is still good. After my daughter finished her performance, I said seriously and surprisingly, "Baby, that's amazing! Your voice seems to have recovered. It's sweet. Listen carefully. " At this time, my sister kept saying, "It's very kind of my sister." Sister seems to have learned to encourage. With our encouragement, we can see from her expression that her daughter should have found confidence!
Then I continued to let them play, and then I stopped talking about the game. Moreover, the middle daughter asked me to play with her, and I played with her for a while, which made her very happy, as if all the unpleasant things had been forgotten. Soon I was in the second group. My daughter was the third and my niece was the eighth in the second group. At that time, they were waiting in line to get in. I just took off their coats and smiled at them. Nothing else? At this time, my niece's mother sent WeChat, but I didn't pass it on to my niece. Because of her "encouragement", I guess the children are not nervous after reading it.
Soon I found my daughter. To tell the truth, I'm still nervous because I'm worried about her voice. Far away through the glass door, you can only see the general situation inside, but you can't hear the sound. I only saw my daughter walking on the stage calmly and naturally. When reciting, her eyes kept staring at the front, and her movements were particularly in place. I even forgot to watch the live broadcast on my mobile phone.
After the daughter finished reading, she heard the parents next to her say that this was a promotion! I was really excited at that time, not because my daughter was promoted, but because of her perseverance and courage.
I hope that through this incident, more parents will understand the magical role of encouragement and trust! There is also the importance of methods! If that day had been any other way, the consequences would have been different.
Of course, my niece also made it through. When I showed her the WeChat sent by her mother, I asked her, "What would you think if I showed it to you at that time?" She said: "It will definitely be more nervous!"
Then the niece said, "Aunt, you said you were here to play?" I smiled and said, "How did you feel after listening to it? Are you nervous? " They both said in unison, "I'm not nervous at all." Then I smiled, as if I understood my intention.
I believe that through this incident, my daughter will certainly gain a lot from it and understand that no matter what difficulties and setbacks she encounters? As long as you face bravely, persist hard, have confidence and motivation, all difficulties will be solved! And with my unremitting efforts, sometimes miracles really happen!
Tomorrow is the promotion match, only one week away, and the manuscript can't be repeated. Although my daughter still has many reading topics that she knew before, she is relatively familiar with them, and she should be very skilled with a little practice. But I think it's meaningful to compete for the sake of competition? We unanimously decided to choose a new theme. Although time is tight, it will also make children grow a lot from it, which is also a challenge and breakthrough for themselves!
Even if her daughter has a bad voice, she still insists on taking time to practice new manuscripts every day. After finishing her homework after school, she can only squeeze out a little time, reading from the back and playing music, and gradually finish it under such a tight time. Can you do it without heart? Whether my daughter can advance tomorrow. I believe I will benefit a lot from it. The result of the game is not important. What matters is what the children learn from it. What did you get? What growth is there invisibly? Baby, come on! In mom's heart, you are always the best!