Hello, classmates!
Do you know tolerance? Are you tolerant in life? Some students have conflicts with their classmates because of a little thing, and some students fight with others because of a little misunderstanding. This is an unhealthy heart and a virtue that lacks tolerance.
Tolerance is a noble moral quality and an attitude towards people. Modern life needs interpersonal communication, and a person who handles interpersonal relationships well can often achieve certain success through hard work; On the contrary, a person with tense interpersonal relationships may not be able to make small achievements with great efforts. It can be said that social communication ability is an important ability for human survival. And the ability of social communication is very important for tolerance and friendliness to others.
There is a story about the sun and the wind in Aesop's Fables, which tells that one day, the sun and the wind are arguing about who is more powerful. The wind said, "Of course it's me. Look at the old man in a coat below. I bet I can get him to take off his coat faster than you. " As he spoke, the wind began to blow violently towards the old man, hoping to blow his coat away. But the stronger the wind blows, the tighter the old man wraps up. Finally, the wind was so tired that the sun came out from behind the clouds and shone warmly on the old man. Before long, the old man began to wipe the sweat, and the sweat flowed more and more, so the old man took off his coat. At this time, the sun said to the wind, "gentleness and friendliness are always better than ferocity."
This fable means to treat your classmates and friends around you. If you do something bad with jealousy, make irresponsible remarks behind your back, or engage in sabotage activities to vent your dissatisfaction, the result will be terrible and out of control, not only hurting others, but also not good for yourself. On the contrary, if you treat your classmates, teachers, family and friends with respect, tolerance and friendliness, you can be happy in a friendly environment and give full play to your talents.
In reality, some outstanding children who have shown their talents since childhood have not achieved the same outstanding achievements when they grow up. The reason is that interpersonal relationships are not handled well, unsociable and narcissistic. As a result, they always feel that they haven't met anyone who appreciates their talents, but they haven't been able to play their talents, and some of them have spent their lives silently. Many successful people are mostly broad-minded. The so-called prime minister can punt in his stomach, and he can feel happy with these people, which makes people involuntarily willing to approach them, surround them and cooperate with them. So these people are easy to succeed.
Tolerance has the following manifestations:
1. Ability to understand and respect others.
Don't compete with others when encountering unprincipled problems.
Don't be jealous of others' achievements.
To cultivate the quality of tolerance, we should pay attention to the following points:
1. Have a correct evaluation of yourself and don't always feel that you are better than others.
2. Evaluate others' success from an objective standpoint and take others' achievements as the motivation to motivate yourself.
Try to ease the unpleasant scene, and don't say harsh words to others, so as not to deepen the contradiction.
Don't be jealous when you see that other students have better grades than yourself, otherwise it will only make you go downhill and it is difficult to make progress.
Students, let's learn tolerance.