Meaning: If you are emotional, you will lose the Tathagata (Buddhism). If you are not emotional, you have failed her (love).
Cangyang Jiacuo is a born living Buddha, a famous poet in Tibet, but also a lover. He/Kloc-took over the Potala Palace from the people at the age of 0/5, and had been educated on the custom of marriage before that. Being a living Buddha makes it impossible for him to be with his lover, and family ties are not allowed to be secular.