Love can also be a personal matter.
There are trees in the south, don't worry; Han has a wandering girl, can't you think about it? .
Han is too broad to swim; Jiang Zhiyong, can't you think? .
The salary is wrong and the words are awkward; What is your son's horse? .
Han is too broad to swim; The river is so long that it is impossible to take a raft.
The salary is wrong and the words are awkward; The girl is getting married, so feed the foal quickly.
Han is too broad to swim; The river is so long that it is impossible to take a raft.
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-The Book of Songs Nan Zhou Hanguang
Du Fu has a poem, "March 3, sunny, beautiful by the Chang 'an River."
In most ancient poems, the waterside is a magical place to meet love, especially the Book of Songs. For example, Guan Ju, Jia Jian and Han Guang. In these three poems, the man met his favorite girl at the water's edge without exception, including my fair lady in Jiangzhou, the so-called woman on the Yishui side, and the unimaginable wandering girl on the Hanshui River. No matter how the outcome is, time flies, vicissitudes of life change greatly, in the rivers flowing from ancient times to the present, they will always leave their acacia.
I used to envy the life of the ancients. I didn't have to take a whole day of complicated courses since I was a child, and I didn't have to work hard in major enterprises as soon as I finished my studies. From then on, I began to live from nine to five. They can get up when the first sunshine shines into the window in the morning, do it at sunrise and rest at sunset. When you meet the right person, you can sing, recite poems and draw pictures to express your lovesickness. If two of a kind, it is a much-told story; If it is unrequited love, it can only be like a woodcutter in Han Guang-"can't think" and "can't help thinking".
Perhaps, love in poetry is mostly produced in this way.
It is said that the ancients were introverted, but I just don't think the ancients were as reserved as contemporary people. Like is like, like to speak out. Men are like this, and women are no exception. When Pan Yue, a handsome man in the Western Jin Dynasty, drove down the street, not only the girls expressed their love to him, but even the old woman was fascinated by his beauty and threw fruit at his car. By the time he got home, the car was full of fruit. The idiom "throwing fruit to earn money" tells the story of Pan Yue.
Of course, if you want to achieve the effect of throwing fruit into the car, you have to look good. Gentlemen like my fair lady, while girls like handsome guys. Pan Yue walked into the street and threw fruit at the car, because he was good-looking, and if he was ugly, it would be counterproductive. "Shi Shuo Xin Yu" records: "I am ugly or not, and I don't wear ornaments. It also resumed its effect (Pan), and Yue lingered, so the group spurned it and returned. "
"Thinking" refers to Zuo Si and Pan Yue's contemporary great writers. Zuo Si's fame spread far and wide because an article "Sandu Fu" once caused the phenomenon that "Luoyang paper is expensive". However, although Zuo Si is brilliant, he looks extremely ugly! It happened that he didn't know it himself. After listening to Pan Yue's story, he also wants to have a relationship. So, without any dressing up, he confidently pretended to be chic and went to the streets. A group of women saw him and leaned over to spit around him, so he had to go home depressed.
This story can be said to be a male version of "learning from the scriptures". However, it is not difficult to see that the way the ancients expressed their feelings was much simpler than ours.
Han Guangli's men are neither peerless nor famous writers. He is just an ordinary young woodcutter. One day he went out to chop wood and met a girl by the river. Love comes too fast, and men are in love. Recite this poem from your heart.
For example, Xu Zaisi, an essayist in Yuan Dynasty, wrote in Chun Qing: "If you don't miss life, you will miss life and life will hurt you." Chun Qing is written in a girl's tone, and the feelings revealed are both simple and beautiful. Once a girl didn't know what lovesickness was. Once she knew it, she got out of hand and suffered from lovesickness.
There is a lyric in Mao Amin's "Acacia": I am most willing to forget ancient poetry, and I despise Acacia most. I am afraid of being laughed at and looked down upon when I am in love. The symptoms of lovesickness in men and women are generally like this. "The body is like a cloud, the heart is like a flying catkin, and the gas is so weak."
On Han Guang, the woodcutter hurt not only lovesickness, but also unrequited love. As for why they are not together, it is not clear. Maybe the woman has another love, maybe she has married another woman, or maybe she just doesn't like him.
There is no reason to love, so there is no reason not to love. No matter how good that man is, he is not his own gourd ladle in 3 thousand weak water. "Once the sea was difficult for water, it was always amber." If I only love the clouds and rain in Wushan, then other beautiful clouds are just passers-by to me.
Let's take a look at the literal meaning of this poem.
The trees in Nanshan are so tall and big that you can't enjoy the cool and rest under them. There is a wandering girl on the Han River, and it is impossible to pursue her.
Poetry begins with a tree, but it is a metaphor for the secret love for wandering girls? . I can't rest under the big tree because it doesn't belong to me; I can't pursue the wandering girl in Hanjiang River, because she doesn't belong to me either. The Han River is surging, wide and wide, so it is impossible to cross it by raft. I can only look up at you from a distance and bear this yearning in my heart alone.
In my opinion, love doesn't have to be owned or together. Isn't it a pleasure to watch the people you love live a safe and happy life?
Mixed firewood and grass, cut thorns with a knife. The girl is getting married, so feed the horse quickly.
This passage accurately describes the woodcutter's inner monologue. The girl he loves is getting married. He has no jealousy or resentment, but fantasizes about becoming a girl's servant, feeding her horses and sending her to get married. Do your best to make the person you love happy. The feeling of admiration is so deep that it is touching and embarrassing at the same time.
The Han River is surging, with a wide surface, but it can't be crossed. It is the distance from the Han River, but it is also the distance from people's hearts.
There are also many different opinions about the identity of this "wandering girl". The most common and most people agree that she is a woman who has been taken away. Some people say that her status is higher than that of the woodcutter, so the woodcutter already thinks that she is unattainable and doesn't pursue her.
There is also a saying that the "wandering girl" is actually the goddess of Hanshui, which is explained by three Korean poets, and many people agree with this statement. The statement of the goddess of Hanshui adds a dreamy color to this poem. Although beautiful, it doesn't seem to conform to the consistent realistic style of The Book of Songs. Therefore, Han Guang has been passed down to this day and is still positioned as a realistic love poem of a woodcutter who has unrequited love for a girl.
Missing without response is boundless. In reality, maybe many people will choose to give up. Few people persist silently because of their obsession. The woodcutter's idea, though disappointed, is still beautiful.
I love you, that's just my business.